How do I find a beast girlfriend?

I’m sure it’s been stated in the thread before but the unfortunate truth is that most of us that are available are so fucking scared to link up that it scuttles 90% of the potential meet cutes. I’m EXTREMELY game when it comes to connecting but I’ve been lied to by soooooo many men who end up just trying to have super basic hook ups that it often takes months or years of getting to know someone to build enough trust. I’ve more or less given up on meeting anyone decent at this point and I think a lot of other women are in the same boat.
 
I’m sure it’s been stated in the thread before but the unfortunate truth is that most of us that are available are so fucking scared to link up that it scuttles 90% of the potential meet cutes. I’m EXTREMELY game when it comes to connecting but I’ve been lied to by soooooo many men who end up just trying to have super basic hook ups that it often takes months or years of getting to know someone to build enough trust. I’ve more or less given up on meeting anyone decent at this point and I think a lot of other women are in the same boat.
This is too bad actually as there are nice people out there.
 
Ohh I know there are some real sweethearts here. I’ll admit to have posted that in a particularly sad moment last night. I know that if I’d been more persistent and active in the community over the years I’d have likely found my person by now. Fear has also been a big factor in missed opportunities.

My main malfunction is continuing to have relationships with non zoos that always end in heartbreak as I inevitably get more distant due to secretly being as close to zoo exclusive as a person can be without being entirely zoo exclusive. I would have already just simply adopted a dog of my own and settled down if not for my personal psychological need to be kept on the same social rung as my K9 partner. For that to work it requires that someone else is there to be the authority figure. It also means that the someone else understands and accepts that while we may be bonded, my k9 partner is my primary sexual mate. For a lot of guys playing second fiddle like that is a non-starter.

While I still feel my chances of happily ever after are slim to none, I’ll try and maintain an open mind. ❤️
 
Ohh I know there are some real sweethearts here. I’ll admit to have posted that in a particularly sad moment last night. I know that if I’d been more persistent and active in the community over the years I’d have likely found my person by now. Fear has also been a big factor in missed opportunities.

My main malfunction is continuing to have relationships with non zoos that always end in heartbreak as I inevitably get more distant due to secretly being as close to zoo exclusive as a person can be without being entirely zoo exclusive. I would have already just simply adopted a dog of my own and settled down if not for my personal psychological need to be kept on the same social rung as my K9 partner. For that to work it requires that someone else is there to be the authority figure. It also means that the someone else understands and accepts that while we may be bonded, my k9 partner is my primary sexual mate. For a lot of guys playing second fiddle like that is a non-starter.

While I still feel my chances of happily ever after are slim to none, I’ll try and maintain an open mind. ❤️
These are all valid points.
 
I’m sure it’s been stated in the thread before but the unfortunate truth is that most of us that are available are so fucking scared to link up that it scuttles 90% of the potential meet cutes. I’m EXTREMELY game when it comes to connecting but I’ve been lied to by soooooo many men who end up just trying to have super basic hook ups that it often takes months or years of getting to know someone to build enough trust. I’ve more or less given up on meeting anyone decent at this point and I think a lot of other women are in the same boat.
I sorta have a similar thought when it comes to meeting women. Not just regarding this topic, but in general. I see someone cute I'm attracted to on any site, and turns out they just want followers to boost their status or subscribers to pay for their OF or another site. The interest goes as far as a credit card.
 
If only there was a way to really get to know someone here and make sure our goals align. I never understood the whole "hook up and jet" thing, especially in the zoo community. Its so incredibly rare already. Makes me think those type of people are just into beast as a "dirty kink" . Wouldnt you want a zoo partner, potentially for life? Thats what I would strive for. Anything less than that is a waste of both parties time. So many zoos go through life, wishing for a normal one like everyone else. But theres just that whole pesky sexuality thing that makes us different. Are we not entitled to live a wonderful life, with a partner you can trust, a family and a nice house, just because of a different attraction? It just seems so unfair sometimes.
 
If only there was a way to really get to know someone here and make sure our goals align. I never understood the whole "hook up and jet" thing, especially in the zoo community. Its so incredibly rare already. Makes me think those type of people are just into beast as a "dirty kink" . Wouldnt you want a zoo partner, potentially for life? Thats what I would strive for. Anything less than that is a waste of both parties time. So many zoos go through life, wishing for a normal one like everyone else. But theres just that whole pesky sexuality thing that makes us different. Are we not entitled to live a wonderful life, with a partner you can trust, a family and a nice house, just because of a different attraction? It just seems so unfair sometimes.
I relate to this so hard! I hope when I finally meet my zoo partner it will be for life... I don't think I could do random hook ups, trust is way too important for me.
 
As an added detail, I can’t tell you how many times I’ve been shown a pic of someone’s supposed pet that appears in the top five google image search results for a given breed 🙃
You’d never find a single one of mine online. Got them under lockdown. I have texted a picture to another member on here, and if she posted it online, we’d be having words ;) (I highly doubt she would)
 
I think we all hope to find that one person who is the ying to our yang. I really connected to the comment about being too scared to meet up. I really don't want to move if I find someone either. Finding someone who is into it nearby, probably impossible.
If I found someone that I felt I could spend the rest of my life with, I would probably relocate providing I liked the area. I could never live in the desert or tropics tho, just in case some of you are getting ideas :p
 
9 out of 10 of the females here are simply here to masterbate or kink seek. There will be q very slim chance of a successful meet up here.

