Kristy
Esteemed Citizen of ZV
Your entire comment sums up a few different problems very well. You said a lot of things needing to be said, and don't get said often enough, especially your third paragraph. Thank-you for all that.
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What is wrong with some men here and everywhere?
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Knot4bitchboi
Tourist
I'm gonna disagree with a lot of teh "guys are just visual" sorta thing. Humans are all visual to some degree and while there are some chemical variation between teh sexes i don't think that's a "valid" one, at least to explain this. A large part of it this issue is what 420 said we have an easy of access to sexual content adding onto a host of other issues generally under teh umbrella of "toxic masculinity" and make no mistake if the internet or any sort of easily accessible service was in place 50 years ago there would still be guys thinking with their dicks solely. We are on a site that's about sex and sexuality and some folks that's all it is, for others it's just community and finding like minded folks and sex really isn't teh focus as much as teh sexuality part, and then there lots of us that it's both. The mixing of all that is gonna be rough sometimes.
I'm a gay guy and i like doggos so like teh handle and profile will start there, but in time i hope my profile and history will include more than that to show off teh other side. I really don't know what it's 100% like to be a lady online but i am empathetic to teh deluge of "lets <XXX>" as opening lines. Complicated topics have complicated answers there's no 1 thing that explains teh current "meta" just gotta navigate as best we can
*hugs*
I'm a gay guy and i like doggos so like teh handle and profile will start there, but in time i hope my profile and history will include more than that to show off teh other side. I really don't know what it's 100% like to be a lady online but i am empathetic to teh deluge of "lets <XXX>" as opening lines. Complicated topics have complicated answers there's no 1 thing that explains teh current "meta" just gotta navigate as best we can
*hugs*
420Fatty
Esteemed Citizen of ZV
No worries, just doing what I always do, Say whatever I want.
I've noticed that the only people who get offended by this are those why fit whatever parameters I verbally bull's-eye.
Sorry haven't been around, life is, life.
420Fatty
Esteemed Citizen of ZV
Not gonna lie, saw your profile pic, read the name and instantly thought, "I could teach him how to be a lady online"I'm gonna disagree with a lot of teh "guys are just visual" sorta thing. Humans are all visual to some degree and while there are some chemical variation between teh sexes i don't think that's a "valid" one, at least to explain this. A large part of it this issue is what 420 said we have an easy of access to sexual content adding onto a host of other issues generally under teh umbrella of "toxic masculinity" and make no mistake if the internet or any sort of easily accessible service was in place 50 years ago there would still be guys thinking with their dicks solely. We are on a site that's about sex and sexuality and some folks that's all it is, for others it's just community and finding like minded folks and sex really isn't teh focus as much as teh sexuality part, and then there lots of us that it's both. The mixing of all that is gonna be rough sometimes.
I'm a gay guy and i like doggos so like teh handle and profile will start there, but in time i hope my profile and history will include more than that to show off teh other side. I really don't know what it's 100% like to be a lady online but i am empathetic to teh deluge of "lets <XXX>" as opening lines. Complicated topics have complicated answers there's no 1 thing that explains teh current "meta" just gotta navigate as best we can
Yes I'm dumb, but I'm also full of fun.
Knot4bitchboi
Tourist
i dont think i would like to be a lady online, very happy being a geeky pup
Valkiria
Tourist
So clear, so in place!
Like I said it.
Often a guys with dick pics a PM me and every time I tell them that it would be wise move of them to change the avatar pic. And guess? They just disappear. It is not a tragedy that they are stupid, the real tragedy is that they want to stay stupid.
Great move. I like that.
valleyyote
Citizen of Zooville
Somebodies gonna really love that. Geeky pups are awesome btw.i dont think i would like to be a lady online, very happy being a geeky pup
420Fatty
Esteemed Citizen of ZV
That's fine too.i dont think i would like to be a lady online, very happy being a geeky pup
feralpixie
Tourist
I figure a large portion of guys look at this as a purely pornographic space rather than a community? Sorry btw if I'm just echoing what's already been said. If someone comes here just for the filth, then there's probably a strong caveman brain drive to show you're part of or support that assumed porno collective rather than something that might be considered a little more "socially acceptable".
humananimal
Esteemed Citizen of ZV
420Fatty
Esteemed Citizen of ZV
Can't it be both? Giving into those primal urges is fun. Then again so is having a real conversation about comics, music, cooking, nature, that thing which you, the person reading this, likes.
DarkFox
Zooville Settler
I dunno about ‘most’ but a fair few yes.
DarkFox
Zooville Settler
An opinion*
likestowatchinnc
Tourist
Personally, I don't mind seeing women members post pics of their juicy bits or use a sexy pic for an avatar. But then I'm a straight guy. Naturally and as you would expect dick pics from male members don't do anything for me. Can't say I've ever used a pic of any part of myself for an avatar or sent anyone an unsolicited dick pic. But then again, it's not as if I've gotten any compliments for the avatar I'm using either. Most of the avatar compliments appear to be from men to women showing a sexy body part either nude or clothed.
Theunis323
Zooville Settler
It would just be even worse looking at someone's hairy arsehole or fake booblift and tummy tuck as a profile picture, but yah, what can we say.
Sobaki_Fox
Tourist
Yeah, just the other day I saw a recent thread labeled "women, show us your buttholes!"
that's just sad. it was even more cringe with the emojis he added, bleh.
that's just sad. it was even more cringe with the emojis he added, bleh.
blackbull4life
Tourist
I have a dick pic and its worked out pretty fine to me. I am also a solid conversationalist. I enjoy people in real life.
