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Is there any way to stop being a zoophile?

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ratsratsrats

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as the title says, im hoping to find a way for me to stop having these feelings, this will slightly be a rant, as i cant talk to anyone i know about this. through a series of childhood events, i find myself now attracted to animals, mainly in a sexual context. but through these same events, i have been struggling with somewhat of a sex addiction, and i belive my attraction to animals isnt a true part of myself how it is to some, i belive this to be part of my addiction, and these feelings cause me an immense amount of guilt. ive never done anything inappropriate with a non human, but im strongly attracted to them nonetheless, and enjoy the content of other people. i dont want this to be part of my life, i want to live a happy, guilt free life with a human partner. and im too afraid and guilt ridden to ever speak with a professional about these feelings. ive tried to ween myself off of this content, but i circle back to it every time. i dont know if this even really makes me a zoophile, or just a weird porn addict, but i feel so guilty and scared, i could never have any of this be part of my lifestyle, id only feel guiltier because of it. and i could loose so many people that are dear to me. so, is there any way for me to stop this? without having to admit this to a professional?
 
ratsratsrats said:
is there any way for me to stop this?
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You are asking a 270 000 people who are completely OK with these feelings, how to not have them.
I dare to say you will not get anything useful here.
Ultimately this is a fight between you and your own mind. There can not be any single approach that works for everyone and you are the only person that knows you well enough to stop yourself.
 
Unfortunately only a trained psychologist will point you in the right direction. That is their job. Find one with sexual impulse experience and knowledge. Ultimately, it will be up to you. You want what you want. Don't say, "I dont want these feelings or sexual urges" because you do. If you didn't want them, then you wouldn't have them. Guilt, i believe, is created when you believe you are hurting an animal. As long as you don't hurt them physically, emotionally, or hell, no contact at all, then you should not feel guilty.
 
I like guilty part but...
Oldman said:
Unfortunately only a trained psychologist will point you in the right direction
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Conversion therapy are not effective for lesbian, gay, bi humans. I would be surprise it works for zoos.
Oldman said:
"I dont want these feelings or sexual urges" because you do. If you didn't want them, then you wouldn't have them.
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Will is not straight. Social pressure binds it. You want something. They want something else. Stress.

This stress is a good enough reason to see a therapist. Finding one with a sexual impulse is a good idea. Some are labeled sexologist this a good idea too.
 
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ratsratsrats said:
as the title says, im hoping to find a way for me to stop having these feelings, this will slightly be a rant, as i cant talk to anyone i know about this. through a series of childhood events, i find myself now attracted to animals, mainly in a sexual context. but through these same events, i have been struggling with somewhat of a sex addiction, and i belive my attraction to animals isnt a true part of myself how it is to some, i belive this to be part of my addiction, and these feelings cause me an immense amount of guilt. ive never done anything inappropriate with a non human, but im strongly attracted to them nonetheless, and enjoy the content of other people. i dont want this to be part of my life, i want to live a happy, guilt free life with a human partner. and im too afraid and guilt ridden to ever speak with a professional about these feelings. ive tried to ween myself off of this content, but i circle back to it every time. i dont know if this even really makes me a zoophile, or just a weird porn addict, but i feel so guilty and scared, i could never have any of this be part of my lifestyle, id only feel guiltier because of it. and i could loose so many people that are dear to me. so, is there any way for me to stop this? without having to admit this to a professional?
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I feel you. And in some way, understand you. I myself had to deal with guilt. I guess its common at the first stages. However, I quickly realized that being zoo was natural for me. I learned to accept that part of me. On the other hand, if you suspect that your desire is part of an addiction, in this case, porn addiction, the best way to deal with that is through therapy. Believe me, it is worthy.
 
You could just as well ask the majority of humans on earth
Q : “Is there anyway to stop being heterosexual ?”
A : No!
As mentioned before, you cant convert genuine gay/lesbian people to heterosexuality. It is just the same with zoophile. I am what I am. Now +65 years, and has never wanted my urge for women, cows and sows to change.
 
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ratsratsrats said:
as the title says, im hoping to find a way for me to stop having these feelings, this will slightly be a rant, as i cant talk to anyone i know about this. through a series of childhood events, i find myself now attracted to animals, mainly in a sexual context. but through these same events, i have been struggling with somewhat of a sex addiction, and i belive my attraction to animals isnt a true part of myself how it is to some, i belive this to be part of my addiction, and these feelings cause me an immense amount of guilt. ive never done anything inappropriate with a non human, but im strongly attracted to them nonetheless, and enjoy the content of other people. i dont want this to be part of my life, i want to live a happy, guilt free life with a human partner. and im too afraid and guilt ridden to ever speak with a professional about these feelings. ive tried to ween myself off of this content, but i circle back to it every time. i dont know if this even really makes me a zoophile, or just a weird porn addict, but i feel so guilty and scared, i could never have any of this be part of my lifestyle, id only feel guiltier because of it. and i could loose so many people that are dear to me. so, is there any way for me to stop this? without having to admit this to a professional?
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Find a therapist. First, I rather doubt your claim of being a zoo....if so you'd be involved with a Critter already. You are more likely a voyeur, who shades to beast porn. You may be addicted, you may simply be obsessed. Since you haven't actually done anything but watch, You haven't broken any law a Therapist is compelled to tell the authorities about. Most places, that isnt a problem anyway.

