It also doesn't help that some inexperienced male dogs do a bit of the knot in out thing.
A complete guide to bitch sex
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Reconscope
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Juliojakers as a example
nekdoneco123
Esteemed Citizen of ZV
keyword being "inexperienced".
Agreed, I was just saying porn is hardly the only explanation.
Rottynme
ZooVille Philanthropist
Just remember, when penetrating a bitch if you hear a yipe that means possible damage has already been done. Don't just carry on like it's nothing. that will only reinforce the fact you're hurting her, you don't give 2 shits, and you'll lose trust if any was built beforehand.
Wolfspirit
Citizen of Zooville
Hence why advancing depth and speed should be done extremely gradually in stages over a period of days, with plenty of lube, zero amount of restraint and in whatever position SHE prefers.
I see so many videos of bitches on their backs in videos, and it makes me wonder how many of them genuinely prefer that position in those particular circumstances. Because making her stay on her back when she prefers standing is a forced act of submission and a bitch (or male male for that matter) having sex in that position may feel less inclined to resist if things get uncomfortable or even painful—depending on her temperament and pain tolerance levels which should never be tested in the first place.
That being said, it's important to (carefully) mention here that yelps come in 2 forms with bitches: pain and hyperstimulation (pleasure). This particularly would be common for me when rubbing off a female for her first few times and inserting my finger just a little bit (1 1.5 inches maybe) while she's humping. When the bitch is experiencing one of her first ever real orgasms, after her humping has stopped and she's pulsing, constricting and tensing, at some point afterward it can get too intense and she starts whimpering or lets out a yelp, or both, and then shoots off like a lightening bolt to do her post-orgasm zoomies and twirlies lol. So that's important to note since I've seen posts from concerned zoos who experienced that sort of response worried they hurt their mate
Wolfspirit
Citizen of Zooville
It also happened one time during sex with a rather vocal bitch I was rehabbing. I was going very slow and careful, everything I mentiined previously that I do in the beginning stage of penetration. But she was starting to get off really quick and as soon as I started making even little short thrusts shed start moaning, so I picked up the pace and those moans turned to little whimpers getting louder and louder (without me going any faster or harder at that point) as she began cumming a lot, until finally she let out a loud yelp and shot off to do her orgasm zoomies and attacking me with kisses, nips and just generally going insane 
Regaress, lightness of touch and a very gradual advancing, while ALWAYS letting her decide how, where and when, with only light guidance, no firm direction based on your preferences, and following all the info above, the only result should be pleasure for the bitch.
And never forget love and cuddles afterward.
Regaress, lightness of touch and a very gradual advancing, while ALWAYS letting her decide how, where and when, with only light guidance, no firm direction based on your preferences, and following all the info above, the only result should be pleasure for the bitch.
And never forget love and cuddles afterward.
mrcrazy123
Tourist
Where is the line between introducing the idea of being sexual to a dog, and forcing yourself on a dog? My girl hasn't been forward with me, but she's young (just over 2 now) and inexperienced. So while she's never been like, flagging and presenting to me, I've been slowly experimenting with touching and stroking her erotic zones for over a year now.
She's always been free to pull away, never restrained her, but I'm definitely the one who approachs her for these interactions. Lately I've been able to feel her contracting and twitching in my hand when I rub her vulva from the outside (i've not done any penetration stuff). This seems to me like she enjoys it but she still isn't approaching me over it.
She's had two heats with me so far and hasn't been interested in my advances at all during those times, but she's a nervous dog in general, often scared of loud noises on walks and such. Her third heat will probably happen within a month, maybe two, and given her reactions lately I'm hoping she might show some more active interest during it, but I still worry I'm pushing her too far.
I feel like if I never did anything with her at all she would never be sexually active toward me, but at the same time if she isn't approaching me for interactions then do I really have her permission to continue, or am I just training her to be calm and patient and let me do things to her? It's tough.
She's always been free to pull away, never restrained her, but I'm definitely the one who approachs her for these interactions. Lately I've been able to feel her contracting and twitching in my hand when I rub her vulva from the outside (i've not done any penetration stuff). This seems to me like she enjoys it but she still isn't approaching me over it.
