I was a little apprehensive about telling my husband at first. We are very "adventurous" shall we say. We are swingers but I was still not sure about sharing that part of me with him. I didn't want him to look at me differently or thing I was sick minded. We were lying in bed one night talking about desires and fantasies and I took that opportunity to tell him what I wanted to try. We are open about everything so that helped me knowing I can talk to him about anything. I told him I want to be knotted and to my surprise he is all for it and thinks it's hot. I would be open and honest and tell your bf. It may just make your sexual relationship that much hotter. I can't guarantee he will be on board but at least you will know how he feels. Sharing your wants and desires should only enhance your relationship not hurt it. Only you can make that decision though. Good luck!I wanna tell my boyfriend so bad but I'm scared he would judge me.
Any other girls out there that told their bf and if ended up okay?
I almost laughed/cried when you said it was a joke. Most guys I know are into the most disgusting stuff but when I say something remotely not mainstream it’s like OMG what’s wrong with you….I once told my boyfriend I was into animals. He then kissed me, held my hips and claimed me. Yeah I love my dog.
Lol, sorry for my joke, now on a serious note
This is quite a dangerous step, nobody knows you and your boyfriend better than you do, therefore nobody here can give you answer that would be reasonable and would satisfy you. I would probably go for a series of hints, make some allusions every now and then, maybe in jokingly tone, look for what his reaction is like, if he is disgusted, or smiling, or wondering, whatever, that can give a lot. Take your time, maybe at some point he starts making hints/suggestions himself, then it's quite easy.
Whatever you do tho, be careful, and don't mention it explicitly unless you are really sure. Not only that it can end up with a breakup of otherwise perfect relationship, but it can lead to slandering and some other problems in your life.
Maybe ten girls will tell you that it went fine. That's not guaranting it will be the same for you, don't lose your guard.
Based on your picture in interested lolYeah, Unfortunately, right now I am single. But I am pretty open about my porn and kink habits when I first start dating. I don't tell them about my zoo experience but I tell them I like watching girls in videos just to see their reaction. If they are not into that, then I move on. Might be why I am still single. Waiting for the right girl that is open minded enough or already into it.
I am at a point that if I said anything, that is, it is all overI am considering telling my partner (when I find someone I truly click with) right off the bat! That way they can decide whether or not to walk away.
See im a man, and my gf is very receptive. But I am also scared to tell her.I wanna tell my boyfriend so bad but I'm scared he would judge me.
Any other girls out there that told their bf and if ended up okay?
I’ve told several men, however there are some you can just feel you better not tell. If the man seems sexual and open minded etc, you can test the waters first and gauge reactions. One that I like is to mention interest in monster porn. It’s a good middle ground because it’s non human, but also completely fantasy. If they accept that fine, specifically mention werewolf being your favorite. If they think that’s hot well you may be able to confide the truth. I will tell you, since I have told people… PEOPLE LOVE SECRETS TO SPREAD. If you two break up he will likely tell his friends especially if it ends badly. Those friends will tell people. It will get to other circles easily in your local area. You’ll hear about it later. People will ask you about it if you’re unlucky. However a rumor is a rumor and it’s easy to say “that’s bullshit” and laugh it off. But you’ll know that the people around you think you may fuck animals. I’ve dealt with that and now after many years and not being social like I was, I don’t really care. I’ve had it aired in social media when someone decided to argue with me. Anyway… things to think about.I wanna tell my boyfriend so bad but I'm scared he would judge me.
Any other girls out there that told their bf and if ended up okay?
Wow, you're so lucky.Well yes.
We were at a party and me and my wife were tipsy, so
when we got home she went upstairs, and after half an hour i tought she was sleeping so i opened the laptop and watched some doggy porn.
I walked very quietly upstairs to get the lube, and i did not notice that she went downstairs.
So the moment i came back down, she was sitting in front of my laptop with a doggy porn movie paused. I was shocked and
my first thoughts were, ok im done she will be so pissed, so here i stood with my bottle of lube in the doorway, and i came up with an excuse that i downloaded the wrong movie.
Well the first thing she sayed was..... Ok we need to discuss this with no excuses so she closed the laptop and asked me to be honnest with her....
how many times do you watch this? i told her this is the wrong movie, she said ok stop lying now.
The whole scene took an unexpected turn when she confessed that she found a couple of movieson on the laptop and when i was at work she masturbated while watching them, she told me some details of some clips, so i was like what huh how....
And i really couldn't believe what she just told me.. she explained that the role girl-dog and the loud moaning turned her on...
and that there was nothing for to be ashamed of.
the ice was broken so i told here that it really makes me horny and i watched them quite often, the only thing she did was.
She opened the laptop and restarted the movie. And well i can tell we had a great night.
I was so releaved but still i was al little sceptic, so the next morning i asked if she remembered what happend. and she tol told me everything from a to z.
and she told me that it turns here on big time , but she wasn't thinking about doing it in real life,i didn't told her i have some expierence even after this i'm still scared that she wil judge me.
When i'm writing this it instanly brings a big smile on my face, from now on we can watch together.
Does that mean your single? Want to hook up sometime?with my ex-husband it was all clear from the beginning he accepted this desire of mine right away and in fact he liked it very much, I always took care of him in every way and never let him lack my love, it ended because he cheated on me with women and not with a female dog, if he had a female dog companion I would not have had a problem
I was soooo scared to tell anyone. But I’ve been with my boyfriend for a while now and it’s the healthiest and safest I’ve ever felt so I was finally brave enough to bring it up. For a while I cheekily hinted at it or when I would say I had a big insecurity I wanted to get off my chest eventually. But he never poked and prodded. I eventually came right out with it and was very open about how scared I was but he took it surprisingly well. He didn’t even think it was a big deal and he was very comforting and reassuring after. He’s glad I told him because he can help me with stuff and it’s nice having someone else know that I trust to keep me safe.I wanna tell my boyfriend so bad but I'm scared he would judge me.
Any other girls out there that told their bf and if ended up okay?