plantanimalguy
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I mean they're trying to get someone who puts out. Works on us gay guys
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DogWhore4U
Citizen of Zooville
That middle one alludes exactly to my point. So you admit to your more active sexual drive than the times you actually have sex. Furthermore statistics on sex do not define the point I was making on a man's sex drive. Those statistics can have varying factors involved, such as work schedules, maybe things going on each each person's life that may effect intercourse.
None of which change the fact of a man's sexual needs, and the fact I was making to that point of meeting them.
DogWhore4U
Citizen of Zooville
Bi guys too lol! We make better women than real women do lol...pretty sad we have to do their job for themI mean they're trying to get someone who puts out. Works on us gay guys
Ok I will weigh in here but Im trying to stay neutral between the sexes. I myself dont do the dick pic thing as I keep that kinda pic only for a select few women and only for the ones I trust and know who request it from me. What we have to keep in mind is that men are from mars and women are from venus. We dont understand each other and probably never will. From my travels and observations throughout the net I have noticed that guys primarily post dick pick to attract people of the same sex. Not of the opposite sex. This seems to work well from the gay forums Ive seen and read. Mind you I am straight and love most things about the female part of our species. I have also found that the females who post vaginal (body) images of themselves (or stolen pics) do it to attract other females attention. Neither party (male or female) really do it to attract people of the opposite sex. Both parties are looking for some sort of recognition and they are selling themselves to the other party in the hope of praise or gratitude. Some could argue that this is due to low self esteem and some would argue that its an easy way to gain some attention. There are many phycological reasons why people do this but the question is ...... do we judge these people for what they show/do or do we just ignore them and do our own thing. Keep in mind NO 2 people are the same and everyone has their own way of perceiving things depending on the way we were raised and what we have been exposed to through our lives. Some people are fortunate to have had a good upbringing and some werent as fortunate for what ever reason. Regardless of the reasons we have to accept that there are many different types of people on this planet (8 billion to be exact) and what we see on these sites are just a drop in the ocean. What is right and what is wrong?????? What is right for one person can be seen as being wrong for another person and what is wrong for one person can be seen as being right for another. Its like the old case which went to court.... A realestate agent took a rental person to court for allegedly not cleaning a premises (after vacating) to the realestates satisfaction. The argument in court was "whats the definition of cleanliness". The ruling was "what is clean for one person is NOT necessarily clean for the other person". The case was found to be in the defendants favor. As it works out it appears that society is moving rapidly towards being LGBTIQ+ so one cant just assume that the dick OR vaginal pics posted is actually there to attract the attention of some one of the opposite sex. As a straight guy I think vaginas are quite ugly at the best of times and some tits are just wrong but that dosent stop me from wanting and loving them and appreciating the contours and pleasures that they bring me. I do appreciate it when a perfectly formed vagina comes into my sight and I dont believe in judging someone for sharing something that they are proud of. I personally dont like the sight of other mans genitals so I just dont look or get all wrapped up in the negative side of this topic. I believe each to their own but if we all took a chill pill and just look at what we want to look at and over look what we dont want to see then we can all move on and be happy. If one of these people who you are disgusted by message you then you have the option to ignore or block them. I cant see why all the drama exists and why people get so wrapped up in what other people do or dont do. We were all born nude so why is it that we have to hide ourselves and our bodies????? It all comes back to what we were taught from a very young age and this was passed down throughout generations. Society has become a bunch of prudes who is very ashamed of who we are. Society in general has no respect for each other or for themselves. Its all about me me me. Very few people are truly givers (majority are takers). If people want to be covered up and clothed then good for them. If people decide to undress and show their beautiful bodies then good for them. Im accepting either way. Maybe we all should be more accepting. Forcing/stalking, NOT taking no for an answer is wrong and should be nipped in the butt. There is nothing wrong with someone trying to make contact with you as long as everyone can be accepting of each others stance. If you DM a person and they dont respond or say they dont wish to chat with you then dont take it personally and leave them alone. After all there are many types or groups of people out there and a LGBTIQ+ (or straight person) might be offended by you approaching them. I know a gay person who is mortified of the idea of hugging a female even if he knows her and its only a hello hug. Sad I know but thats his fear or the like in life so we learnt to accommodate his fear (or whatever one wants to call it). Ive tried to be non judgmental so if you took an offence to my posting then I have to say sorry but I cant help you and I dont care and its your problem (NOT mine). Lets see what everyone thinks of what I have written. Try to stay open minded and have fun. 