Find a Shrink. It will help. But as Pes pointed out....people here see no reason to stop doing what they do. Any advice they might give is more in the way of keep on keeping on. Good luck
 
pes said:
You are asking a 270 000 people who are completely OK with these feelings, how to not have them.
I dare to say you will not get anything useful here.
Ultimately this is a fight between you and your own mind. There can not be any single approach that works for everyone and you are the only person that knows you well enough to stop yourself.
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For real. Out of all platforms... Getting on a zoo platform to post this has gotta be the most gaslighting thing to do.
 
ratsratsrats said:
as the title says, im hoping to find a way for me to stop having these feelings, this will slightly be a rant, as i cant talk to anyone i know about this. through a series of childhood events, i find myself now attracted to animals, mainly in a sexual context. but through these same events, i have been struggling with somewhat of a sex addiction, and i belive my attraction to animals isnt a true part of myself how it is to some, i belive this to be part of my addiction, and these feelings cause me an immense amount of guilt. ive never done anything inappropriate with a non human, but im strongly attracted to them nonetheless, and enjoy the content of other people. i dont want this to be part of my life, i want to live a happy, guilt free life with a human partner. and im too afraid and guilt ridden to ever speak with a professional about these feelings. ive tried to ween myself off of this content, but i circle back to it every time. i dont know if this even really makes me a zoophile, or just a weird porn addict, but i feel so guilty and scared, i could never have any of this be part of my lifestyle, id only feel guiltier because of it. and i could loose so many people that are dear to me. so, is there any way for me to stop this? without having to admit this to a professional?
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I tink your feelings of guilt comes after your refractory period. is a reflex of the cortisol hormone in your body (stress cicle) when you are off the stres cicle you feel like you want more zoosex and it gives you the jump of dopamine an oxytocin (pleasure and happiness hormone) is normal your feelings is just a suden supper high to a change to a super low, where you need to recober.
 
Flµff said:
I like guilty part but...

Conversion therapy are not effective for lesbian, gay, bi humans. I would be surprise it works for zoos.

Will is not straight. Social pressure binds it. You want something. They want something else. Stress.

This stress is a good enough reason to see a therapist. Finding one with a sexual impulse is a good idea. Some are labeled sexologist this a good idea too.
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I leave all that to the professionals. My knowledge is extremely limited. Only an opinion :). I guess I should have started with that, lol!
 
Oldman said:
I leave all that to the professionals. My knowledge is extremely limited. Only an opinion :). I guess I should have started with that, lol!
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the mind rule of thumb is: it wants what it perceived as good or confortable. and the addiction hormones are oxytocin and dopamine and get triggered by actions. in this cases by zoo sexuality. when done comes the refractory period which creates a lot of cortisol, or excess of lactose in the body. and it creates the sense of guilt in some individuals not all.
 
dogydo said:
is a reflex of the cortisol hormone in your body (stress cicle) when you are off the stres cicle you feel like you want more zoosex and it gives you the jump of dopamine an oxytocin
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we got a psycho-endocrinologist here ! certainly the only one on earth :sneaky:
saddlebum66 said:
Therapist is compelled to tell the authorities about
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I don't know how strong is the medical privacy where Ratsratsrats lives. In western EU, you are not allowed to snitch your patient. All health practionners risk their jobs. He/she told you he/she killed someone ? He's about to deal drug in front of a school ? Then you shut up. The only exception for +18 is if he/she is about to kill some people.

We should include other animals.
 
I’ve posted about this before but I will add more detail

For me,

I have always battled this side of myself in all aspects, especially religious. I have felt like I would be punished for being into this, along with the furry aspects as well that applied to me. I felt as if I was hated, cursed, born tainted, etc.

TW: I once viewed it in a way that was how I viewed p3dos. I was repulsed by that thought and I could never understand why a god would create them. I felt like I was touched upon with a similar evil even though both are so different… But then I reflected, and even though this is a drastically different sexuality/lifestyle, I couldn’t figure out why I was the way I was or if I was touched by evil etc.

But I knew this would not bring anyone harm. I know some people in this community just like any, dont care if they do harm, they are there to satisfy themselves by any means necessary... that is the scary side that i will always stay far away from.

What I have come to realize is,

We are born this way. This is a sexuality just like being gay, straight bi, etc. This is part of WHO you are. Remember this is “PART” of who you are. It isn’t your entire being. There are plenty of other amazing parts to you!

There is no stopping an attraction unless you do some crazy therapies. If you’re attracted to underage, pain, assault, harm style things .. then that’s when you get help.
But if you’re just sexually attracted and even romantically attracted to animals and have NO plans to ever bring them harm… why hate yourself? There is no reason to “stop” feeling these ways because the way you are feeling is totally normal as long as it’s not coming from a place of MALICE.

