Married men or women, a question for you?

I'm sorry to hear there's a lot of wives with jealousy issues. And it's not right to take it out on the dog by getting her fixed. Some people just don't grow up.

Edit: I'm just curious, how many of you have a marriage where your wife also fucks others guys while you fuck the dog?
 
Pillar said:
I'm sorry to hear there's a lot of wives with jealousy issues. And it's not right to take it out on the dog by getting her fixed. Some people just don't grow up.

Edit: I'm just curious, how many of you have a marriage where your wife also fucks others guys while you fuck the dog?
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I wish like hell I could have an open/poly relationship like that. I actually know of a woman who would be down for it too. I've beaten around that bush before though, and still no go. Not even an occasional threesome. Hell, I'd even have a MMF one with her if she wanted, long as he didn't want me touching him.
 
Never married but I met this guy things are getting close feelings being made. Me being the honest type told him I'm zoo not monogamous all that jazz. He was perfectly fine with all of it. Well after I ended up falling in love with him he drops the bomb after I brought up a dog I liked. He wasnt ok with zooyness anymore nor with me not being monogamous.

Now since I loved this man I stayed with him. One day I used his phone to call mine. A notification popped up while I was using it for some twitter chick. I thought it was another wrestler so i googled her on my phone so i could try and connect with him more in one of his interests. Na some bitch that kinda looks like me. Has many of the same fetishes I do. And likes animals isnt monogamous all of it.

That was a huge slap to the face. He has given me alot of shit for my sexuality yet hes following some skank online whose basically me? Like wtf!? I ended up bringing it up to him and he was liks yea I like that stuff with fake women. Wtf does that mean? I can tell ya I'm not fake. Just what the actual fuck.

Took me 2 years to leave him. Surprisingly we had a clean breakup. Moved back home 3 months ago. Now I'm happily single and just got a job that's 17 an hour plus benifits. It's an entry level position 2. All my Bill's and up to less than 1,000 a month. I'll be making almost 3 before tax. Leaving him was the bestvdamn decision of my life.

I guess the moral of the story is dont be with someone who cant accept you sexuality. It just leads to hurt. You dont want to know how many times I cried myself to sleep over hurtful things he said. DONT let that happen to you. Be strong find someone who truly loves you for you
 
Mammal-lover said:
Never married but I met this guy things are getting close feelings being made. Me being the honest type told him I'm zoo not monogamous all that jazz. He was perfectly fine with all of it. Well after I ended up falling in love with him he drops the bomb after I brought up a dog I liked. He wasnt ok with zooyness anymore nor with me not being monogamous.

Now since I loved this man I stayed with him. One day I used his phone to call mine. A notification popped up while I was using it for some twitter chick. I thought it was another wrestler so i googled her on my phone so i could try and connect with him more in one of his interests. Na some bitch that kinda looks like me. Has many of the same fetishes I do. And likes animals isnt monogamous all of it.

That was a huge slap to the face. He has given me alot of shit for my sexuality yet hes following some skank online whose basically me? Like wtf!? I ended up bringing it up to him and he was liks yea I like that stuff with fake women. Wtf does that mean? I can tell ya I'm not fake. Just what the actual fuck.

Took me 2 years to leave him. Surprisingly we had a clean breakup. Moved back home 3 months ago. Now I'm happily single and just got a job that's 17 an hour plus benifits. It's an entry level position 2. All my Bill's and up to less than 1,000 a month. I'll be making almost 3 before tax. Leaving him was the bestvdamn decision of my life.

I guess the moral of the story is dont be with someone who cant accept you sexuality. It just leads to hurt. You dont want to know how many times I cried myself to sleep over hurtful things he said. DONT let that happen to you. Be strong find someone who truly loves you for you
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To anyone considering a relationship, if he or she can't accept you as who you are it's time to move on.
 
Mammal-lover said:
Never married but I met this guy things are getting close feelings being made. Me being the honest type told him I'm zoo not monogamous all that jazz. He was perfectly fine with all of it. Well after I ended up falling in love with him he drops the bomb after I brought up a dog I liked. He wasnt ok with zooyness anymore nor with me not being monogamous.