Oh and BTW......... I dont think there is any place in life for forcing ones self onto any human or animal. It should be all consensual and in the best interest of both parties involved. Even in 3 sum, gangbangs, bukakkes, pet love, bdsm etc etc..........
Oh and BTW......... I dont think there is any place in life for forcing ones self onto any human or animal. It should be all consensual and in the best interest of both parties involved. Even in 3 sum, gangbangs, bukakkes, pet love, bdsm etc etc..........
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amorousdog5
Zooville Settler
...didn't I state outright that I have had relationships where my partner was lower sex than I? Obviously in those cases we would not be having sex as often as I might prefer, and yet I was quite happy with them for a time. I've never had one relationship that fell apart for sexual reasons, and one that fell apart despite excellent sexual compatibility (my first GF, the only thing we had in common was our strong sex drives)
The statistics may not make your point, but they do make my point quite exactly. The vast majority of successful relationships do not involve women servicing men daily, and so what you said was completely false.
allyfitz
Citizen of Zooville
That's the crux of the issue. The type of people that do this have -zero- care for others. They only care about what they want to do and don't have any respect for anyone else. They want to show everyone their dick... so they're going to. Your opinion, my opinion, someone else's opinion doesn't matter to them. Their desire to force people to see their dick is more important to them than respecting others.
It's not all bad for us though.. there is a slight benefit to this. Simple fact is when you see a profile like that... you know instantly what type of person they are. So they're really easy to avoid. You just have to accept that narcissists are going to be narcissists and learn to recognize them and avoid them... cause they're certainly not going to mature a little and learn to be considerate of anyone else.
I dont know anything about this user in particular, but the fact that he's decided for me that I need to see his dick... tells me everything I need to know.
Apparently you're unfamiliar with this concept we call 'consent'.
If I'm in a relationship with someone... I'm consenting to see their dick everyday.
Some random guy I dont know... no... I'm not consenting to having his dick in my face everyday.
DogWhore4U
Citizen of Zooville
Yeah when you wank your crank you're right on track there.
amorousdog5
Zooville Settler
Agreed. Nothing wrong with a little self-man-love!
DogWhore4U
Citizen of Zooville
"Consent" is a fabricated notion of politics meant to derail society from the natural course of nature. Breeding is completely normal and natural. A dog hops up and starts to hump, if the female doesn't like it she moves or fights, sometimes the male obeys and sometimes they don't.
Question isn't about consent or non-consent, it's about WHY (italics). If you could please indulge an ignorant guy like myself on what's hard about consent, and what determines why you would give consent or not, maybe men would have a better understanding on respecting women when it comes to this matter. Because in my mind your arguments and complaints are ridiculous, unmerited, lack logic and human understanding.
Is it hard for a woman to give consent or something? What makes you decide to give consent or not to?
DogWhore4U
Citizen of Zooville
Yes there is. You make yourself a recessive sissy with no man power like that. It's 20 times worse that mountain dew reducing your sperm count, to where you lose our on real cunt when the opportunity arises.
knotjen
Tourist
@DogWhore4U
That doesn't make any sense.
Seeing each other's body parts within a relationship of some kind involves consent. I chose to be with him, he chose to be with me.
A dick pic/avatar being shoved in my face from a total stranger doesn't involve consent at all. It's the equivalent of flashing strangers in a park. In fact, Texas and California call this cyberflashing and it's a now class-C misdemeanor. New Hampshire may have passed the same by now as they were working on such a law too.
And because many, many women feel similar as I do, the men who have dick-pic avatars and/or send unsolicited dick-pics in emails, are significantly reducing the number of women who might actually care they exist.
For many of us, this behavior is grating because of the lack of consent, my consent, to control my experience.
And it sucks to be discounted constantly and everywhere too. I know you'll struggle to see it like this because that's not your experience, and I totally get that.
But, a little thoughtfulness and maybe even a touch of empathy will go a long way.
That doesn't make any sense.
Seeing each other's body parts within a relationship of some kind involves consent. I chose to be with him, he chose to be with me.
A dick pic/avatar being shoved in my face from a total stranger doesn't involve consent at all. It's the equivalent of flashing strangers in a park. In fact, Texas and California call this cyberflashing and it's a now class-C misdemeanor. New Hampshire may have passed the same by now as they were working on such a law too.
And because many, many women feel similar as I do, the men who have dick-pic avatars and/or send unsolicited dick-pics in emails, are significantly reducing the number of women who might actually care they exist.
For many of us, this behavior is grating because of the lack of consent, my consent, to control my experience.
And it sucks to be discounted constantly and everywhere too. I know you'll struggle to see it like this because that's not your experience, and I totally get that.
