Yes it’s a vicious cycle. It gos on til we accept who we areThis is one of my biggest kinks but I go through these periods of feeling “weird”. Like sometimes I’ll go weeks forcing myself to watch regular porn, looking at fat asses when I’d really like see a fat knot. Does anybody else experience this?
That's always where I've struggled with it. It's a thing where I can so easily see an abusive situation developing due to an animal's inability to communicate in the interaction, but if they're clearly the ones initiating and acting it gets hard to argue any sort of harm occuring.Definitely happens. Understanding the difference between shame and guilt has helped me. And it's pretty easy to tell the doggo's that mount me when I offer myself up are into it. No one is getting hurt. That said I'm just getting mounted myself, offering and I don't force them.