Have you told anyone about being into zoophlia?

I understand not telling it , but then again it depends on how you view a relationship i mean if its serious he or she should accept you for what you are and if he or she doesent then well... if you tell i say tell it early on so you know where you stand. Always be mindful this is ilegal in most places so never give the other person proof , nothing that can be used against you after.
 
SultryHellhound said:
I guess that will be the worst part. I just know my mom will want grandkids. How do I go by through life without giving a hint that I just don't feel attracted to humans?
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Just lie and say you're asexual. Or just say you're bad with men/women depending on your sex. (And as an unattractive man saying that women don't find me attractive is a very easy and observably honest way of getting people off my back.)
 
Parents is a different thing , you know them best but be aware they are a different generation , so they might not understand it , if you depend on them that complicates things even further , if ure indepented you might tell them , but if you know they will 100% will not understand then telling them will just enbitter the situation which isnt good for anyone. THey want grandkids fine , you can ignore it or pretend your looking for the one , they dont need to know the one for you has 4 legs :)
 
dogsexromania said:
Parents is a different thing , you know them best but be aware they are a different generation , so they might not understand it , if you depend on them that complicates things even further , if ure indepented you might tell them , but if you know they will 100% will not understand then telling them will just enbitter the situation which isnt good for anyone. THey want grandkids fine , you can ignore it or pretend your looking for the one , they dont need to know the one for you has 4 legs :)
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How about no? Tell NO ONE and if you're looking for a partner tell them that you want an open relationship.
 
Well this whole telling your partner thing , i personally couldnt live in a relationship where we have secrets like this , knowing that the person saying i love you would be sickened if he or she knew this about me ... no , i admit my partner knows in fact he introduced me into it but i rather be alone with my dogs then to ever hide this from my partner.
 
dogsexromania said:
Well this whole telling your partner thing , i personally couldnt live in a relationship where we have secrets like this , knowing that the person saying i love you would be sickened if he or she knew this about me ... no , i admit my partner knows in fact he introduced me into it but i rather be alone with my dogs then to ever hide this from my partner.
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You're going to screw yourself over one of these days. And that's totally going to be your own fault.
 
Were talking about sharing it with your partner , which is a seperate conversation from everyone else , there i would say the same as pillar , it is your private affair , its noones business but yours and your dogs and most ppl will not accept you , accept this , this isnt a social club , most ppl will deem you sick immoral or worst , but honestly why do you care what others think.
 
A number of times. Some people have a positive reaction and you make a new friend; some people will be silent and spread rumors. I stand up for the things I believe in, so I will tend to always be outspoken on the subject. I think Pillar's advice is fare, but doesn't take into account anything beyond absolute "safety". That advice comes with its own problems. As long as you conduct yourself a certain way, you don't have to worry too much. Many people will not be happy spending their lives in the closet, and some like myself, like to discuss the topic out of their own interest, possibly making people more tolerant in the future.
 
Pillar said:
You're going to screw yourself over one of these days. And that's totally going to be your own fault.
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Well i live with the same person for more then 20 years , he knows about it yes and i can put my life on the fact he will never betray me , noone who can actually harm me knows i am even gay , i would be fired , and or evicted for simply that i am not a complete idiot:)
 
dogsexromania said:
Well i live with the same person for more then 20 years , he knows about it yes and i can put my life on the fact he will never betray me , noone who can actually harm me knows i am even gay , i would be fired , and or evicted for simply that i am not a complete idiot:)
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That's naive as fuck. I hope your gamble doesn't bite you in the ass...
 
Pillar said:
Just lie and say you're asexual. Or just say you're bad with men/women depending on your sex. (And as an unattractive man saying that women don't find me attractive is a very easy and observably honest way of getting people off my back.)
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Man you're lucky to have that reason to fallback on. Every time my mom asks why I don't have a gf I usually parry(?) it by saying that I'm trying to get my shit together, waiting for the right person, or something along the lines of that I'm not ready. I suppose I may just do this my whole life, or just stop answering.
 
SultryHellhound said:
Man you're lucky to have that reason to fallback on. Every time my mom asks why I don't have a gf I usually parry(?) it by saying that I'm trying to get my shit together, waiting for the right person, or something along the lines of that I'm not ready. I suppose I may just do this my whole life, or just stop answering.
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Just say all the women you meet have very high standards then. Unless you're a six figure earner just tell your mom women aren't interested in average men.
 
SultryHellhound said:
Man you're lucky to have that reason to fallback on. Every time my mom asks why I don't have a gf I usually parry(?) it by saying that I'm trying to get my shit together, waiting for the right person, or something along the lines of that I'm not ready. I suppose I may just do this my whole life, or just stop answering.
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Do exactly that , she wants the best for you at least thats what all mothers say , usually its mixed with i know what i consider best and so on , but at the end of the day she is not you , you decide when to have a gf when to have a wife and when to have kids , would she rather you jump into a relationship head first and then have another child growing up without both parents? these things you can say to her , and the less you interact with her on the subject she will understand i presume its not something you want to discuss
 
Pillar said:
Just say all the women you meet have very high standards then. Unless you're a six figure earner just tell your mom women aren't interested in average men.
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Yes use allt he reason most ppl sturgle to find a true relationship , get lost in that crowd , and since you are not lying technically it will go across more easy.
 
dogsexromania said:
Do exactly that , she wants the best for you at least thats what all mothers say , usually its mixed with i know what i consider best and so on , but at the end of the day she is not you , you decide when to have a gf when to have a wife and when to have kids , would she rather you jump into a relationship head first and then have another child growing up without both parents? these things you can say to her , and the less you interact with her on the subject she will understand i presume its not something you want to discuss
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The REAL question is if his "girlfriend" really wants to be with him or is just there to use him and that's IF he gets one in the first place.
 
dogsexromania said:
Yes use allt he reason most ppl sturgle to find a true relationship , get lost in that crowd , and since you are not lying technically it will go across more easy.
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If you still believe in "true relationship" then I have a bridge to sell you.
 
Pillar said:
Just say all the women you meet have very high standards then. Unless you're a six figure earner just tell your mom women aren't interested in average men.
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I plan on upskilling to make 6 figures in my profession. But I don't have to tell anyone that, either!
 
I dont think believing in these things makes you braindead , maybe a bit optimistic which isnt a crime, buti rather be optimistic and be disapointed , then to see everyone a jerk .
 
I recently dated a Mexican woman who's pup would alsys jump on the bed while we fucked. I jokingly tried a few times to suggest to let him have a lil fun too but she would never bite the carrot. In the back of my mind I think she lets that dog eat her out good.
 
I share it with folks who are equally as transparent. I preface the entry point by sharing a space of transparency to set a precedent for safe spaces, revealing our/my true self. I make it clear that I am not here to singlularly entertain your whimsy and curiosity of me and my kink acceptance.
 
No one that I talk to irl. Although I have talked about it with a girl I used to talk to online. She and I had the same interests so I felt comfortable enough letting her know after a while. Turns out she had watched a few zoo videos before.
 
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