Anyone had a positive experience confessing bestiality to their partner?

Fun story. I dated this guy and we LOVED sex - especially with each other. Anyway, he needed to do some work at my place and needed my computer to do it. So I let him use it. He realized he needed some of his bookmarks to do his work so without telling me, he synced his Firefox account with mine so he could access his account from my computer. I low-key panicked but didn't say anything - I had a toooooOOOOOONNNNnnnn....nnnnn of not-safe-for-work bookmarks saved including gobs of fetishy and zoo related subject matter lol. He didn't see any of them until he got back to his place later though. A couple days later, we were sitting together watching TV and he turns to me and tells me he went to go into his bookmarks later one night and realized that he had a LOT more bookmarks than before. They were...interesting he said. He also said that he realized after seeing that that he "made a mistake" and that he should have asked if that was ok to sync profiles first. He realized that he inadvertently outed me and apologized. BUT, he then went on to say, everyone likes what they like and he wasn't in the least bit put off by what I had enjoyed watching AND...he himself fantasized about what it would be like to be f***ed by a dog! That couldn't have been a messier situation but couldn't have turned out better lol.
 
Just the other day, my boyfriend asked me a hypothetical about having sex with a horse if no one else knew about it, I answered honestly with a yes, and from there he confessed to also having that urge in recent weeks. I showed him some photos and videos of what it would be like, he got hopelessly horny over it and now he's officially into the idea. We've never been happier together! ❤️
 
I have confessed my interest to three different girlfriends (in watching women enjoy dog sex). The first was not offended, not particularly into it, but might consider trying if the circumstances were just-so. The second enjoyed the fact that the porn turned me on, thought it was a bit gross, but remained curious about it and might also have considered it if our relationship had lasted.
Having had good results from discussing this with various female friends and no really negative reactions, I got a little complacent and told my most recent girlfriend rather too early and rather too abrubtply. We really liked each other but I did a bad job of it and she instantly decided I was a monster and dumped me without further dicussion. That was a year ago and it made me quite sad. So basically, in my experience most women are ok with this, but if they are one of the many people who mistake dogs for children they are going to think anyone involved in bestiality is a sick evil monster.
 
I told my ex and he was okay with it. I showed him a manga I found and he said it was neat (or something like that). He wasn't into it but wasnt bothered by it, though he also wasn't too sexual in nature. Overall I'm glad I told him because I know he doesnt judge me for it. Recently though I had to consider it again with someone and decided I wouldn't. It can be hard to gauge but definitely had at least one positive experience.
 
My boyfriend found my porn stash then admitted to liking it too lol. Then he shares about a farm his family owns so that might turn into an opportunity to share an experience.
 
Joked around with wife during sex about wanting our male dog to mount her. After months of buildup, I finally got her on all 4s with him in the same room. She backed out before anything happened. I think she would have done it if it were a different dog.
She ask always has enormous dildos and I would ask her if she thought a house would fit. She would reply "absolutely!" like she knew for sure. Hummm, might have to explore that some more.
 
Well this is one of the most important things if you are a zoo of any kind , can you and should you share this with your partner.
Lots of people said this above me but it is important so ill repeat , noone knows your personal situation better then you so this is on you.
But before you start to think on how to aproach the other person i think you need to answer one simple question.
Can you exist in a relationship where the other doesent know significant part of you and if found out he or she might be discusted by you and leave? If the answer is yes meaning its ok to have these secrets then dont say a word keep it to your self. it is magnitudes safer and i am not reffering to loosing said partner , this activity is illegal in most places and super taboo as well so yes it is safer to not tell. Everyone is different i personally could never be with a person i love if i know i have secrets , secrets if he would know he might hate me because then i feel he doesnt love me he loves the image i showed him which is dishonest.
This is the main reason to expose your self to the danger of sharing this. Yes most ppl want to have a partner who is into it also and they share hoping , this is ofc valid but the risk is there dont forget.
You can use subtle techniques to hint this to the other person , things that can be innocent like a dog paw neckless or something like that , any zoo will pick up on it and you can go from there.
I am lucky that my partner of 25+ years understand accepts and enjoys my desires , what i have found that most ppl arent repulsed by the actual act of it , when they hear beastiality there first reaction is omg that something sick , if you can get passed that , u have a more then decent shot of making him or her accept or even try out. I introduced a lot of my friends guys and few girls as well only one was into it before trying it most got interested when they saw a nice dog dick and what i do to it. If he or she is your partner getting to her to at least listen cant be that hard , if its an outright no then your really not matching and it can be a signal.
Hope it helps , i know this is a difficult thing for a lot of ppl , we have enough weight on our shoulders lets try to get rid of this one at least.
 
