What is wrong with some men here and everywhere?

Kristy

Esteemed Citizen of ZV
I honestly think it's a side effect of a generation of men raised with unlimited instant porn access and limited to no face to face interactions with human women outside of family.
In many cases im sure lack of a positive male role model to base their interactions with females upon is also an issue.

I admit to being guilty of both, but I notice these things and try to do better. Try being the key word many days as I'm still learning to be social again and hold back my pit bull with the zoomies personality.

That said, Be it online or in the streets I can't help but notice how many men these days are, fucking retarded. Tik tokkers, influencers, copy paste unoriginal wanna be rappers and 40 something 15 year olds run rampant trying to do anything but get a real job.

Idiocracy warned us all, BUT WE DIDN'T LISTEN!!
Your entire comment sums up a few different problems very well. You said a lot of things needing to be said, and don't get said often enough, especially your third paragraph. Thank-you for all that.
 
I'm gonna disagree with a lot of teh "guys are just visual" sorta thing. Humans are all visual to some degree and while there are some chemical variation between teh sexes i don't think that's a "valid" one, at least to explain this. A large part of it this issue is what 420 said we have an easy of access to sexual content adding onto a host of other issues generally under teh umbrella of "toxic masculinity" and make no mistake if the internet or any sort of easily accessible service was in place 50 years ago there would still be guys thinking with their dicks solely. We are on a site that's about sex and sexuality and some folks that's all it is, for others it's just community and finding like minded folks and sex really isn't teh focus as much as teh sexuality part, and then there lots of us that it's both. The mixing of all that is gonna be rough sometimes.


I'm a gay guy and i like doggos so like teh handle and profile will start there, but in time i hope my profile and history will include more than that to show off teh other side. I really don't know what it's 100% like to be a lady online but i am empathetic to teh deluge of "lets <XXX>" as opening lines. Complicated topics have complicated answers there's no 1 thing that explains teh current "meta" just gotta navigate as best we can :) *hugs*
 

420Fatty

Esteemed Citizen of ZV
Your entire comment sums up a few different problems very well. You said a lot of things needing to be said, and don't get said often enough, especially your third paragraph. Thank-you for all that.
No worries, just doing what I always do, Say whatever I want.
I've noticed that the only people who get offended by this are those why fit whatever parameters I verbally bull's-eye.
Sorry haven't been around, life is, life.
 

420Fatty

Esteemed Citizen of ZV
I'm gonna disagree with a lot of teh "guys are just visual" sorta thing. Humans are all visual to some degree and while there are some chemical variation between teh sexes i don't think that's a "valid" one, at least to explain this. A large part of it this issue is what 420 said we have an easy of access to sexual content adding onto a host of other issues generally under teh umbrella of "toxic masculinity" and make no mistake if the internet or any sort of easily accessible service was in place 50 years ago there would still be guys thinking with their dicks solely. We are on a site that's about sex and sexuality and some folks that's all it is, for others it's just community and finding like minded folks and sex really isn't teh focus as much as teh sexuality part, and then there lots of us that it's both. The mixing of all that is gonna be rough sometimes.


I'm a gay guy and i like doggos so like teh handle and profile will start there, but in time i hope my profile and history will include more than that to show off teh other side. I really don't know what it's 100% like to be a lady online but i am empathetic to teh deluge of "lets <XXX>" as opening lines. Complicated topics have complicated answers there's no 1 thing that explains teh current "meta" just gotta navigate as best we can :) *hugs*
Not gonna lie, saw your profile pic, read the name and instantly thought, "I could teach him how to be a lady online"

Yes I'm dumb, but I'm also full of fun.
 

Valkiria

Tourist
Okay this is a serious question for all the guys out there that put their own dick pic as their profile picture....and then try to find a woman to chat or meet. Do you really think women like this? First thing to see from you is your small ugly hairy dick? Is here a woman that likes this? What do you guys expect from this? That some woman start to chat with you because of your dick pic? Did it ever work out for you?

Then the other thing are the guys in some threads that react to a video like "oh look how the slut is taking it" ... "i bet the whore would like my dick too" ... i mean holy shit we all hope to see many more women having sex with dogs so we can appreciate the content...and some woman may see this bullshit comments and think...no way i keep this totally private because of idiots like this. I mean yeah maybe there are some woman that like to be degraded like this but i think that is the minority.

I mean do whatever you want and act like you want but i really ask myself if you get anything out of this behaviour.
So clear, so in place!
Like I said it.
Often a guys with dick pics a PM me and every time I tell them that it would be wise move of them to change the avatar pic. And guess? They just disappear. It is not a tragedy that they are stupid, the real tragedy is that they want to stay stupid.
 

