When did you first try sex toys?

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wolfgrrlT said:
I was exactly the same. BAsically whatever I had handy became a toy, hairbrush handle, shampoo bottle, marker pens, pop bottles... then I discovered that bad dragon and amazon deliver!!!
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I've often said that had I been a woman, besides having one of my favorite things to play with, nothing would be safe from inserting it to find out the feeling. :unsure:
 
Nikkisha said:
I am from a very conservative family, so the mere thought of using something other than fingers was scary. Even masturbation induced guilt in my psyche. A year into marriage, i am staring at a particularly large eggplant, decided to throw caution into the wind, wrapped a condom on it and had some sweet sweet fun with it.:D I never had a real toy ever. I once smuggled a small 6 inch dildo but hubby found out and threw it away. :mad:
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WHEN my ex and I would play, I liked watching and helping her with her toys. Someone knock some sense into that man!
 
I explored my backdoor play probably in my early teens when I found it fun to insert simple stuff, like small paper wads. Eventually kept playing with more, even what I learned much later was some simple sounds with toys I had. First real toy was a butt plug in my mid-20s. Anything like the weird sleeves for men to use just didn't work for me beyond once. It's like my "guy" would find it interesting the first time, but then next time "been there, done that, boring, it ain't real!" Even one of those porn star molded pussies I invested in with the nylon pubes didn't feel real enough. Also cost a lot of money to only split in half after the first few uses. Can't just go back to the toy store and say "the thing split in half, you do have something that can take the pounding better? The porn star did 50+ videos, and her mold barely lasted through foreplay!" lol
 
Nikkisha said:
Stop talking smack about my man.. that was a long time ago, he is so much more sexy and open minded now...
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No smack intended. I just find it frustrating when one partner won't allow the other to at least share their thoughts and fantasies with the other. A toy seems like such a simple thing these days, I'm not sure how anyone can be upset about it unless that toy takes over the relationship, which it doesn't sound like here. Glad he's opened up more. You're post sounded like you had to hide still, but if he's opened up more to it, that's great! Enjoy! :)
 
Bucephalus said:
Mine was my first semester at college. I was raised pretty LDS so touching yourself at all was "against the word of wisdom". I got lucky and had some pretty open roommates. I one of them let me borrow the hitachi for a night. I bought one of my own immediately after ?
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What sort of god would give you a clit if you weren't supposed to touch it? What would be the purpose, otherwise? Also, if we weren't programmed to fuck as a primary drive, we wouldn't be here. We all exist because sex is THE reason we exist. I've never understood that about religions that get weird about fucking; what sort of sadistic creator would give you a clit that you're not supposed to touch? It's absurd.
 
Kristy said:
My mom was the SECOND most slutty woman I've ever known. She was fantastic.
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I'm hoping you're number one? How would you know exactly how slutty she was, though? If you don't mind sharing, I'd love to hear some stories over DM. Growing up completely vanilla, I'm fascinated by people that grew up differently.
 
I had my first orgasm around 6 grinding on a stuffed animal but it took me til about 12 or 13 to figure out how to do it again. I used hairbrush handles bottles polished rocks goofballs big markers but my favorite was my electric toothbrush. Just about anything I thought was close to fitting was a toy. But a commercially made toy was 15.
 
Daddy'sLittleCumSlutt said:
I had my first orgasm around 6 grinding on a stuffed animal but it took me til about 12 or 13 to figure out how to do it again. I used hairbrush handles bottles polished rocks goofballs big markers but my favorite was my electric toothbrush. Just about anything I thought was close to fitting was a toy. But a commercially made toy was 15.
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this is what I'd expect. I'm surprised parents don't get their girls toys to avoid everything getting fucked/slimed haha
 
This takes a bit of explanation, as I'm both asexual and generally sex-repulsed. In my early teenage years, I quickly realized that I was extremely sexually inactive compared to my peers. I'd masturbate around once per-month and it was more of a "cleanout" than an activity I enjoyed. As I became an adult, I found myself actually really disliking penile pleasure in basically every form. Even for me today, touching my penis feels uncomfortable and unpleasant. It doesn't hurt. It just feels gross. I've talked to multiple doctors about it but have never been able to come up with an answer as to why. Honestly, I kind of prefer myself this way anyway, so it's not like it's a huge burden. Just a weird personal quirk.

That said, when I got into college, I started wondering if my body would react in a similar way to anal pleasure. Fingering myself never gave any conclusive evidence, so at age 21, I bought a cheap dildo on Amazon just to try it out. Turns out, that was a really good call. Soon as I had a dildo touch my prostate, I was in heaven. Having a sexual act actually feel good was really bizarre to me, and I wasn't really sure what to make of it. I kept trying more stuff with the dildo once per-week just to experiment. Within a month, I was able to cum hands-free. Within two months I was able to do so reliably. I haven't cum "normally", from penile stimulation, since.

I'm still incredibly sexually inactive. My sessions are now usually once every two weeks or so, and I'm not really interested in pushing myself further than that. Even every week leaves me feeling pretty deflated. When I get a dildo in though and start riding though, it's impossible to hold back moans. Seriously, for any guy who is even semi-curious about exploring anal play, I can't recommend it enough. Get some water-based lube (Bad Dragon's CumLube is honestly about the best stuff you can get for the money), get a cheap dildo, and go to town. If you want to go a step further, buy a dildo mount, grab a dildo with a suction cup, and try different positions. Hands-free orgasms managed to turn me from the pinnacle of male chastity to a pretty major butt-slut in zero time flat. You don't need to be gay (or even be generally interested in sex at all) to get the most out of anal play. Don't get tied down by the stigma and just buy a dildo.
 
TheDarkPrince said:
Sort of following on from some other when and how threads.
I'd love to know what age people here first tried sex toys and how it came about.?
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females can get creative and use basically anything with a cylindrical shape; it's far harder for males... well, for males that are not into butt play
 
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I'm hoping you're number one? How would you know exactly how slutty she was, though? If you don't mind sharing, I'd love to hear some stories over DM. Growing up completely vanilla, I'm fascinated by people that grew up differently.
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What...of COURSE I'm number one. And the reason I knew how she was, though one of my favorite topics, is not allowed in forums OR in DM/PMs. I'm sorry about that.
 
Nikkisha said:
I am from a very conservative family, so the mere thought of using something other than fingers was scary. Even masturbation induced guilt in my psyche. A year into marriage, i am staring at a particularly large eggplant, decided to throw caution into the wind, wrapped a condom on it and had some sweet sweet fun with it.:D I never had a real toy ever. I once smuggled a small 6 inch dildo but hubby found out and threw it away. :mad:
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wow, you own husband? I don't know your life and all, but I wouldn't tolerate a conservative like him.
 
Bucephalus said:
Mine was my first semester at college. I was raised pretty LDS so touching yourself at all was "against the word of wisdom". I got lucky and had some pretty open roommates. I one of them let me borrow the hitachi for a night. I bought one of my own immediately after ?
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LSD?
 
When I was 12 or 13 I started experimenting with putting stuff up my butt and built myself a dildo out of a metal flashlight (around 3-4 cm in diameter) and the sawn of top of a wooden egg. Glued them together, put a condom on it in case the glued wouldn't hold and rode it :3
Since the flashlight was made of ribbed sheetmetal it felt quite good xD
 
When I was too young to mention I had a stuffed fox I would hump. I think my 1st use of an actual sex toy was when I was 17 or 18. It was a cheap hard plastic vibrator whose vibration didn't work & it was shaped like a long bullet w a rounded head. It was super disappointing
 
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