FreeDoe said:
I've been on the receiving end and how I found myself here. I was texting my partner (at the time) about something, I don't even remember what it was we were talking about. After several exchanges he felt comfortable enough to open up to me about it. Until that moment I had never really thought about zoophiles. I remember having to look up the word to make sure I was understanding it correctly. He expressed to me that he had thoughts when he lived on a farm of playing with the cows and sheeps, although he had never done anything to date. I wanted to be supportive but I was also shocked and new to the whole experience. So over text I tried to make sure and not sound concerned or standoff in any way. Once I had time to absorb what he said, and that I did want to remain his partner, the best way I knew how to show I supported him was by giving him a gift. When we saw each other next I provided him with a USB of a bunch of Petlust porn I had found online. I gave it to him and said maybe sometime we could watch it together and he could tell me what he likes most. We never did and for other reasons our relationship ended .
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Now this is a person who loves the other guy and tries to be part of his world , cudos from me , i am sad your relationship ended , just a side question if you dont mind, did you enjoy what you saw on those vids you got for him?
 
I told my ex about it and she confessed to some licking stuff in her past. She was open to the idea and even said we should get a dog for that reason. We did get a dog but she never wanted to try anything so I didn't push the subject.

I also confessed to my current partner and to my surprise she is about it and indulges my fantasy often. We have plans to experiment with mounting in the future. I've watched her kiss and be licked as well as a brief blowie on my neutered male. He has expressed discomfort before so we haven't tried anything further as far as that goes and don't plan to with him.

I'm excited for the future though!
 
Qwazycupcakes said:
I wanna tell my boyfriend so bad but I'm scared he would judge me.
Any other girls out there that told their bf and if ended up okay?
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I told my gf I liked watching, and would love to see her do it. She was curious, watched a video. Didnt like it. But we are still going strong so thats good
 
Soulsreaver said:
I confessed to my partner once, and it did not go well. She was very put off and disturbed by my confession. It fortunately didn't end us, but made it clear further pushing could.

I wish all the best ( it's the dream for a lot of us to have a partner to share your deepest kink with), but i would advise caution as you move forward.
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Sorry
 
Wife seen me pictures and we talked. When I came home with a German Short Hair Lab mix intact. She said be carefull. She tried wasn't her thing. Was mine.
 
I told a cute female co-worker that I would be ok with my future partner if they wanted to try anything extreme in a text she seemed to get really interested still trying to get her to tell me more but she’s in a relationship so it’s difficult IMG_5254.jpegIMG_5253.jpeg
 
Realaccount9 said:
How did the conversation get to here?

Absolutely love it, you're a champion man.
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She was asking how I ended up in the medical field. I told her I originally wanted to be in veterinary medicine field but realized no money so change over to regular medicine field. And that’s when she told me she read a book about females getting interested in zoo lifestyle when they work in the veterinary field. I told her I never got to see anything like that because I mostly work in large animal field. And surrounded by men! That’s when she ask if i wouldn’t mind if a women was into it. Of course I told her no! Not at all
 
k9cumdrunk said:
She was asking how I ended up in the medical field. I told her I originally wanted to be in veterinary medicine field but realized no money so change over to regular medicine field. And that’s when she told me she read a book about females getting interested in zoo lifestyle when they work in the veterinary field. I told her I never got to see anything like that because I mostly work in large animal field. And surrounded by men! That’s when she ask if i wouldn’t mind if a women was into it. Of course I told her no! Not at all
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What the fuck, she went straight for the money.

Were y'all flirting up a storm before this, with lots of hints about kinks?

Jesus, that's a jackpot right there lmao.
 
Yes! We have been flirting back and forth for months. They thing that kills it is that she’s in a relationship. We talk about squirting and about transsexuals. About getting creampies. She’s obviously very interested in a lot of things. She’s been asking about gloryholes. I get the feeling she’s not happy in the relationship and can’t get out and try things
 

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My girlfriend at the time, now wife, asked me what my deepest darkest fantasy was. We had been drinking a bit and I opened one of my secure folders of the raunchiest videos I had downloaded. I pushed the laptop to her and asked her to watch. She was not at all appalled at the site of a woman getting mounted by dogs.

She asked what else I had in the other folders. Well, I told her it was for another time, but the fact is, she was interested. That was three plus years ago. We are now happily married, and are searching for our first doggy experience. Any owners want to help us out?
 
I really want to tell my husband about it but I've never really opened up to anyone about my fantasies or experiences ever.. I've talked about it with a few random Grindr guys and have had mixed experiences with it, one guy kept asking me why and others just quit talking to me.. we've been married for almost 7 years, we have an open relationship, but he's VERY vanilla lol..
 
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