Now since I loved this man I stayed with him. One day I used his phone to call mine. A notification popped up while I was using it for some twitter chick. I thought it was another wrestler so i googled her on my phone so i could try and connect with him more in one of his interests. Na some bitch that kinda looks like me. Has many of the same fetishes I do. And likes animals isnt monogamous all of it.

That was a huge slap to the face. He has given me alot of shit for my sexuality yet hes following some skank online whose basically me? Like wtf!? I ended up bringing it up to him and he was liks yea I like that stuff with fake women. Wtf does that mean? I can tell ya I'm not fake. Just what the actual fuck.
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What even the fuck is that guy lmao. I'm glad you made the decision to leave him and find a job that works for you.
 
Pillar said:
I'm sorry to hear there's a lot of wives with jealousy issues. And it's not right to take it out on the dog by getting her fixed. Some people just don't grow up.

Edit: I'm just curious, how many of you have a marriage where your wife also fucks others guys while you fuck the dog?
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That sounds like a dream girl for me. I'd like it if I had a girlfriend or wife who was that open about including other people and dogs in our sex life.
 
Mammal-lover said:
Never married but I met this guy things are getting close feelings being made. Me being the honest type told him I'm zoo not monogamous all that jazz. He was perfectly fine with all of it. Well after I ended up falling in love with him he drops the bomb after I brought up a dog I liked. He wasnt ok with zooyness anymore nor with me not being monogamous.

Now since I loved this man I stayed with him. One day I used his phone to call mine. A notification popped up while I was using it for some twitter chick. I thought it was another wrestler so i googled her on my phone so i could try and connect with him more in one of his interests. Na some bitch that kinda looks like me. Has many of the same fetishes I do. And likes animals isnt monogamous all of it.

That was a huge slap to the face. He has given me alot of shit for my sexuality yet hes following some skank online whose basically me? Like wtf!? I ended up bringing it up to him and he was liks yea I like that stuff with fake women. Wtf does that mean? I can tell ya I'm not fake. Just what the actual fuck.

Took me 2 years to leave him. Surprisingly we had a clean breakup. Moved back home 3 months ago. Now I'm happily single and just got a job that's 17 an hour plus benifits. It's an entry level position 2. All my Bill's and up to less than 1,000 a month. I'll be making almost 3 before tax. Leaving him was the bestvdamn decision of my life.

I guess the moral of the story is dont be with someone who cant accept you sexuality. It just leads to hurt. You dont want to know how many times I cried myself to sleep over hurtful things he said. DONT let that happen to you. Be strong find someone who truly loves you for you
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You rock. Good for you getting free of that guy.

I agree with everything you said. If people can't accept us for who we are, especially our sexuality, it's just not worth the potential heartbreak and pain. And it's nice to see I'm not the only polyamorous person on here. :)
 
Tgzoogirl said:
You rock. Good for you getting free of that guy.

I agree with everything you said. If people can't accept us for who we are, especially our sexuality, it's just not worth the potential heartbreak and pain. And it's nice to see I'm not the only polyamorous person on here. :)
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TBH I think being polyamorous happens quite a bit behind closed doors so you won't hear about it often.
 
I have two answers, having had two wives.

First wife, 22 years, did not know. I was not an active zoo in that marriage at first, since our beloved female Chessy was not into interspecies sex. But I was secretly active with a yellow Dudley lab we got, from about the time she was 2 until her passing at age 13. Lot less that last year. Wife was not really all that sexual, not even back when we were dating. Sometimes maybe sex twice a year? Nine months would go by? Got longer toward the end? My sex life was zoo only at that time.

Second wife -- though I intended NEVER to marry again -- has a healthy, lusty, fun attitude toward sex. Whereas in *my* experience, sex was something that posed a risk to "ruin" things, so just "don't mention it, don't bring it up and life goes better" -- My current wife of 14 years (yes, it dates me as a "Boomer") has always believed that sex makes everything better, more exciting, more fun. So... not only do I not have to hide my zoophilia, it's something we already had in common. She does not wait for permission to enjoy intimacy with an animal nor need it, and vice versa. That said, we're usually all together in the bedroom for it.

And we have shared a "bedroom session" like that with one of her friends once.