But, a little thoughtfulness and maybe even a touch of empathy will go a long way.
amorousdog5
Zooville Settler
Guy doesn't believe in consent and apparently has toxic macho ideals when it comes to masturbation... yup, checking out. No point in continuing this conversation.
DogWhore4U
Citizen of Zooville
You have my thoughtfulness and understanding, but just know that I'm the kind of guy that would be only with a woman that also has sex with my friends, neighbors and random men. So you and the so-called majority of women you claim that see it you're way have zero chance of even a first date with me...and many many many men are exactly like me, which just means you're chances on a real date or being with the vast majority of men have just been reduced to zero.
You've got to meet a guy halfway and compromise on things, because being all you leaves no room for comparability with a guy and what he wants, seeks, and needs. You've got to learn to do for a partner, and not for yourself, otherwise it'll be a long lonely road.
allyfitz
Citizen of Zooville
Not just a matter of not believing in consent... but doesn't even understand the concept of it since me bringing it up lacks 'human understanding'... their words not mine.
DogWhore4U
Citizen of Zooville
That's right. A cunt is a hole, and a dick fills a hole. It's not rocket science. It's easier than 1 +1.
allyfitz
Citizen of Zooville
DogWhore4U
Citizen of Zooville
It goes both ways, not one or the other. It takes two to tango.
allyfitz
Citizen of Zooville
Your dick has a hole... a screw fills a hole... It's not rocket science. It's easier than 1 + 1.
So I guess you're ok with someone drilling a construction screw into your dick hole.
DogWhore4U
Citizen of Zooville
That's not natural or normal though. Sperm comes out of my dick hole, and sperm goes into your vagina hole, just like it is excreted from my testicles and is fertilized in your womb.
It's all a very very simple understanding of physics and biology. You must have missed that one when you were sleeping in highschool.
amorousdog5
Zooville Settler
@allyfitz Don't take him seriously. The reason I say there's no point in continuing the conversation is that when a person starts making such outrageous claims as "consent is a fabricated notion", they're either completely insane or just having some fun with you. Either way, talking to them won't be useful.
Unless you're bored.
Unless you're bored.
DogWhore4U
Citizen of Zooville
I resent that. We all know what consent is, what I am asking is why is it hard to consent and what determines hey lady to consent or not consent?@allyfitz Don't take him seriously. The reason I say there's no point in continuing the conversation is that when a person starts making such outrageous claims as "consent is a fabricated notion", they're either completely insane or just having some fun with you. Either way, talking to them won't be useful.
Unless you're bored.
What's hard about it? I'm provoking thought here because I am 100% positive not a single lady on here has the slightest clue on why they choose or not choose to give consent and why they even value it. It's an irrational fear with no logical foundation.
More than 80% of the men on here would be more than happy to have a long-term relationship with one of these women and probably find out that they're more than 90% compatible. Including guys with dick pics. Giving consent is not rocket science and the whole notion of even having to determine consent or non-consent isn't rocket science either. It's all about wanting to be in control it's nothing but a psychological matter of control over the opposite gender and an irrational fear for absolutely no reason.
What are you afraid of? You afraid of actually finding a man that's willing to share your intimacy and fetish?
So now we've boiled the argument down to the fact that women aren't afraid to see dicks, but they're afraid to give consent. Why?
Volare
Tourist
My advice for those type of guys isOnly show if the chick you’re talking to asks for a pic, that’s all there is to it. If she doesn’t ask then there’s a 99.9% chance she’s not interested in seeing it in the first place.
Well said.
I, however, LOVE dick pics. Because what I really want to see is the money shot so if you push your dick pic at me, I'm gonna ask for what I want to see.
I have g/fs who are so irritated at the dick pic thing, they're even mad at me for not lock-step hating it, so I usually just keep my mouth shut.
What I hate? Men with dick pic avatars are usually exceptionally boring, complete narcissistic and will tell any lie to get their dick needs on their time without any hint of friendship, or treating me like anything beyond a fuckdoll. It's about them, not a proverbial "us" and certainly not me.
For that reason, I'm 99.99% more likely to respond to a thoughtful message from an avatar picture like @xXSINNERXx than anything else, and very very likely to just block a dick-pic avatar writing "hey". On the whole, guys, unless you back it up with a lot of personality and actual offerings/time put in for friendship, don't do it.
You seem to be obsessed with that word... natural. What even is natural? Well, there's two main definitions, one of which is often misused.
Natural, meaning of or occuring in nature.
Natural, meaning procreative sex.