Ran

Tourist
BANNED USER
So clear, so in place!
Like I said it.
Often a guys with dick pics a PM me and every time I tell them that it would be wise move of them to change the avatar pic. And guess? They just disappear. It is not a tragedy that they are stupid, the real tragedy is that they want to stay stupid.
😂 Great move. I like that.
 

feralpixie

Tourist
I figure a large portion of guys look at this as a purely pornographic space rather than a community? Sorry btw if I'm just echoing what's already been said. If someone comes here just for the filth, then there's probably a strong caveman brain drive to show you're part of or support that assumed porno collective rather than something that might be considered a little more "socially acceptable".
 

humananimal

Esteemed Citizen of ZV
I want an Avatar to show what he/she finds interesting.
That’s why my avatar is my T-shirt with a cow. Before that it was a picture of a beautiful cow :
 

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420Fatty

Esteemed Citizen of ZV
I figure a large portion of guys look at this as a purely pornographic space rather than a community? Sorry btw if I'm just echoing what's already been said. If someone comes here just for the filth, then there's probably a strong caveman brain drive to show you're part of or support that assumed porno collective rather than something that might be considered a little more "socially acceptable".

Can't it be both? Giving into those primal urges is fun. Then again so is having a real conversation about comics, music, cooking, nature, that thing which you, the person reading this, likes.
 
Personally, I don't mind seeing women members post pics of their juicy bits or use a sexy pic for an avatar. But then I'm a straight guy. Naturally and as you would expect dick pics from male members don't do anything for me. Can't say I've ever used a pic of any part of myself for an avatar or sent anyone an unsolicited dick pic. But then again, it's not as if I've gotten any compliments for the avatar I'm using either. Most of the avatar compliments appear to be from men to women showing a sexy body part either nude or clothed.
 

Theunis323

Zooville Settler
It would just be even worse looking at someone's hairy arsehole or fake booblift and tummy tuck as a profile picture, but yah, what can we say.
 
I have a dick pic and its worked out pretty fine to me. I am also a solid conversationalist. I enjoy people in real life.

Alternately, I am suspect of a profile who has an avi pic of someone who we all KNOW is not really them yet they want to be taken seriously. It is ultimately about the conversation points and the ability to illustrate in interest beyond sex. Let's also point out that MANY of the members here are in places that are not generally accessible for the forum audience they may chat with daily.

Bringing it back, I say...just be normal and have something to say beyond "oohhhh, that bitch has a hot pussy dripping with dog cum". SMH

Conversation 101 is not that difficult.
 

Wolfspirit

Zooville Settler
Okay this is a serious question for all the guys out there that put their own dick pic as their profile picture....and then try to find a woman to chat or meet. Do you really think women like this? First thing to see from you is your small ugly hairy dick? Is here a woman that likes this? What do you guys expect from this? That some woman start to chat with you because of your dick pic? Did it ever work out for you?

Then the other thing are the guys in some threads that react to a video like "oh look how the slut is taking it" ... "i bet the whore would like my dick too" ... i mean holy shit we all hope to see many more women having sex with dogs so we can appreciate the content...and some woman may see this bullshit comments and think...no way i keep this totally private because of idiots like this. I mean yeah maybe there are some woman that like to be degraded like this but i think that is the minority.

I mean do whatever you want and act like you want but i really ask myself if you get anything out of this behaviour.
Places like this tend to attract a fuck-ton of gross fetishist, misogynistic pigs (no offense to pigs) looking for women to dominate and use. Something I will never be able to relate to in any way, shape or form.
 

knotjen

Tourist
This conversation happens frequently on many forums/discussion sites.

While I mostly use a person’s posting history to form an opinion of them online, certainly their avatar choice starts that off. If it’s a dick pic, it’s very likely I won’t bother looking at their posting history at all and stop right there.

Sending an unsolicited dick pic or using one as an avatar is akin to flashing - which is nothing short of creepy, rapey, presumptuous, things like that.

If they’re in my inbox, there’s mostly an imposition - I’m expected to compliment it, or respond by saying what I’d like to do with it, or maybe return the favor with pictures of my parts.

Pass, hard pass, to all of it.

The guys who say things like "i bet the whore would like my dick too" are pretty much announcing they are the most undesirable men on the planet, at least for me.

Hard pass to that too.
 

knotjen

Tourist
Places like this tend to attract a fuck-ton of gross fetishist, misogynistic pigs (no offense to pigs) looking for women to dominate and use. Something I will never be able to relate to in any way, shape or form.

