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Feeling of guilt

Used to be so ashamed when i started discovering videos, however as time went on and coming across this site, my confidence grew and it helped in accepting who i am, and that all us zoos want is to love and be kind <3
 
I've been in love with dogs for a few years now and never felt any guilt up until recently. Last time me and my female had mated after I finished I felt guilty for some reason. I only do it when she's in heat and rarely when she's not. She never rejects me and even seems to come back around for more. I even get her (or what I'm assuming it is) to have an orgasm, I'm pretty sure it is because she'll lay down and curl her toes and start thrusting. But for some reason lately I just feel guilt. I never force her and it's always safe and consensual and if she seems uninterested I immediately stop. Idk maybe I'm just being weird. And when I say it's recent I mean like a day or 2 ago.
 
Nobody harmed, everyone willing, what's to feel guilty about?
You had a good time, she apparently hard a good time, I don't think it's a big deal. Even if one or the other of you isn't always into it at the moment (happens sometimes) I don't think it's a problem so long as nobody is harmed or coerced.
 
Nobody harmed, everyone willing, what's to feel guilty about?
You had a good time, she apparently hard a good time, I don't think it's a big deal. Even if one or the other of you isn't always into it at the moment (happens sometimes) I don't think it's a problem so long as nobody is harmed or coerced.
True I appreciate that definitely makes me feel better, idk why it suddenly started happening but I just feel like others opinions might help make me feel better about it
 
Can't see as you've done anything to feel guilty about, it's clear to me you care for her and want her to enjoy the act just as much as you.

And yes what you are describing is indeed her experiencing a orgasm, each one is different in how they respond to one and they range from mild to wild were she will jump up turn in a circle and start bouncing off the walls during her happy dance.
 
Can't see as you've done anything to feel guilty about, it's clear to me you care for her and want her to enjoy the act just as much as you.

And yes what you are describing is indeed her experiencing a orgasm, each one is different in how they respond to one and they range from mild to wild were she will jump up turn in a circle and start bouncing off the walls during her happy dance.
Thanks I appreciate it. Maybe I'm just going through a phase or just being dramatic. I just needed some reassurance. I appreciate all of the helpful information and support.
 
Thanks I appreciate it. Maybe I'm just going through a phase or just being dramatic. I just needed some reassurance. I appreciate all of the helpful information and support.
It happens sometimes, I've experienced it as well long ago myself, what helped me the most back then was my doggy girl always curling up beside me afterwards, her feelings were of love and happiness towards me so why feel guilty about bringing her pleasure.
 
I've been in love with dogs for a few years now and never felt any guilt up until recently. Last time me and my female had mated after I finished I felt guilty for some reason. I only do it when she's in heat and rarely when she's not. She never rejects me and even seems to come back around for more. I even get her (or what I'm assuming it is) to have an orgasm, I'm pretty sure it is because she'll lay down and curl her toes and start thrusting. But for some reason lately I just feel guilt. I never force her and it's always safe and consensual and if she seems uninterested I immediately stop. Idk maybe I'm just being weird. And when I say it's recent I mean like a day or 2 ago.
I mean why do you feel guilty exactly? Sex between 2 organisms who don't dislike the interaction seems positive to me
 
First, I will disclaim that I myself have never done anyting personally. I have always enjoyed the videos though. When I was younger I def had some guilt, but these days, no guilt at all, just worried of being outed with the wrong people, but I would love to find myself in a relationship where I could share my signifiant other.
 
I can't say I've ever felt any guilt or uncertainty at all, but my level of interest waxes and wanes over time, and I've had months at a time where I've not given it much thought at all. Always seems to come back to me though :)
 
First, I will disclaim that I myself have never done anyting personally. I have always enjoyed the videos though. When I was younger I def had some guilt, but these days, no guilt at all, just worried of being outed with the wrong people, but I would love to find myself in a relationship where I could share my signifiant other.
Understand that.. and likewise.. but I think there is always the guilt/fear of outing that probably makes it exciting for people?
 