She's had two heats with me so far and hasn't been interested in my advances at all during those times, but she's a nervous dog in general, often scared of loud noises on walks and such. Her third heat will probably happen within a month, maybe two, and given her reactions lately I'm hoping she might show some more active interest during it, but I still worry I'm pushing her too far.
I feel like if I never did anything with her at all she would never be sexually active toward me, but at the same time if she isn't approaching me for interactions then do I really have her permission to continue, or am I just training her to be calm and patient and let me do things to her? It's tough.
Reconscope
Supreme Citizen of ZV
Ask her if she's comfortable. That's all you can do as well as show some interest. Beyond that part it's up to her to accept you.
More than likely the vast majority of female canines that are willing to have sex with humans will prefer doggy style as it's the position most natural to them. But of course there are exceptions. One doggy gal I slept with was one of those exceptions, she belonged to another zoo. I got permission from him to try, and I tried to initiate things in the doggy style position and she flat out rejected my advances. I thought, "welp, oh well. I tried, but no of course means no." But he let me know that she wasn't a fan of doggy style and preferred to be on her back.
10-20 minutes later she was on her side, so I gave her some bully rubs, and wouldn't you know it? She rolled onto her back and opened her legs, I kept going lower and lower until I started rubbing her vulva. She was basically "come on in!" from that point. But I'd imagine a dog like her is likely 1/400 if that, and there's a good chance that I'll never meet another girl like her. Maybe I'll meet one that's good with both, but I'll probably never meet another doggy gal that prefers it.
My Newfie, like most female canines willing to have sex with humans, only likes doggy style. Due to her size it makes things interesting... but I've found a way around it that works for me and works for her. She's good with standing on the bed, but of course, she still gets to stand, which is what she likes.
Rottynme
ZooVille Philanthropist
Just remember all, your goal is definitely not to "stretch out" her inner ring. That's her method of controlling the situation. You'll definitely thank me if you try your best to let her open up that ring 100% on her own. It'll maintain it's tight feeling throughout her life and she'll be able to please you in ways you can only dream if she's not all loosey goosey lol. My girl can make me cum just by timed contractions without me even barely thrusting. To me it's like getting a hand job and a BJ at the same time times a factor of 10!! Focus on her 100% at all times because she's trying to drive the bus once you're all the way in. For the love of Dog, let her do her job because it's what she really wants. 
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Rottynme
ZooVille Philanthropist
There's definitely some females out there that just don't want it. My malamute is like that. I never pushed the issue and I still love her no less.
mrcrazy123
Tourist
So when you are 'stretching her out' what are you trying to accomplish. If the inner ring will stretch on it's own as she's aroused is it just the entrance that needs to be relaxed a bit to accomodate a human?Just remember all, your goal is definitely not to "stretch out" her inner ring. That's her method of controlling the situation. You'll definitely thank me if you try your best to let her open up that ring 100% on her own. It'll maintain it's tight feeling throughout her life and she'll be able to please you in ways you can only dream if she's not all loosey goosey lol. My girl can make me cum just by timed contractions without me even barely thrusting. To be it's like getting a hand job and a BJ at the same time times a factor of 10!! Focus on her 100% at all times because she's trying to drive the bus once you're all the way in. For the love of Dog, let her do her job because it's what she really wants.
Rottynme
ZooVille Philanthropist
Your goal is to get her aroused and relax her ring on her own. Trying to force your way in can possible cause her pain. If you had a knot she would feel the sensation of an inflated knot and know it's now safe to relax her ring. There's little tricks you can do to help give her the knot sensation but requires total communication.
Wolfspirit
Citizen of Zooville
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Yes good point, I'm so used to doing that myself naturally that I didn't think to mention it.Just remember all, your goal is definitely not to "stretch out" her inner ring. That's her method of controlling the situation. You'll definitely thank me if you try your best to let her open up that ring 100% on her own. It'll maintain it's tight feeling throughout her life and she'll be able to please you in ways you can only dream if she's not all loosey goosey lol. My girl can make me cum just by timed contractions without me even barely thrusting. To be it's like getting a hand job and a BJ at the same time times a factor of 10!! Focus on her 100% at all times because she's trying to drive the bus once you're all the way in. For the love of Dog, let her do her job because it's what she really wants.
Well the fact that she was (raised by?) another zoo probably explains it right there. She was likely already basically conditioned to accept sexual advances that way when you got her. Obviously conditioned with positive reinforcement lol. But conditioned nonetheless.