All out in the open, all cool. I am VERY much happier in this second marriage. But it's not about the zoo activity so much as it is finally being with the right person. If she weren't zoo? I'd still be with her. Practicing as a zoo? Well, no more than before, I'm sure. Maybe less. For me, depends on the animal. We've had several dogs that just aren't into it and I've gone without zoo "outlets" during those times. Just the way it goes!

PS: Our current dog, a coon hound mix, is just now maturing into an adult and very much shows interest in interspecies sex. So... looks like we'll be up and running soon again as a poly-zoo family. :)
 
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Edit: I'm just curious, how many of you have a marriage where your wife also fucks others guys while you fuck the dog?
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Put a zero next to our names. We *would*, as much as sex is part of our relationship. But that's never come up. Guys who've shown interest (and there are plenty of them online) show their interest in ways that immediately turn us off. IOW, they have no problem saying they want this, this and this, but they have nothing to offer. And they never offer any information without asking us first what we're "looking for" -- other than sending dick pics, telling us all about how seeing porn where a dog fucks a woman turns their crank, or talking about how they love to eat pussy, can go forever... the usual stuff that's neither here nor there. "So fucking what? What else you got? What do *we* get out of meeting you?"

Um. Guess what would happen if we told them what we're looking for? -- They'd suddenly, just magically happen to be everything we asked for, almost word-for-word. So, no. We're parents and grandparents, a hard-working, happily married couple respected in the community. The scenario you're describing requires so much trust, we'd really have to know each other really well first.

For that to happen, Pillar... a likely scenario would be that we'd already have been friends with the guy. It would have to come up, maybe, during a threesome or something that we were already planning or were doing regularly when we *found out* he was interested. Then, no problem. It would be your scenario and more. Closest we've come is with her cousin. He raises big hunting dogs and has horses. But... when we asking about adding an animal to the mix, he's eyes sparkled, he grinned with one side of his mouth the way cowboys do, wagged his head slightly, "No." Amused that "we" were into that. But him, no. Or so he said.

But we *would* if we met the right guy. I love to watch her having fun with other guys. She's my best friend on the planet, and we're your best friend is having his eyeballs rolled backwards in his head, afterward you give 'em a high five. Score!

With a dog involved, though? Not yet. The cards have just never lined up that way.
 
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Mammal-lover said:
Never married but I met this guy things are getting close feelings being made. Me being the honest type told him I'm zoo not monogamous all that jazz. He was perfectly fine with all of it. Well after I ended up falling in love with him he drops the bomb after I brought up a dog I liked. He wasnt ok with zooyness anymore nor with me not being monogamous.

Now since I loved this man I stayed with him. One day I used his phone to call mine. A notification popped up while I was using it for some twitter chick. I thought it was another wrestler so i googled her on my phone so i could try and connect with him more in one of his interests. Na some bitch that kinda looks like me. Has many of the same fetishes I do. And likes animals isnt monogamous all of it.

That was a huge slap to the face. He has given me alot of shit for my sexuality yet hes following some skank online whose basically me? Like wtf!? I ended up bringing it up to him and he was liks yea I like that stuff with fake women. Wtf does that mean? I can tell ya I'm not fake. Just what the actual fuck.

Took me 2 years to leave him. Surprisingly we had a clean breakup. Moved back home 3 months ago. Now I'm happily single and just got a job that's 17 an hour plus benifits. It's an entry level position 2. All my Bill's and up to less than 1,000 a month. I'll be making almost 3 before tax. Leaving him was the bestvdamn decision of my life.

I guess the moral of the story is dont be with someone who cant accept you sexuality. It just leads to hurt. You dont want to know how many times I cried myself to sleep over hurtful things he said. DONT let that happen to you. Be strong find someone who truly loves you for you
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This is about the craziest thing I've ever heard. You were honest and he was a fraud. As painful as it was it was, it's good you found out and were strong enough to look out for yourself. I'm happy to hear you are in a good place now.
 
BlueBeard said:
Put a zero next to our names. We *would*, as much as sex is part of our relationship. But that's never come up. Guys who've shown interest (and there are plenty of them online) show their interest in ways that immediately turn us off. IOW, they have no problem saying they want this, this and this, but they have nothing to offer. And they never offer any information without asking us first what we're "looking for" -- other than sending dick pics or talking about how they love to eat pussy, can go forever, the usual stuff that's neither here nor there.

