AllBeastLover
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Just curious, but why do you say this "That's a complete myth and I don't even know how it got started."?
Informal poll: Are women that are into dog sex size queens?
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Just curious, but why do you say this "That's a complete myth and I don't even know how it got started."?
What Life- it happens because you quoted it 0r from my other posts??
AllBeastLover
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Sorry, I should of been more clearer...
Me: "I suppose that's fair. Still, with how society is (yeah yeah to hell with society) always has it that if you're a 5 and a half, or 6, you're nothing. But if you 7 and a half or 9, you're a god and need to be respected. Even if the 5-6 would treat you like a queen. The whole, nice guy finishes last stuff."
You: "That's a complete myth and I don't even know how it got started."
The thing is, I just want to please a woman, both in and out of the bedroom. I don't want treated or thought as a god, because I know for a fact I'm not. I just don't want to be seen as a failure when compared to their last experience (if women even do that) because I don't do as good of a job or better then their last experience.
We don't compare like men think. We know that everyone is different and usually, at least for me when I'm breaking up with someone it's because I don't see it going anywhere, or we have grown apart and no longer have the same views, or worse one of my BFs cheated on me. Usually we don't just break up with a guy without reason. Now there are times when we don't tell the guy the true reason, but mostly when that happens we don't tell because we don't want to hurt them any further.
AllBeastLover
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That makes a little better sense, but
"Now there are times when we don't tell the guy the true reason, but mostly when that happens we don't tell because we don't want to hurt them any further."
That just makes it worse though, I know from experience. Because maybe it's something I can work on and when I don't know what I did wrong, and don't know how to change it, I'm doomed to repeat it, because I didn't know that it was causing problems. I mean, honesty is a key thing. It would give me closure.
Unfortunately nobody can give you that but her.
Korynn
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That's not how society is, what you're describing is a pornified online consensus among chronic mastrubators that fetishize extreme dick size, most of which happen to be young homosexual males with very little actual real life sexual experience and an erotic fixation with belittlement and humiliation. I'm not sure there are many women that can even take 7+ inches, I know I certainly wouldn't want to.
AllBeastLover
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Papasmerf21
Zooville Settler
I'm guilty of watching the vids were people use extremely way to big of toys or objects and need to remind myself that it's both extreme and not everyone's cup of tea. And while some enjoy pleasure and pain(even torture) equally, most probably don't want to feel discomfort. Childbirth seems pretty painful and not fun lol
Most dogs are going to be further inside you then 7 inches once they knot you. For me the largest size would be 8 inches or so and many times I do prefer smaller. My boys are larger probably close to 9 or 10 once they knot me but it's totally different then being hammered continuously with something that big.
KittyInHeat
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Sounds like you unfortunately found a couple women who were not ready for a relationship and instead of being honest just ghosted you. Not all of us women are like that, especially the ones who have had that happen to us because we know how much it hurts.
Korynn
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I find the idea of being knotted super-erotic but I'd be terrified to actually try it. Seems like the risk of vaginal tearing is pretty high, honestly it's one of the main fears that's prevented me from actually trying anything.
Papasmerf21
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Idk whats worse, being ghosted or getting the "it's not you, its me" line
AllBeastLover
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Well, for what it's worth, I'm sorry you've been burned... I don't ghost people, I hate it when it's done to me, I can't imagine doing it to someone else. I just want a happy long term-- long as life would allow, relationship. I just want to make my partner happy.
Papasmerf21
Zooville Settler
Probably best to find out the size of the tool first before taking the knot, that way you can prepare and train/ stretch before trying the knot
You sound like one of the good guys - I hope you find a deserving girl to share life with.
AllBeastLover
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I won't lie, I can be a moody asshole, who can't from time to time. But it's not me as a person. I love making people laugh, I would rather spend my time making witty one-liners to make people laugh, or buy someone something I know they'll like-- I do this a lot. If I knew you in person, and say... you liked frogs, or collect unicorns or something. I'll hear, even if I act like I didn't just to throw you off and make you think I didn't, only to WHOOP there's a frog or unicorn statue waiting for you. Because I know it'd make you happy.
ascendtoaccept
Citizen of Zooville
Yes. Because we are projecting. Because we talk about our sexual exploits more freely than woman do amongst each other. The catch is that we often embellish the truth to make things sound better to impress our mates.
By saying we I am not saying myself. I have accepted that is a stupid thing to do and therefore have ascended
We may compare a little just at first but it's a passing thought and nothing that we dwell on.
KittyInHeat
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I will admit I make comparisons between my current bf and my exes. But the ONLY comparisons I make are ways I am treated better as a person and not just feeling used. I do not care about size. Would rather have a little small. Since I only had one ex who was like 8 inches and he was a jackhammer. It was painful every time.
AllBeastLover
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You're meaning we, men, us in general. No you personally.