Wolfspirit
Citizen of Zooville
I need to correct 2 typos here I just noticed that it wont let me edit:
That shouldve said just male, it looks like I'm saying male human on male dog, and this applies to both sexes of human and dog.
That should've said 1-1.5. Just making sure lol
Wolfspirit
Citizen of Zooville
I can't believe I forgot to mention the following 2 things! There's just so much, plus it's been a while.
External clit massage: Massaging lightly starting from the outside while thrusting. I usually avoid hand massaging an exposed clit as it can be too sensitive, but it depends on the bitch so just use a lot of lube and make sure your fingers are SOFT, rough and especially calloused fingers are going to be an uncomfortable irritant!
I will typically test out different kind of clit stimulation as a part of gradually dialing everything in to her preferences. In other words the speed and applied pressure.
Some bitches may not want this at all, same as every other technique. They're all individuals so you'll have to experiment and know signs of increasing pleasure as well as know when something is turning her off. You'll want to notice and course-correct before a turn-off turns to unbearable discomfort and she wants to stop. Keep the flow for her.
The other technique is offering your hand for any expression of affection she wants to give you while in doggystyle position: This is something I dont see mentioned often. In fact a lot of what I've said I dont see posted much in bitchsex discussions. I may make a seperate post for this stuff just to get more visibility so I can get more feedback to see how common all this is with people. Anyways, so yes I do this with my hand as I'm bring my hands forward against her fur and toward her ears, massaging them for a bit before I offer a hand to her lick if she wants (I usually have my right hand on her heart chakra during this time like I mentioned before), which they often do. Either they lick (sometimes very slowly and sensually, which just melts me omg lol) or mouth with their teeth or both, sometimes they even like holding it in their mouth for a bit which is adorable. In either case, I find they like having a hand offered to be able to connect on a more intimately emotional level in that position, which seems to enhance her whole experience. It sure does with me!
Mileage may possibly vary depending on how deeply emotionally connected you are with your partner. I dont know, this is all I've experienced with bitches I've been with typically so this is all I know, I cant speak for anyone else. But I can say your emotional state does affect them directly, and it's not just them "reading" subtle expressions and reacting to it. Dogs sense everything and they reflect our emotional state because of that high sensitivity. So be mindful of where your mind and heart is while with your bitch.
On that note, I think I'll end with this. Genuinely honoring her and feeling deep, genuine sense of appreciation for her I believe makes a huge difference. She will sense this, and it makes a difference. It seems to make a difference for dogs outside of zoophilic relationships, so why not at least give it a 30 day trial. Risk-free!
It varies which dog likes to stimulate (or lick) the clitoris. To be very careful because you are extremely sensitive.I can't believe I forgot to mention the following 2 things! There's just so much, plus it's been a while.
During sex, I caress their backs or heads, gently, slowly, gently massaging their heads and ears. I whisper in their ears how beautiful they are and how much I love them. I say kind words to them.
It also varies which pose is preferred, in a missionary, in a dog. I don’t like to she be lying on their backs, it’s very humiliating in dog communication.
Muscle contractions and vaginal pulsations are also done by dogs with different intensities and different times. No two dogs are alike. In the end, at the cum, it squeezes me hard to knot and stay in it as long as possible. I really love that.
Then the crazy dance begins. She jumps, dances left and right, chases her tail, cleans up, runs around and is very happy.
Diagram broke btwCredits to the Author.
This is a guide, and only a guide into intercourse with female canines. This is an overlaying outline of the norm, on an individual basis conditions and situations may differ. All the advice given is from personal experience and advanced education, not second hand sources. If your experience is different, then you fall outside the category this guide is written for.
I will cover several aspects and important information on sex with female canines
(Bitches)
Topic headings will be in bold to help you find the section that most helps you.
I will also give a small tutorial at canine behavior for those who are unfamiliar with signs. A dog will not give you mixed signals, she will tell you exactly what she wants even if it confuses you to no end.
A misconception
There is no such thing as training a dog for sex. There are different things that a dog can or will learn about sex and sex techniques, but there is not dog sex training. Puppies are sexually immature. Yes they will go into heat, but her body is still developing and the last thing she needs is worrying about you touching her new things.
