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Joelus88
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I so get that! Although I'm not attracted to men in an emotional or physical sense. It's just the act of sex, some sort of taboo goes with it I suppose, I dunno. But kudos to the no label thing and being sexual!Kind of tosses a wrench into the poll but... none of the above?
Both my wife and I describe ourselves as sexual. Period. (We don't like the label stuff).
The most a label does is tell people we're open to the idea, or... we've "done stuff" with both sexes.
But really, it all depends on whether we're attracted to the other person first. And vice versa. I'm not *sexually* or romantically attracted to all the women that I meet. Some, yes. For the most part, though, no.
I'm not sexually or romantically attracted to all the men I meet. Some, yes. For the most part, no.
She answers the same way. Bi, straight, gay, poly, pan... if we had a dozen more labels, it would still be too confining -- and misleading -- in our way of thinking. For us? Sex is never a "defining" thing, not something that we "are" or "aren't." It's always just a happy option, something that we do.