Um. Guess what would happen if we told them what we're looking for? -- They'd suddenly, just magically happen to be everything we asked for, almost word-for-word. So, no. Requires so much trust, really got to know each other first.

For that to happen, Pillar... a likely scenario would be that we'd already have been friends with the guy. It would have to come up, maybe, during a threesome or something that we were already planning or were doing regularly when we *found out* he was interested. Then, no problem. It would be your scenario and more.

I love to watch her having fun with other guys. She's my best friend on the planet, and we're your best friend is having his eyeballs rolled backwards in his head, afterward you give 'em a high five. Score!

But with a dog involved? The cards have just never lined up that way.
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Please PM.
 
Pillar said:
This would be the appropriate response IMO. Having a boyfriend/girlfriend that has jealousy/envy issues is bad enough. Now imagine having a husband/wife like that. Eek.
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Is a spouse wanting their partner to be faithful only to them REALLY all that weird?...
 
HyperWoof said:
Is a spouse wanting their partner to be faithful only to them REALLY all that weird?...
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Yes, it is. I even still fantasize about a "faithful partner" from time to time, but if you're willing to put your ideas of "faithfulness" ahead of your partner and his/her wants, desires and well-being then you'd ought to stop where you are and consider if you even have the maturity to be in ANY kind of sexual relationship. As you grew up, you really should've let go of the idea of "monogamy" around 12. Leave that Disney stuff for the immature.
 
Pillar said:
Yes, it is. I even still fantasize about a "faithful partner" from time to time, but if you're willing to put your ideas of "faithfulness" ahead of your partner and his/her wants, desires and well-being then you'd ought to stop where you are and consider if you even have the maturity to be in ANY kind of sexual relationship. As you grew up, you really should've let go of the idea of "monogamy" around 12. Leave that Disney stuff for the immature.
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Yea exactly. It goes agaisnt nature. Theres no reason you cant have a committed relationship but a monogamous one? Err that's a hard sell
 
Pillar said:
Yes, it is. I even still fantasize about a "faithful partner" from time to time, but if you're willing to put your ideas of "faithfulness" ahead of your partner and his/her wants, desires and well-being then you'd ought to stop where you are and consider if you even have the maturity to be in ANY kind of sexual relationship. As you grew up, you really should've let go of the idea of "monogamy" around 12. Leave that Disney stuff for the immature.
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What the fuck? So you think if your wife came up to you and said "I want to play outside our relationship" You think the mature thing to do is say "sure honey go ahead"? Even if you're against it? Oh boy....no wonder you're an incel or zoo exclusive or whatever you said you were

"leave that disney stuff for the immature" Holy fuck this website breeds true retards
 
HyperWoof said:
What the fuck? So you think if your wife came up to you and said "I want to play outside our relationship" You think the mature thing to do is say "sure honey go ahead"? Even if you're against it? ....no wonder you're an incel or zoo exclusive or whatever you said you were
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If you were against it you should've said something well before entering a "committed" relationship. You both should be in agreement as to what happens before even saying "marriage." FYI the mature thing would be to accept what is, and that would be her interest and desire in other men/males.

And you'd ought to be glad she's willing to talk to you instead of just going ahead and doing it behind your back.

FYI I never said I was incel. I don't hate women for not getting any sex. And I'm not zoo. But how is that relevant to my statement?
 
Pillar said:
If you were against it you should've said something well before entering a "committed" relationship. You both should be in agreement as to what happens before even saying "marriage." FYI the mature thing would be to accept what is, and that would be her interest and desire in other men/males.

And you'd ought to be glad she's willing to talk to you instead of just going ahead and doing it behind your back.

FYI I never said I was incel. I don't hate women for not getting any sex. And I'm not zoo. But how is that relevant to my statement?
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People change. You think someone is going to be the same person at 30 as they were when they were 20?

No, the mature thing to do would be to work through it and find the underlying issue. If it comes down to mere lust and your partner is not okay with you fooling around, then be an adult and be faithful to them. A spouse has 0 obligation to allow their partner to fool around.