Do not ever try to “train” a dog for sex. A canine that enjoys your company can be shown techniques later on. First show her you intend to care for her and love her for more than her cunt. Then you truly can enjoy each other.
WHAT ABOUT DOG SIZE?
For bitches, size does matter. For vaginal contact nothing smaller than an Australian shepherd should have sexual contact with humans. Some select medium breeds can have human intercourse, but it is suggested that large and giant breeds are more suited to take human sizes.
THE KNOT FITS, WHY WON’T I?
The dogs’ penis is not like a humans. A human keeps a marginally tapered penis with a nervous ring about the head. A dogs’ penis is tapered with a nervous head and a knot. But the knot is not the base of the penis. There is a continuing shaft of the penis behind the knot. When a dog mounts a bitch the penis is not at full size. Once inside the vaginal canal (age and experience apply here) the dog will put the unengorged bulbous glands into her vaginal canal and past her pubic bone before it swells, engorged with blood to it’s size, the section of penis behind the knot remains outside the pubic bone retains about it’s original slim size. So the knot is not what the size comparison you need, it’s the shaft. If the knot forms outside the vaginal canal it usually will not fit unless there is a significant size difference.
AT WHAT AGE CAN A DOG HAVE INTERCOURSE?
After two years is the best recommended time before vaginal intercourse. A dog will continue to grow and develop for up to three years. A male dog is only a little less for human contact, at about 18 months he may show signs of actual sexual behavior. Do not mistake dominance or play humping as sexual behavior.
If you hurt or force yourself on a bitch she will fear you and live miserable and afraid. You are her protector and the one human in this world she needs to love her and take care of her because she deserves it, not because she gives it up or is a good sex toy.
ALL ABOUT, HER
The female canine body is as with most females, a work of art. The lovely triangular folds,.. but I have seen many questions. Where is the clit?
Well here is your answer. The clit is located between the vaginal opening and the clitoral fossa, these are your landmarks. You can feel them and see them and I like to taste them too.
Here is your road map of the intimate canine folds.
LUBEING UP
What kind of lubrications can be used. A very important question as it affects your partner. Mainly. Water based type lube is recommended... DO NOT USE PETROLEUM PRODUCTS. Petroleum products such as baby oil or Vaseline are used to draw moisture out and away, so if used in sex, all the natural lubrication and moisture is drawn away. Meaning, it dries her out.
Some brands of sex lube are okay, avoid stimulating lubes as some dogs may have allergic reaction (try explaining that to the vet). Also avoid latex condoms with lube.
GOING IN
The canine vagina can be entered first at a 45 degree angle, and then you straighten out a bit and you can enter her vaginal canal. Do not mistake the clitoral fossa for the vaginal canal.
From top to bottom your bitch will have,
Vaginal opening
Clitoris
Clitoral fossa
The clitoral fossa is a dead end. But may confuse people
THE FIRST TIME
IF AT ANY POINT SHE SHOWS DISCOMFORT OR RESIGNATION, STOP.
If your girl has never had sex before, or is spayed/not menstruating and is her first time, Be gentle. Use a lot of lube and play with her nipples and vulva. Go farther slowly and stimulate her clit. Make circles around her nervious bud clockwise and then counterclockwise. Fondle her as much as you can to loosen her up as much as possible this way and tease her vaginal opening with your finger and or tongue. DO NOT use objects to “widen” her. If she can’t take you she can’t take you. Using a well lubricated index finger push into her opening. If she has a hymen it will feel like you are pushing against a wall with a spot in the middle. If you are not sure, make sure. You can use your pinky finger to press into the hole. It will feel like you have one of those rubber bands for braces on your finger.
Lube up your pinky really well and press your finger into the hole and finger the little hole until you can get the first knuckle into it without much resistance. Again, if you encounter any pain or discomfort action from her stop immediately.
If she is comfortable press into her slowly stimulating her clit and doing other nice things as foreplay (ear nibbles and nuzzling worked for mine.) Give her breaks between fingerings and continue to larger fingers until you can get a good insert size.
ANAL SEX WITH BITCHES
Some bitches will let you do them analy. If this is the case never ever insert the penis (finger dildo etc.) into the vagina after it has been in the anus. This can cause infections to include bladder and vaginal infections.