Alternately, I am suspect of a profile who has an avi pic of someone who we all KNOW is not really them yet they want to be taken seriously. It is ultimately about the conversation points and the ability to illustrate in interest beyond sex. Let's also point out that MANY of the members here are in places that are not generally accessible for the forum audience they may chat with daily.
Bringing it back, I say...just be normal and have something to say beyond "oohhhh, that bitch has a hot pussy dripping with dog cum". SMH
Conversation 101 is not that difficult.
Alternately, I am suspect of a profile who has an avi pic of someone who we all KNOW is not really them yet they want to be taken seriously. It is ultimately about the conversation points and the ability to illustrate in interest beyond sex. Let's also point out that MANY of the members here are in places that are not generally accessible for the forum audience they may chat with daily.
Bringing it back, I say...just be normal and have something to say beyond "oohhhh, that bitch has a hot pussy dripping with dog cum". SMH
Conversation 101 is not that difficult.
Wolfspirit
Zooville Settler
Places like this tend to attract a fuck-ton of gross fetishist, misogynistic pigs (no offense to pigs) looking for women to dominate and use. Something I will never be able to relate to in any way, shape or form.
knotjen
Tourist
This conversation happens frequently on many forums/discussion sites.
While I mostly use a person’s posting history to form an opinion of them online, certainly their avatar choice starts that off. If it’s a dick pic, it’s very likely I won’t bother looking at their posting history at all and stop right there.
Sending an unsolicited dick pic or using one as an avatar is akin to flashing - which is nothing short of creepy, rapey, presumptuous, things like that.
If they’re in my inbox, there’s mostly an imposition - I’m expected to compliment it, or respond by saying what I’d like to do with it, or maybe return the favor with pictures of my parts.
Pass, hard pass, to all of it.
The guys who say things like "i bet the whore would like my dick too" are pretty much announcing they are the most undesirable men on the planet, at least for me.
Hard pass to that too.
While I mostly use a person’s posting history to form an opinion of them online, certainly their avatar choice starts that off. If it’s a dick pic, it’s very likely I won’t bother looking at their posting history at all and stop right there.
Sending an unsolicited dick pic or using one as an avatar is akin to flashing - which is nothing short of creepy, rapey, presumptuous, things like that.
If they’re in my inbox, there’s mostly an imposition - I’m expected to compliment it, or respond by saying what I’d like to do with it, or maybe return the favor with pictures of my parts.
Pass, hard pass, to all of it.
The guys who say things like "i bet the whore would like my dick too" are pretty much announcing they are the most undesirable men on the planet, at least for me.
Hard pass to that too.
Theunis323
Zooville Settler
Oh no, think that didn't looked well
knotjen
Tourist
That's because we're often viewed as life support systems for whatever body part they fetishize and want to slobber on "as a service" to us.
I used to run into that daily on fetlife before I closed my account permanently.
(unsolicited) "Hello Mistress. I wish to be your slave and service your every whim. You may put me in permanent chastity and peg me daily for your pleasure."
(me) "Interesting, however I am looking for a service slave. My kitchen needs cleaning."
(Them) -=-=-= crickets =-=-=-
While on fet I belonged to a group local to me and they met monthly. While I very much enjoyed the company of the handful of regulars, the passer-throughs who walked in dick first got annoying rather quickly.
One young guy walked up to me out of the blue and simply said "I like GILFs with saggy tits."
I laughed so hard in his face I actually felt bad. Well, not that bad, maybe just a little.
But daaaaaaaaaaamn. Sadly, guys like him weren't that uncommon either. That's why I just got tired of it and closed my account and stopped participating in munches. Made a few friends there though, and we still get together outside the realm of fet and the munch. Because, you know, we actually invested the time to get to know one another and became friends.
Diudischki
Tourist
From the outsider's perspective of someone with no sexual, platonic, or aesthetic attraction to humans of any gender, this thread has been a very... interesting read.
Humans are such strange creatures. As strange socially as they are bizarre aesthetically. I guess odd behavior is to be expected of the only mammal with no snout. I can't get over that, flat faces are so goddamn weird.
Humans are such strange creatures. As strange socially as they are bizarre aesthetically. I guess odd behavior is to be expected of the only mammal with no snout. I can't get over that, flat faces are so goddamn weird.
Wolfspirit
Zooville Settler
Strange creatures...I feel ya. I've felt the same way most my life.
Snooberslut
Lurker
your here because the idea of fucking animals is hot to you. humble yourself
amorousdog5
Zooville Settler
No reason to, because there's nothing wrong with making love to your mate regardless if they are a human animal or non-human animal.
Snooberslut
Lurker
well actually yes there is. infact quite abit. thats why your here. on a taboo site to watch people fuck and get fucked. knowing its bad. i know its bad. so im bad. you know it is to so your just like me. however comparing the two. one is VASTLY worse than the other. no one who willing puts animal cocks in their mouths should get any right to complain about what people do with there's
Theunis323
Zooville Settler
And my point is that I won't know if its the guy's dick talking through his mouth or his dick doing the talking
gfad69
Citizen of Zooville
Do women really think it's attractive when the only thing people hear from them is whining and bitching and demanding everything be the way they want it?? Don't they know most dudes aren't after high maintenance princesses? Did their parents spoil them too much?? Why does it matter to them what other people do??
All I can say is I'm currently talking to three women and another dude on telegram so maybe cry about it some more hun, I'm sure iyoure not just going to alienate everyone
And before anyone cries to the mods, I'm not targeting women just making an example... She only mentioned men but I've met quite a few chicks with nude or pornographic profile pics but she doesn't mention them because it isn't about the pics it's about finding something to whine at men about isn't it hun??
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gfad69
Citizen of Zooville
That's you mate, if you get off to feeling like a psycho then that's all you... Not all of us are like that ya fucking weirdo