AllBeastLover
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Yeah, I can see that kind of comparison. Does your newer treat you better than your ex. Because I don't want to keep getting hurt, and I sure as hell wouldn't want to do it to someone else, because I know how badly it hurts to be burned. It's just when I hear the whole "Bigger better" thing it's hard to know what you should think. Especially if you don't have a whole lot of human experience.
KittyInHeat
Tourist
Size thing is a case by case basis. Some women want big, most don't.
Erja
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You are a wise woman
Perth
Tourist
AllBeastLover
it sounds like there were some complicated things going on the these woman, your first lady sounds to me like she very much wasnt over her last relationship, if that was true, know that had absolutely nothing to do with you and sadly there also was nothing you were ever going to be able to do about it.
as for the second experience you mentioned, knotinterested is right, life-it happens, i know its not remotely satisfying to hear that, but people drift apart for many reasons and sometimes there is no explanation, try not to dwell on it, that will merely make you crazy.
With lack of evidence to the contrary, trust that these woman both enjoyed your company as they said they did. I would also assume that the reasons they left or drifted away had more to do with something going on within themselves than anything you did, especially in bed.
If you find another gal you want to be with, I would suggest being honest and open with her about your wants, needs and desires, even before you have sex (within reason of course given the site we are on). If the relationship progresses she will want to be your best friend in and out of bed, and communication is key. Ask her to tell you what she wants, she will most probably hesitate, ask her gently and with compassion until she lets you know what she likes, she will worry about being judged, make her feel safe and allow her to express herself without judgment, and yes this takes time.
Be honest with her, let her know that yoiu either want or dont want, what she has expressed, and if you dont want the same things be careful to let her know that you arent judging her desires, even if you say no. Rememeber the mid is a powerful thing, hot sweet talk can be wonderful foreplay.
Also remember that even the best relationships dont always last forever, life happens.
i hope you have better luck in the future, I dont know how old you are, or how old your partners were at the time, but it sounds like the complications of youth. and the better you know yourself the more you will be able to communicate with other people, but you also have to keep in mind, they might not be able to hear or understand what you might tell them, patience is a virtue and it can be learned.
it sounds like there were some complicated things going on the these woman, your first lady sounds to me like she very much wasnt over her last relationship, if that was true, know that had absolutely nothing to do with you and sadly there also was nothing you were ever going to be able to do about it.
as for the second experience you mentioned, knotinterested is right, life-it happens, i know its not remotely satisfying to hear that, but people drift apart for many reasons and sometimes there is no explanation, try not to dwell on it, that will merely make you crazy.
With lack of evidence to the contrary, trust that these woman both enjoyed your company as they said they did. I would also assume that the reasons they left or drifted away had more to do with something going on within themselves than anything you did, especially in bed.
If you find another gal you want to be with, I would suggest being honest and open with her about your wants, needs and desires, even before you have sex (within reason of course given the site we are on). If the relationship progresses she will want to be your best friend in and out of bed, and communication is key. Ask her to tell you what she wants, she will most probably hesitate, ask her gently and with compassion until she lets you know what she likes, she will worry about being judged, make her feel safe and allow her to express herself without judgment, and yes this takes time.
Be honest with her, let her know that yoiu either want or dont want, what she has expressed, and if you dont want the same things be careful to let her know that you arent judging her desires, even if you say no. Rememeber the mid is a powerful thing, hot sweet talk can be wonderful foreplay.
Also remember that even the best relationships dont always last forever, life happens.
i hope you have better luck in the future, I dont know how old you are, or how old your partners were at the time, but it sounds like the complications of youth. and the better you know yourself the more you will be able to communicate with other people, but you also have to keep in mind, they might not be able to hear or understand what you might tell them, patience is a virtue and it can be learned.
Perth
Tourist
Totally agree.
Even from one experience to the next with the same partners, personally i can say sometimes I want no penetration at all and then other times, lol, i want so much, for me it depends on my mood. I can say if i had to take way too much all the time, I dont think i would want sex all that often, i would need too much time to recover.
dogsrgreat
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"Even" smaller than 7 or 9 inches?!! You haven't been with a lot of guys I guess, cos 7 inches is considerably bigger than average according to all the surveys. I myself am not quite 7 inches and have been surprised to discover that the women I have been with consider me to be on the large side.
No - I said 7 or 8 inch - 9 inches is too much for me but there have been times that I enjoyed a larger man. The men I've known sexually have mostly been 7 or 8 inches, but a few were smaller probably 5 inches or so, and they were fine. I've read a lot of things saying 6 inches is average for a man, but from my experience I'd say 7 inches is more correct. however you look at it the whole "Size" thing is a guy problem. Guys are the only ones that care otherwise when one of you guys asked us out we would be asking how big you are. LOL That would be funny. Anyway don't get hung up on your size - just do the best you can with what you have.
KittyInHeat
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It's how you use the tools you were given not what size they are.
dogsrgreat
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My penis is my best feature. I mean in relative terms I am not a guy to turn heads with my looks, but my penis... it is perfectly formed if I do say so myself. Others have confirmed.