It doesn’t take an act of Congress to set up a meet. Just post that you would like to host a meet in an area. Pick a dog friendly park to have a meet, a pot luck at the tables or we have even had a BBQ in the park. One afternoon or an overnight at a campground or lake. We have had weeknight meets at a Starbucks outside with our dogs on leashes. Get to know everyone, contact info likes, kinks, weather they are owners or not. Then go back to your place, someone’s house or get hotel rooms if play is going to happen.
not that hard. If you build it, they will come. You will get a lopsided group of men vs women, some gay, some bi, some straight. Some couples, some families even might show up. It is always worth it!
give it a try. Post your intent. Don’t give exact location and time until necessary, unless it is a reservation campground. Than let people know in advance in the PM feature.
good luck!