Remember that canines have anal glands. These can be released when fearful. The insertion of the penis or finger may also cause the release of the glands. Stimulating the anus in any way can eventually cause the release of the anal glands. In personal experience I fondled my bitchs’ sphincter along the outside and rimmed her with my fingers lightly, just teasing her, never penetrating and it caused her to express her glands.
The other thing is you want to be careful to not damage the glands. Most of the mess from anal intercourse with dogs is the anal glands which are quite potent smelling. Make sure before you give your lover a wanted anal session you sniff her out and make sure she smells healthy. If there is an unusual scent, or an infection scent take her to the vet. Anal glands can get impacted and infected, the vet can relieve this.
Scooting is often a sign of anal gland impaction and should be brought to the notice of the vet. Often a higher fiber diet is in order. Libbys’ canned pumpkin, one tablespoon a day will often keep her regular and help prevent anal gland impaction, but will not release already impacted glands. Some breeds are more prone to infection than others.
I LOVE HER, BUT SHE’S TOO SMALL
Remember the rule of comfort, if she is not comfortable, stop.
Love holds no bounds and when one is too small for the desired affect of physical contact there are always options.
Hotdog hotdoging is quite simple and pleasurable to both if warranted. Hotdoging is quite simply putting the length of your penis along the slit of her vulva and stroking along her folds. This will stimulate the clit and is quite arousing even fun for bitches that can take you, and can be used as foreplay.
This can be done in both missionary and doggie style with success. The advantage to hotdogging is you are stimulating her clit and vulva more than actually penetrating her would do.
Fingering Fingering is another method of being intimate that can fill a need in pleasure. You can hold her close to you, both of you laying down, it works best if her back is to your belly, and just fondle her vulva and stroke her clit. The best way I have found to fingering my bitches is to have a lubed finger or if she’s wet enough it’s fine. Stick your finger to the top of her clit and then slip off to the side of her bead and make a circle around it clockwise. My bitches usually jerk and stretch a lot, and as I feel them starting to relax again I go counterclockwise.
You do not have to press hard, as a matter of fact if you can do it lightly you get more reaction. Once she relaxes again change direction and for the finally take two fingers and even out your fingertips and stroke over her clit softly but firm let it slip through the V made by your fingertips. Start slow and work fast, then go back into circles and your girl should be tossing her head and squirming by now and her clit should look very large.
CANINE ORAL FOR HER
Yes you can give her fun and I suggest the sweet sweet taste of canine cunny. But again, some bitches do not like oral. If she is uncomfortable, stop.
Yes, you can give oral in heat, yes you can give oral to spayed/between heats bitches.
How to start. I suggest trying it as she is standing first. See how she takes to it. If she seems interested you may continue or try it on her back. Do not try a 69 the first time on her back, the new position may scare her if she is not used to it and she will be curious what you are doing. Let her lean up and sniff you out as you begin to lap at her vulva. But move her out of the way if she laps at her own vulva after watching what she is doing and lap her where she indicated. This will show her she can direct you, after a few times she will learn, or at least mine did.
The pointed tip of her vulva is an excellent point to lick into as it’s closest to the clitoris. Slit licking is fine but for some reason if you broaden your tongue while in her folds and just wiggle your flat tongue over her clit she goes nuts.
WHAT IS SHE TELLING ME?
No one knows your bitch better than you. You know her reactions to pain pleasure or fear. If you do not know how to communicate with your mate/lover you have no business asking for sex.
Canine language is complex but simple to those who live around animals. This will help you understand why your girl does what she does. Tail flagging (moving the tail out of the way of her genitals and looking over her shoulder) is obvious for “take me stud” but what about getting to that point?
To understand if she wants you it is simple. In a safe place, where you feel safe and she does too, get undressed and let her explore you at her descression, don’t just start flopping your equipment in her face or fingering her. Sit still and see if she takes notice of you, if she seems distracted she may not be comfortable, just let her get used to her area, but if she runs to you and away play with her nonsexually. Roughhouse and give her your full undivided attention, pull rope toys or whatever she enjoys. Then as she wears down, on all fours, sniff her nose and her shoulder, to her tailbace on the top, then sniff at her vulva.
Here she will decide what to do next, she may whip around and growl, sit down or try to play some more. Don’t be frustrated, she may not want anything more than a platonic relationship. Even her cycle will not cause her to accept you if she doesn’t want you. Don’t hurt her or abandon her if she rejects you sexually. Just love her as she wants.