All you need is to have self control, understanding, love, and respect. Make sure your heart is always in the right place and treat every being with the utmost respect.

Accepting yourself is incredibly hard and you will struggle for a long time. Once you accept yourself it will feel like a huge weight is lifted off your shoulders. That is when you’ll start to feel alive again!

Do not shame yourself for your sexual attractions or romantic interests. It’s part of you. Think about how many other Amazon aspects of yourself there are!!

We will never know the truth as to why we are born this way until we die. I know who I am, I am a bright beautiful soul that wants to spread love and do good in this world. I never have any intentions of hurting any being, and I am always working to be the best version of myself. I know I have done so much good in my years alive and plan to continue that until the day I die.

So, I was created with flaws, but my flaws are not causing ANY harm to anyone or anything. I must accept them and continue to be kind, loving, caring, sharing gratitude every single day and understand that life is random and good and bad things are always happening.

I have accepted this as part of who I am and I must live with it and know I was born into this world for a reason. I am here for a reason and i have had experiences that have literally proven to me there is an after life. I have been blessed with soooo many unique experiences and all i can do is just have gratitude and keep going.

Learn how to set boundaries with yourself without applying SHAME. Also, work on having a strong mental + self discipline.
Break your addictions. Maybe you’re addicted to the dopamine rush. Limit yourself to looking at porn to 1-2 times per week. Fight the urges the other 5 days and don’t give in to the urges for that dopamine.
It’s okay to watch porn, just set some boundaries and limits so you don’t over indulge.

Look into doing a 3-7 day dopamine detox. It helps a lot with all sorts of dopamine addictions, not just porn. Maybe you need to do a nice reset. Start doing some meditation and guided meditation as well. Work towards acceptance AND build self discipline.
 
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ratsratsrats said:
as the title says, im hoping to find a way for me to stop having these feelings, this will slightly be a rant, as i cant talk to anyone i know about this. through a series of childhood events, i find myself now attracted to animals, mainly in a sexual context. but through these same events, i have been struggling with somewhat of a sex addiction, and i belive my attraction to animals isnt a true part of myself how it is to some, i belive this to be part of my addiction, and these feelings cause me an immense amount of guilt. ive never done anything inappropriate with a non human, but im strongly attracted to them nonetheless, and enjoy the content of other people. i dont want this to be part of my life, i want to live a happy, guilt free life with a human partner. and im too afraid and guilt ridden to ever speak with a professional about these feelings. ive tried to ween myself off of this content, but i circle back to it every time. i dont know if this even really makes me a zoophile, or just a weird porn addict, but i feel so guilty and scared, i could never have any of this be part of my lifestyle, id only feel guiltier because of it. and i could loose so many people that are dear to me. so, is there any way for me to stop this? without having to admit this to a professional?
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Maybe hypnosis...? 🙃
 
Alex00613 said:
Maybe hypnosis
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Or a lot of things ! You just need to ask.

Does the patient want the placebo ? yes ->
Is the placebo dangerous (ex: a guru) ? No ->
Is the placebo expensive ? No ->
-> Please enjoy your placebo, it will be very effective else -> do not recommend

People have faith because they saw miracles. I beleive that faith makes miracles...
 
Flµff said:
Or a lot of things ! You just need to ask.

Does the patient want the placebo ? yes ->
Is the placebo dangerous (ex: a guru) ? No ->
Is the placebo expensive ? No ->
-> Please enjoy your placebo, it will be very effective else -> do not recommend

People have faith because they saw miracles. I beleive that faith makes miracles...
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Castration ? 😅
 
I read a study stating that chemical castration is more effective than placebo for peds if the patient volunteers to take the pill.
And a case review of a gooner that just ask to get a true castration because he was tired of gooning... it worked.
Artificial and more effective than placebo ? -> side effects
 
Flµff said:
I read a study stating that chemical castration is more effective than placebo for peds if the patient volunteers to take the pill.
And a case review of a gooner that just ask to get a true castration because he was tired of gooning... it worked.
Artificial and more effective than placebo ? -> side effects
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As is written all over ZV, it is very common in USA to neuter (=castrate) male dogs - so why not one species more 😁
Joke aside - it is probably true that castration can stop the urge for animals, but if it works it will remove all sexuality.
So there is no ‘cure’ to convert a Zoophile to a heterosexual individual.
 
Stop watching zoo porn first of all. Go get a non sexual hobby. Spend more time outside. Get a job and work your ass off. When you do Jack it stick to regular heterosexual porn.

Stop thinking so much. No one will find out unless you tell them or are looking up zoo porn at work. Go focus on something else. That's the secret to any addiction. I didn't quit smoking cigarettes by just sitting around for months going "aw man this sucks" , I worked out, I slept and ate right. I put my focus on my career.
 
Sumpup said:
Stop thinking so much
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Yes, I had an easy life as a zoo. Never felt ashamed or the like - it was wonderful to me and during the day I found the animals who liked me to fuck her that day. If she didn’t want my advances I just continued. So when it was dark I ‘sneaked’ out to her.
 
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