Understand that.. and likewise.. but I think there is always the guilt/fear of outing that probably makes it exciting for people?
Idk, certainly something to that for sure. But for me, I'd prefer it not to be some huge deal that could end your life (in a sense) if it came out. It could too easily be weponized against you and I see as much wrong in that as those who would demonize and play some kind of moral card against someone into it. All things considered of course. Actually harming a living thing is harming a living thing and that is obviously wrong. Beyond that, I don't quite comprehend the outrage about it.
 
What’s the longest anyone has had a dry spell.. and do any of the guys or girls ever feel weird guilt, or feelings of being unsure?
It’s been maybe 15 years. I’ve never felt guilt at all, I guess I’m lucky in that regard. I’ve always just known that most other people think it’s wrong, disagreed wholeheartedly and accepted that I just can’t share this with them.
 
My girl for the most part was the one to determine when we had sex. Sometimes there would be weeks on end when she wasn't in the mood mostly cause she was older. The longest was a month and a few days.

As for the whole guilt situation it's normal and comes with reevaluating ones core values. There's nothing to be ashamed or guilty of as long as everything's kosher and consensual. If you still have problems accepting then just remember that you like most of us care about her enough to set her wants and needs equal to if not above your own and that's something to be proud of.
 
I've only ever had sex with humans, and the last time was nearly five years ago.
As for feeling guilty or unsure...nah. I don't feel any guilt or shame over my sexuality. I've thought a lot about it and came to my own conclusions that sex with animals is morally neutral.
 
First, I will disclaim that I myself have never done anyting personally. I have always enjoyed the videos though. When I was younger I def had some guilt, but these days, no guilt at all, just worried of being outed with the wrong people, but I would love to find myself in a relationship where I could share my signifiant other.
I feel like you speak for many
 
Everyone goes through periods of not having sex. Sometimes my real life gets busy and I just don't have to stop and think about it. Other times, my partner/partners are not in the mood. Just depends, but As far as feeling guilty? If no one is getting hurt, who cares? I don't go out and advertise it, but what we do behind closed doors is our business. Again, as long as your not hurting any animal or another person. Same for people that like to drink piss or smear poop on themselves, or any other kinky thing. Society may frown upon it, but if it makes you happy, then do it. We only live once, so I'm gonna stick my dick in as many fun things as possible lol.
 
Yes, I do, I am also new to it and still actively rejecting it... I have no judgement for people who do actively take part in it, in fact I rather respect the fact that they are so unafraid but I am afraid or retribution :(
 
Absolutely NOT! In times past yes until I was able to jettison that aspect of human arrogance and ignorance. There are biological, emotional and mental components that affect us in this regard. The biological one is to ensure the continuation of a species that reproduces sexually. The emotional component stems from humans (and other animals) herd nature and the 'need' to be part of such. Mentally the challenge is to surmount both of the other components AND deprogram one's self. On a spiritual level all life is equal and precious even if we lack understanding of that principle. Intimate embrace is a form of 'worship' and a 'holy' event. The generalized comments about consent and abuse et al. melt away when one sincerely chooses to learn from observation and experience...
 
Yes, I think in a world with anti-zoo societies it is complicated but then in my point of view, if I haven't been attracted to beastiality, I think I would have been admitted to a psychiatric institution having suicidal thoughts and/or on anti-depressant / bipolar meds for how long? Been sexually attracted to animals changed my whole unstable depressing life ( dishonesty, mood swings etc) back to a normal stable life, which includes honesty, dignity, loyalty, passion and kindness and I am grateful and don't regret it
 
I've watched zoo porn for nearly 20 years, I'm a 31 y/o male. It was something that instantly attracted me and to this day has an ability to turn me on tremendously. However i've only reached out to people with similar interests recently. Especially people on this site seem to have a powerful sense of confidence in who they are, this makes me incredibly jealous. Obviously this carries a bit of a taboo socially which I get is part of the appeal for some. I raised my interest in zoo to my ex and she was pretty much mortified and i believe it led to the end of my relationship. That could explain why I feel so dirty or guilty or it could be social conditioning. I just feel defective for enjoying it so much.