Go to other dating sites and leave clues that non zoos wouldn't pick up on. You may be surprised
What is one said clue… asking for a friend
 
9 out of 10 of the females here are simply here to masterbate or kink seek. There will be q very slim chance of a successful meet up here.

Go to other dating sites and leave clues that non zoos wouldn't pick up on. You may be surprised
I'm not looking for a beast girlfriend, but if any of the masturbating/kink-seeking females you say are hanging out here want to PM me, they're quite welcome. LOL.
 
As a guy that has been a fairly outgoing (on zoo sites) dog owner. Actively posting content with my studs. For over 15 years now.
I can say that the search for a zoo gf is not at all easy. Most of the people that contact me are other men. Or catfish. In fact throughout the years, I have only had maybe 5 real women contact me... and 3 of them were already married. Just wanting to have their first time with a dog. I have been so jaded toward the fake ladies on these sites that now... even having the studs as "bait" I rarely initiate conversation. Often assuming any girl being very up front about it, is a fake.

Living clear up in Alaska doesn't help, because the options are scarce here. Travel back and forth isn't the easiest thing either. Especially with dogs in tow.
 
*sigh*

OK. Look, I'm not saying this is you, but in my experience, usually when I hear a lady tell me I'm a "nice guy", it's her way of taking the easy way out, instead of actually trying to know who I am. :/

Please do correct me if I am wrong though.
Oh you're lucky then most of them just tell me I'm too fucking ugly to date and leave, though I got to admit that they're honesty is really refreshing most of the time.
 
Thanks for everyone sharing their perspective. I have a different outlook when it comes to zoo exclusive females. I wouldn’t have an issue playing second fiddle to their k9 lovers. I believe that if you find a male partner that understands your needs and desires, why can’t you have the best of both worlds.

I hope that most woman that enjoy the lifestyle would love to share their experiences with someone that understands their passion for petlove.
Personally I would rather a partner I can share every intimate moment together.
I understand that I may never meet my k9 Queen but I’d definitely love the opportunity one day.

Until that day I will continue my search for future partner. Thanks for listening take care
 
Same as others have suggested, my advice would be to try find a kinky partner, and introduce them to the idea,
Rather than waiting around for the perfect zoo partner to come along
Else you'll just get more lonely and maybe never meet anybody.

I've done it many times, I meet somebody, see them a few times then have a conversation about kinks.
Ask them what they still want to try, what they are embarrassed about, and what is the craziest porn they've watched.
They always ask the same in return and I simply say, I saw a porn with a dog and a woman.
Then just see how the react.
In one case the girl was disgusted and ask why I would watch something like that, do I actually like it?
I joked about it and moved on to something else.
In one case the girl got really excited, then took out her phone and showed me her favourite zoo porn..
So you never know.

The girl I'm with now is not zoo, but is kinky and enjoys to try new stuff.
I told her early on about my kink, and a few months later showed her some porn. She wasn't in to it, but accepted that I was. I then bought her a doggie dildo which has become her favourite toy, so much so that we are now looking at getting a bigger better k9 toy for her and she wants me to get a knot cock ring. Hearing her talk about how she wants to take the knot is a big turn on, even if she is only talking about a toy.
 
I'd be a dream come true to find myself a beast queen. Only one gf in my past knew about my strange fetish and she was okay with it but made it clear she would never try it. I have my fingers crossed to find someone but I know it's a pipe dream. I've only recently was able to be comfortable being open and social about this even though I've been lurking on this site and the old BF for many years.
 
@Janedoe - If you own a male dog and posted on this forum you were looking for other guys... YOU WOULD GET OVERWHELMED WITH RESPONSES. if you posted your address it would be like the scene from fight club where you open the door and theres guys who have been standing on the doorstep for days waiting for you to let them enter. "you dont want it bad enough get lost" SLAM..

in a month or two your front yard would look like a los angeles tent city and youd have the pick of the litter.

i mean if you have a dog and live in california let *ME* know. I know dozens of different dudes on here that want to meet you. ill be happy to be the gate keeper.. heh itll get them the fk out of my own business..
I’m a female in cali- I’d love to get to know you better and possibly become your bitch ;)
 
Finding partners who are into this is an interesting subject , for me at least because looking for ppl who are into this might be easier in the states or some more open minded western Eu countries . I live in eastern europe , in my country up till 2001 you would go to jail for simple being gay. So open dating is out , on sites such as this there is a forum section for different nations , the Romania thread is like dead , so not much chance even here. The "date normally and them warm them up" idea is much more dangerous i think , rejection and break up being least of your problems.
I am lucky i found my partner early in life , in fact he introduced me into this as well but the whole finding ppl like this idea is insane to me , the people i know personally who are into this i have found out all on accidental omissions and long beer induced nights. I think a lot of ppl become zoo exclusive because they dont want a relationship where u have to hide this , i couldnt live in one like that, sure there are some who never experienced attraction towards ppl but i think a wast majority have to do with this as well.
 
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