That's because we're often viewed as life support systems for whatever body part they fetishize and want to slobber on "as a service" to us.

I used to run into that daily on fetlife before I closed my account permanently.

(unsolicited) "Hello Mistress. I wish to be your slave and service your every whim. You may put me in permanent chastity and peg me daily for your pleasure."

(me) "Interesting, however I am looking for a service slave. My kitchen needs cleaning."

(Them) -=-=-= crickets =-=-=-

While on fet I belonged to a group local to me and they met monthly. While I very much enjoyed the company of the handful of regulars, the passer-throughs who walked in dick first got annoying rather quickly.

One young guy walked up to me out of the blue and simply said "I like GILFs with saggy tits."

I laughed so hard in his face I actually felt bad. Well, not that bad, maybe just a little.

But daaaaaaaaaaamn. Sadly, guys like him weren't that uncommon either. That's why I just got tired of it and closed my account and stopped participating in munches. Made a few friends there though, and we still get together outside the realm of fet and the munch. Because, you know, we actually invested the time to get to know one another and became friends.
 

Diudischki

Tourist
From the outsider's perspective of someone with no sexual, platonic, or aesthetic attraction to humans of any gender, this thread has been a very... interesting read.

Humans are such strange creatures. As strange socially as they are bizarre aesthetically. I guess odd behavior is to be expected of the only mammal with no snout. I can't get over that, flat faces are so goddamn weird.
 

Wolfspirit

Zooville Settler
From the outsider's perspective of someone with no sexual, platonic, or aesthetic attraction to humans of any gender, this thread has been a very... interesting read.

Humans are such strange creatures. As strange socially as they are bizarre aesthetically. I guess odd behavior is to be expected of the only mammal with no snout. I can't get over that, flat faces are so goddamn weird.
Strange creatures...I feel ya. I've felt the same way most my life.
 
No reason to, because there's nothing wrong with making love to your mate regardless if they are a human animal or non-human animal.
well actually yes there is. infact quite abit. thats why your here. on a taboo site to watch people fuck and get fucked. knowing its bad. i know its bad. so im bad. you know it is to so your just like me. however comparing the two. one is VASTLY worse than the other. no one who willing puts animal cocks in their mouths should get any right to complain about what people do with there's
 

Theunis323

Zooville Settler
Places like this tend to attract a fuck-ton of gross fetishist, misogynistic pigs (no offense to pigs) looking for women to dominate and use. Something I will never be able to relate to in any way, shape or form.
And my point is that I won't know if its the guy's dick talking through his mouth or his dick doing the talking 🙆‍♂️
 

gfad69

Citizen of Zooville
Okay this is a serious question for all the guys out there that put their own dick pic as their profile picture....and then try to find a woman to chat or meet. Do you really think women like this? First thing to see from you is your small ugly hairy dick? Is here a woman that likes this? What do you guys expect from this? That some woman start to chat with you because of your dick pic? Did it ever work out for you?

Then the other thing are the guys in some threads that react to a video like "oh look how the slut is taking it" ... "i bet the whore would like my dick too" ... i mean holy shit we all hope to see many more women having sex with dogs so we can appreciate the content...and some woman may see this bullshit comments and think...no way i keep this totally private because of idiots like this. I mean yeah maybe there are some woman that like to be degraded like this but i think that is the minority.

I mean do whatever you want and act like you want but i really ask myself if you get anything out of this behaviour.
Do women really think it's attractive when the only thing people hear from them is whining and bitching and demanding everything be the way they want it?? Don't they know most dudes aren't after high maintenance princesses? Did their parents spoil them too much?? Why does it matter to them what other people do??

All I can say is I'm currently talking to three women and another dude on telegram so maybe cry about it some more hun, I'm sure iyoure not just going to alienate everyone 🤷🏼‍♂️

And before anyone cries to the mods, I'm not targeting women just making an example... She only mentioned men but I've met quite a few chicks with nude or pornographic profile pics but she doesn't mention them because it isn't about the pics it's about finding something to whine at men about isn't it hun?? 🧐
 
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gfad69

Citizen of Zooville
well actually yes there is. infact quite abit. thats why your here. on a taboo site to watch people fuck and get fucked. knowing its bad. i know its bad. so im bad. you know it is to so your just like me. however comparing the two. one is VASTLY worse than the other. no one who willing puts animal cocks in their mouths should get any right to complain about what people do with there's
That's you mate, if you get off to feeling like a psycho then that's all you... Not all of us are like that ya fucking weirdo
 
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