And it's relevant because you'd expect such ignorance from someone who doesn't know shit about how relationships work.
 
HyperWoof said:
People change. You think someone is going to be the same person at 30 as they were when they were 20?

No, the mature thing to do would be to work through it and find the underlying issue. If it comes down to mere lust and your partner is not okay with you fooling around, then be an adult and be faithful to them. A spouse has 0 obligation to allow their partner to fool around.

And it's relevant because you'd expect such ignorance from someone who doesn't know shit about how relationships work.
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Of course I "don't know how relationships work." With people like you who'd want one?

"No, the mature thing to do would be to work through it and find the underlying issue."

Have you even considered the possibility that the issue is that she wants something new? (Or maybe she's bored of you?)

"People change. You think someone is going to be the same person at 30 as they were when they were 20?"

You make a point there. But it's disregarding the point to say that "faithfulness" is the only thing you should expect. And even then, like you said, people change. What someone wants today probably won't be the same tomorrow.
 
Pillar said:
Of course I "don't know how relationships work." With people like you who'd want one?


Have you even considered the possibility that the issue is that she wants something new? (Or maybe she's bored of you?)


You make a point there. But it's disregarding the point to say that "faithfulness" is the only thing you should expect. And even then, like you said, people change. What someone wants today probably won't be the same tomorrow.
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If she's bored of you then the relationship should end, plain and simple. Unless BOTH parties are okay with someone sleeping outside of the relationship. Nobody should ever be pressured to allow their partner to play around if that's going to hurt them bad. Human beings are romantic creatures, to suggest that someone is immature because it would really hurt them to know their partner needs other people sexually to be content is an INCREDIBLY ignorant comment.

Everyones entitled to an opinion on how their own relationship should be. To try and tell others how their relationship should be is just a grade A ass hat move
 
HyperWoof said:
What the fuck? So you think if your wife came up to you and said "I want to play outside our relationship" You think the mature thing to do is say "sure honey go ahead"? Even if you're against it? Oh boy....no wonder you're an incel or zoo exclusive or whatever you said you were

"leave that disney stuff for the immature" Holy fuck this website breeds true retards
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I'm with pillar here man. Besides you shouldn't blow up like that just makes your life of the argument look bad. Like pillar said these things should be discussed and I'd rather know my hubby is going to bang the secretary than find out elsewise

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HyperWoof said:
If she's bored of you then the relationship should end, plain and simple. Unless BOTH parties are okay with someone sleeping outside of the relationship. Nobody should ever be pressured to allow their partner to play around if that's going to hurt them bad. Human beings are romantic creatures, to suggest that someone is immature because it would really hurt them to know their partner needs other people sexually to be content is an INCREDIBLY ignorant comment.

Everyones entitled to an opinion on how their own relationship should be. To try and tell others how their relationship should be is just a grade A ass hat move
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Yep, you missed the mark on this one.

"Unless BOTH parties are okay with someone sleeping outside of the relationship." I already said this on my previous post. Re-read all the posts please.

"Everyones entitled to an opinion on how their own relationship should be. To try and tell others how their relationship should be is just a grade A ass hat move"

I agree to an extent. Remember relationships only work when the two people are in agreement. But I think you're just looking for an argument so I'll leave that one up to you. Good night.
 
Pillar said:
Yep, you missed the mark on this one.

"Unless BOTH parties are okay with someone sleeping outside of the relationship." I already said this on my previous post. Re-read all the posts please.
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No you didn't lmao. You said it would be immature to deny someone from sleeping outside the relationship

"if you're willing to put your ideas of "faithfulness" ahead of your partner and his/her wants, desires and well-being then you'd ought to stop where you are and consider if you even have the maturity to be in ANY kind of sexual relationship "

What do you think that implies?
 
Mammal-lover said:
I'm with pillar here man. Besides you shouldn't blow up like that just makes your life of the argument look bad. Like pillar said these things should be discussed and I'd rather know my hubby is going to bang the secretary than find out elsewise
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You'd rather know your hubby is going to bang the secretary? Yeah well most people don't want their spouse banging the secretary PERIOD
 
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