I see you're using some type of man-made artificial device to post to a forum on the interwebs. Do you think such would arise in an undisturbed order of nature? Since you've mentioned you're bisexual, I'm sure you've had sex at some point that did not, nor was intended to, create offspring. Either way you look at it, what you do is objectively unnatural. Yet you sit here and use "natural" as a justification for dick pictures, that's quite hypocritical.
If you want to be "natural" then go live entirely off the land, naked, in the barren planes of Africa away from civilization, because civilization itself more than often is the epitomy of what is unnatural. But if you want live with the civilized then there are expectations that are expected to be met, one of which is modesty.
BerneseLover
Tourist
I get this I'm a switch (top and bottom) Receiving a dick pick as the 1st message to a Conversation is THE largest turn off and I won't even reply to that, I need something that's actually engageable like similar hobbies, interests or something.
Volare
Tourist
Give consent? It's the third Tuesday of the fourth lunar cycle, so I choose to consent.
Not give consent? It's the third Tuesday of the fourth lunar cycle, BUT! Your armpits stink, so no consent.
What you see as arbitrary is the point. I'll spell it out for you: Why someone consents to you isn't relevant. What's relevant is it's their choice.
Now you're talkin'. You should just stick with that and leave your Troll half in the dank, stinky basement corner to argue with the other pedo-style lozers.
I'm quite cognizant of why and with whom I consent, and able to eloquently state it for you.
We really haven't. You've stated personal desires and opinions and asserted them as facts. An unsound argument, but quite revealing of deeper personality disorders.
So let me break it down. Again, as a woman, I'm not afraid to give consent. Quite the contrary: I hereby consent to dry-ass-fucking you with a baseball bat until you bleed rectally. After that, I'll tell you you don't understand consent and are too afraid to give it.
And a pox on me for feeding the trolls.
DogWhore4U
Citizen of Zooville
You're argument has some merit, and I agree with most of it. However it's conclusion on hypocrisy does not justify the foundation of your argument of "natural vs. unnatural", all you have done is hint at me being hypocritical, which does not prove or support your argument on naturality.
Let me ask you something; do you believe modesty is natural? You have implication that it wasn't yet also implied your value for it. Do you consider modesty to be natural?
Modesty is simply a notion of humanity akin to insecurity, fear, hatred, and an imposition upon the natural laws of science and humanity by ignorant politicians to control a society and make them abide by their rule of thumb...just like immorally imposing beastiality law.
Do you see dogs in clothes? Yet does that make them not modest? You asser that modesty and naturality are in conflict, well a dog with no clothes is both modest and natural, is it not? What sets humans apart from this basic observation?
amorousdog5
Zooville Settler
DogWhore4U
Citizen of Zooville
I feel that way with women, but with guys it's purely a sexual interest. I don't seek intimacy with a guy, but I do with a woman. So it varies for me, and I can see this from both perspectives.
knotjen
Tourist
@DogWhore4U
I’d see a little more thoughtfulness and empathy in what you’ve said if I saw a little more mutuality in the words you chose, but so far what I'm reading hovers around what the guy wants, seeks and needs. Maybe that’s not what you intend which is why I’m pointing it out to you.
You’re right, the women who feel as I do would have zero chance in being with you because of it. And that’s fine. If we cannot agree on how our relationship is to work, in all the ways that will mean for us as a couple, one or both of us will not consent and declare us incompatible. That’s how it works.
I don’t have to compromise on anything if I choose not to. Neither do you or anyone else. We’ll just be incompatible and not be together.
Most people do compromise on many things because they realize those particular things are far more important to their partner than it is for them, and they can live with that particular compromise. But if they can't live with that particular compromise, then that's it. Relationship over, or not started to begin with.
I’d see a little more thoughtfulness and empathy in what you’ve said if I saw a little more mutuality in the words you chose, but so far what I'm reading hovers around what the guy wants, seeks and needs. Maybe that’s not what you intend which is why I’m pointing it out to you.
You’re right, the women who feel as I do would have zero chance in being with you because of it. And that’s fine. If we cannot agree on how our relationship is to work, in all the ways that will mean for us as a couple, one or both of us will not consent and declare us incompatible. That’s how it works.
I don’t have to compromise on anything if I choose not to. Neither do you or anyone else. We’ll just be incompatible and not be together.
Most people do compromise on many things because they realize those particular things are far more important to their partner than it is for them, and they can live with that particular compromise. But if they can't live with that particular compromise, then that's it. Relationship over, or not started to begin with.
DogWhore4U
Citizen of Zooville
Ouch, my asshole hurts now lol