underdoged
Zooville Settler
I've told one friend
It is sad to loose a good friend, I hope you will find a true friend soon. Have faith, you are not alone.I have told my best friend... he didn't like it! We argued and he stopped talking to me, he never told anyone. It's been seven or eight months since and I have never been approached or treated differently by anyone in our small community.
I had thought that since we told each other our deepest darkest secrets, that it wasn't gonna be a big issue, he had told me some deeply personal things one night and I assumed that he was going to be just as understanding as I was to him. But he couldn't handle it and I lost someone that was practically a brother to me.
It's kind of the reason that I came to this site, I am lonely and in need of new friends that I can be me with.
My best friend knows- he is neutral to this topic(first post sorry if i did something wrong)
Have you told anyone about your lifestyle? If so, how did it go and how did it change your relationship?
For me, this is a secret i’m taking to the grave
this is who you are, no need to feel guilty about it
I think you shoud tell him about zooville and let him find his peopleI was wondering if I should tell him to come to ZooVille and introduce himself, and maybe he could find other people to talk to. I thought about what if stared looking into my posts, but at least it's not me that's telling him. There is some really nice people on here, I'm not sure if he would open up to them, but at least maybe he could find that we are not the only real beast people in the world. lol
I'm torn about what I should do or just leave it, I don't want to push, but I would at least make him feel it's alright to have these feeling.
even then i felt like i wanted to make them more comfortable and happy, and i thought this would be a good wayPerhaps not but it is perfectly okay to feel guilt or shame because there is no stopping it. Some people feel neither for it and that's good, but others will. I have been out of practice for over fifteen years and I still feel guilt and shame, but you deal with it and find ways to accept that part of you. This is the only reason I have an account on this site, to continue dealing with it.
Telling someone who has those feelings that there is no reason for them does not help.
Don't you ever want to find a boyfriend who shares your passion?no one knows, and no one will know ever
It’s incredible how some females enjoy it being a zoofile some husbands or boyfriends doesn’t know what lucky they are, wish I have a friend or girlfriend that enjoy it that I will always support herMy husband knows and supports it because he knows I'm not interested in raping animals and I've told a few close friends who have just as weird of kinks and fetishes as me lol. But other than that it's kept secret. When I'm around furries who go on tangents about zoophiles it's kind of awkward because in my head I'm like "Gee, nice to know that one interest of mine could ruin our friendship despite me doing nothing wrong or causing anybody harm". But my response to that is usually something like "Yeah, I don't really give a fuck about any of that lol"
You don’t need to be ashamed of something that it’s really normal, unfortunately Society got programmed so many that it’s difficult acceptedeven then i felt like i wanted to make them more comfortable and happy, and i thought this would be a good way
well saidYou don’t need to be ashamed of something that it’s really normal, unfortunately Society got programmed so many that it’s difficult accepted
You are very lucky, and you have a fantastic wife!My wife took me three hours to get the nerve to tell her. She was ok with it and it didn't seem to faze her at all. Since then she has played here and there
Think you are right, but it is really sad not being able to share it.No way! I wouldn't dream of sharing that anywhere else but here, far too risky.
The sad thing is that even if it became legal, everyone I know would still ostracize me if I even gave a hint of it.Think you are right, but it is really sad not being able to share it.
That's why you never tell anyone, period.The sad thing is that even if it became legal, everyone I know would still ostracize me if I even gave a hint of it.