My question to you all is how do you feel about your own sexual desires, does it make you feel bad? do you not give a shit? obviously there's an element where you do have to be discreet and hide since in many cases it's illegal. I'd love to feel more confident and accept myself. I don't think zoos are doing anything wrong. It's a beautiful relationship and so what if it's between species. sorry for rambling, looking forward to your responses
 
 
I've watched zoo porn for nearly 20 years, I'm a 31 y/o male. It was something that instantly attracted me and to this day has an ability to turn me on tremendously. However i've only reached out to people with similar interests recently. Especially people on this site seem to have a powerful sense of confidence in who they are, this makes me incredibly jealous. Obviously this carries a bit of a taboo socially which I get is part of the appeal for some. I raised my interest in zoo to my ex and she was pretty much mortified and i believe it led to the end of my relationship. That could explain why I feel so dirty or guilty or it could be social conditioning. I just feel defective for enjoying it so much.

My question to you all is how do you feel about your own sexual desires, does it make you feel bad? do you not give a shit? obviously there's an element where you do have to be discreet and hide since in many cases it's illegal. I'd love to feel more confident and accept myself. I don't think zoos are doing anything wrong. It's a beautiful relationship and so what if it's between species. sorry for rambling, looking forward to your responses
I dont give a shit.
Happines loves silence.
Indeed you nees to be descreet, but im happy because i found some friends whom i can share my interests and desires without feeling a guilt upon my chest. And im pretty confident when it comes to standoffs, if needed. I like myself, all my fetishes and kinks. I do not harm to any people or animal. Know my limits and abilities.
 
I didn't harm any animal or person, so don't worry about that. The thing is I feel guilty about the way I feel about animals, especially dogs

I love and am attracted to them but at the same time I can't help but feel like this is wrong, that I will end up hurting them without even noticing, and that maybe I should just go to a psychiatrist... I know this isn't wrong, but... A part of me can't stop feeling guilty and afraid, and feeling like maybe I should try to live a more "normal" life.

I don't really know, and it would be great to know if any of you has felt the same way and how you got through it.

Peace to everyone, have a nice day, and sorry for any bad grammar, English is not my first language and I learnt it by myself
 
From my first dog there may have been some guilt for me. But this was over a decade ago, so I may not remember how I felt then. I could add for knowing if you're hurting them is watching their body language, and watching their emotions a lot closer.
I know everyone is different, but I just dealt everyday as normal may be find something to do or get my mind off something.
 
Dealing with guilt is quite common, especially for starting zoos.
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It will pass once you realize there is nothing you can do and you are doing no harm.
 
I didn't harm any animal or person, so don't worry about that. The thing is I feel guilty about the way I feel about animals, especially dogs

I love and am attracted to them but at the same time I can't help but feel like this is wrong, that I will end up hurting them without even noticing, and that maybe I should just go to a psychiatrist... I know this isn't wrong, but... A part of me can't stop feeling guilty and afraid, and feeling like maybe I should try to live a more "normal" life.

I don't really know, and it would be great to know if any of you has felt the same way and how you got through it.

Peace to everyone, have a nice day, and sorry for any bad grammar, English is not my first language and I learnt it by myself

I think it is a fairly common feeling, most of us grow up in a society that tends to pressure people to conform to certain morms.

As for seeking the services of a psychiatrist, I think most people would benefit greatly from such, but their response to zoophilia should be neutral provided there isn't any harm. I would never encourage someone to take this path because we tend to get emotionally involved with our partners and they do not live as long, so it tends make a life punctuated with loss....something I would avoid if I it were simply a choice.

If individuals choose to share a mutually pleasurable experience where all are adults who can engage or not as they see fit and there is no harm to any party, then I see no reason to feel guilty as I cannot see any harm in it.

I think it is important to reflect on the actions we take and examine them regularly to reduce the chances of acciental transgressions.

Some may find it gross and I'd encourage them to not engage in activity that they find repulsive, but if it works for you and a partner and there's no harm, I see no reason to feel bad about it.

There are ways to test and prove if the encounters are positive or negatve for the dog. Learned behaviors will increase or maintain frequency in the presence of a positive reinforcement and decrease in frequency with a negative/punishment. With that in mind, we can pick a specific "trick" you want the dog to do to invite sex (and never otherwise) then we can teach it using postive reinforcement as usual. Once the dog understands the new behavior/trick, switch to the cue being an invitation for sex. If the dog keeps "asking" with no other reward involved, you've got a pretty reliable answer.
 
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