On the other paw if she decides that she wants to take the relationship further she will be still or sniff lightly at you and perhaps even lick you. Reciprocate by licking her vulva or touching her softly, don’t stick anything in her yet. Put an arm around her shoulder and pull up on over her back and mount her. If she is still or flags you can continue accordingly.
MEDICAL
Some explanations will not be the full explanation for the sake of time and interest but if it is a constantly asked question I will by all means expand on the reason or process of the questioned action or cause/result.
if your mate has a problem and it really concerns you, be safer than sorry and visit your Vet. Your Veterinarian wants you to have a healthy and happy pet/companion/lover as much and sometimes more then you do. But please take into account that unlike a human hospital, a veterinary hospital is not underwritten, and money lost directly affects them. They will work with you on budgets, or you can find one that will.
There are a lot of charities around that will also help you to include shot clinics and cheep spay neuter clinics.
These topics really concerned me as I read the question and got the feedback from people. I will try to make this simple to follow and easy to find what you are looking for by scrolling down. Questions can be posted and answered as best available. Some may refer you back to the main text. All answers are directed to guide human sexual contact. This is not a dog breeding guide.
WHAT IS THE AVERAGE K-9 LIFESPAN
Taking into account proper medical care, love and food and breeding:
Small breed 14-21 yrs
Medium breed 14-18 yrs
Large breed 12-16 yrs
Giant breed 9-12 yrs
This will not cover every case and is only an average of ages. There will be exceptions.
HORMONES AND HEAT
An intact bitch between heats and a spayed bitch will have the same hormone levels. Estrogen in particular was brought up. Estrogen is produced in more than the ovaries. When the ovaries are removed the estrogen levels will remain the same. Estrogen deficiency will be marked by incontinence and or bed wetting. The valve at the bladder is estrogen controlled. So as there is less estrogen, bladder control becomes an issue and can be treated by your veterinarian.
Progesterone is the main hormone for heats, it prepares the bitch for breeding and pregnancy. It sets the time for ovulation and thus optimal breeding times. This is the primary hormone that will cause heats, not estrogen.
Pyomietrea,
Pyometra is always fatal if untreated
This is a deadly condition commonly seen in unsprayed bitches and cases where the uterus was not removed but the ovaries were (mostly in Europe). If you live in Europe you will need to ask if the vet will remove the uterine horns as well to avoid this.
Your sperm can cause pyometra because its job is to enter the uterus, then it dies and can cause infection.
My dog is always in heat, she never stops
This is bad, very bad. This means that there is a problem with her ovaries, most likely cancer benign or malignant may apply, but a problem of some sort has cause hormonal imbalance and will cause your bitch to toxify and die.
Are there any canine STDs?
Yes, brucellosis.
This is a bacterial disease that can be transmitted from animals to humans and humans to animals. It is form touching vaginal secretions, afterbirth or from the male mucus or ejaculate. Once infected it is very difficult to get rid of but is treatable. There will be side effects however.
This will cause abortions or miscarriages and infertility. It also affects the joints and other body systems.
Is it possible to have sex with a spayed bitch? (Feel free to see the rest of the conversation about this subject by scrolling down to the replies)
You are not going to have much luck with a bitch that has been spayed as a puppy because her sex organs will never fully develop. Vets say they can spay as early as 8 weeks old. If you are going to spay to prevent unwanted puppies and/or potential health problems, it's recommended you wait until after her second heat (and possibly even after she's had sex) to have the procedure done. Otherwise, it's going to be very challenging (if even possible) for her to be accepting and able to have intercourse.
Lamington654
Tourist
Although I’ll probably never have the opportunity to try, I really enjoyed the read Thanks
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Kuvaszfucker111
Citizen of Zooville
Wolfspirit
Citizen of Zooville
I'm just curious, I love that dog so much, I don't think I'll have sex with her
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doggyboiozz
Guest
i remember finding a guide like this and going out to my doggie immediately haha
papabear1379
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How often do they come in heat
Usually every 6 months, but they are not absolutely accurate. 5-7 months is typical.
There are dogs that sometimes postpone it for 9 months. The usual 12 months for wolves can also occur.