Married but alone in this ... you too?

It took me a while (about 10 years) to open up about my 'porn taste'. Generally I dont like normal porn at all- way too much ego, abuse and baggage as well as just naked people not being exciting. I much prefer animals for many reasons although I've still not made it a reality! We took ecstasy together and you can have some deep,deep heart to heart conversations ... that's when it came out. My partner is very supportive and wants to watch my/zoo porn with me but.. I feel totally different and like he is judging me/ watching over my shoulder and that anxiety is a turn off for me. That's my own problem though.
 
Not married but curious question about those who are. Aside from the zoo interest, do you find your libido is higher than your partners?
 
Well my situation is married had loads of ups and downs (mostly downs). We own horses which are mostly my responsibility and a yard away from our house. I have always escaped my wife by hiding down the yard with the animals which i have always loved but never sexual active until my married was on a low. I used to play with family bitch a lot as young teen and a few mares we had back then so it was not a new thing but something i had not practiced for a while. I has been fun extending my releastionships with the ponies again.
 
RiverPhoenix said:
I am fairly new here and not sure if this thread will be helpful or just duplicative (if so feel free to ignore), but I see a few conversations going back a ways about married persons (male and female) either who can't tell their partner, their partner isn't interested, etc.. Thought maybe a consolidated thread for those of us in that situation might be a good way for some us to share our interests and experiences, what we hope to get out of being here, connect with like-minded individuals, etc. Or is there a group for this or should there be (I have no idea how the groups work lol)? Or feel free to message me directly if you want to discuss. My preference is to discuss not so much what's wrong with our current situation or partner (some people just aren't into it) but focus on more on what we can do to feel more fulfilled living with this interest. Hopefully that makes sense to someone out there
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RiverPhoenix said:
I am fairly new here and not sure if this thread will be helpful or just duplicative (if so feel free to ignore), but I see a few conversations going back a ways about married persons (male and female) either who can't tell their partner, their partner isn't interested, etc.. Thought maybe a consolidated thread for those of us in that situation might be a good way for some us to share our interests and experiences, what we hope to get out of being here, connect with like-minded individuals, etc. Or is there a group for this or should there be (I have no idea how the groups work lol)? Or feel free to message me directly if you want to discuss. My preference is to discuss not so much what's wrong with our current situation or partner (some people just aren't into it) but focus on more on what we can do to feel more fulfilled living with this interest. Hopefully that makes sense to someone out there. :)
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I'm married to my husband and if he ever found out that i am zoo he would probably have me kicked out of the house or maybe even worse. How do u tell someone about your desires if you know they aren't going to be supportive or at least understanding? I can literally never come out of the closet because the people i know would judge me and wouldn't get it
 
dogthron3 said:
I'm married to my husband and if he ever found out that i am zoo he would probably have me kicked out of the house or maybe even worse. How do u tell someone about your desires if you know they aren't going to be supportive or at least understanding? I can literally never come out of the closet because the people i know would judge me and wouldn't get it
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Exactly! Quite a dilemma. BUT, I still have that desire and want to fulfill it.
 
I suppose I'm pretty lucky, none of my current partners are into animals like I am but I've told them of my interests and they are very supportive of my desires even if they don't share them at all. I had a friend who was also into animals and she could never tell her husband because she half mentioned it as a hypothetical and he flipped out on her about how disgusting the entire idea was and it shut her down so hard she barely spoke to me for almost a year.
 
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