Define asshole. Some of us can fall under that varying definition. (One person's asshole can be another person's normal.)people in this day and age that think being an asshole is acceptable behavior!!
Welcome to my lifeI am very good at what I do for work and made a very decent living doing it but I can't stand people looking over my shoulder and questioning everything I do.
How so?Sometimes people I know in real life (men and women) can't seem to get a hint that I don't like their presence, and instead of giving me some space they keep smothering me.. I HATE that.
I am inherently afraid to socialize. Like, if people come over to talk to me then I will talk with them but you can not expect me to take the initiative to go about and mingle. I do that, but only if its really necessary. This has gained me the reputation of being that super aloof, cold and cruel woman who only tolerates the company of a selected few. (In reality, nothing could be farther from the truth!)How so?
tell me about it lol I bought the new LG phone and in a week dropped it and shattered the screen. No insurance or Anything.. Using a old dinosaur phone for rn lolBuying a new phone and it stops working just a month later just because a new phone has come out.
I am inherently afraid to socialize. Like, if people come over to talk to me then I will talk with them but you can not expect me to take the initiative to go about and mingle. I do that, but only if its really necessary. This has gained me the reputation of being that super aloof, cold and cruel woman who only tolerates the company of a selected few. (In reality, nothing could be farther from the truth!)
So people(mostly men, some women) start putting extra effort into getting me to talk and mingle with them at public gatherings, like way too much effort which borders on harassment sometimes. I dont know if its my body language or how I speak that spurs them into action. Because of my well hidden introvert personality, I am unable to tell them that I am not avoiding them because I am "Playing hard to get" but its because they are being too intrusive and irritating and/or I don't find them interesting.
Hope that made sense....