Married but alone in this ... you too?

Sounds like many are not able to carry out their desires and are mostly looking at content on here and/or maybe looking to connect with others to have discussions, is that right?. Curious for those who are active, what has been the "logistics" of doing so with a spouse around a lot of the time? Is it like the "Moms into the Lifestyle" thread where you are doing it in the laundry room at night, or are you going outside the home to find partners? If anyone is willing to share.

BTW, if anyone ever wants to discuss their desires and/or frustrations further but more on the DL, feel free to message me.
 
Brazool said:
I feel in the same situation but in a lapse of courage I told my wife that I was in a whatssapp group that had sent a video of a dog fucking a woman. she said: "what a horror, go out and denounce this group". it was a cold water bath.
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LOL 😂
 
For those that say there's no way u could ever bring it up u don't have to right tell them ur into. All it takes is telling they won't believe wat video u were shown at work their reaction will tell u if they have any interest at all. My wife never thought about it until a girl we were talking to let it slip she let's her dog lick her. From there it evolved from checking out porn to trying being licked then eventually fucking
 
My wife knows of my fetish, and I’ve described what I would love to see her do with a dog. She got excited by it and even watched a few videos but felt really guilty afterwards. She will even start to say things like I can’t wait to get a dog and have home fuck me, when she thinks I’m taking too long to fuck her
 
eastcoastknot said:
Married male here plenty of desires and I will definitely fulfill them. Just wish there was a way to bring it in to the bedroom with the wife. Maybe once she’s tied up on the bed (she likes bondage) “accidentally” allow the dog to get by the gates and let him lick her a few times. Maybe in that horny bliss she could be accepting. Either way would be a way to open a convo about it wether it end up bad or good.
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I have thought about doing the same thing. She has no idea what the dog and I do together. Every now and then I will say something and she just responds with “that’s gross”.
 
RiverPhoenix said:
Sounds like many are not able to carry out their desires and are mostly looking at content on here and/or maybe looking to connect with others to have discussions, is that right?. Curious for those who are active, what has been the "logistics" of doing so with a spouse around a lot of the time? Is it like the "Moms into the Lifestyle" thread where you are doing it in the laundry room at night, or are you going outside the home to find partners? If anyone is willing to share.

BTW, if anyone ever wants to discuss their desires and/or frustrations further but more on the DL, feel free to message me.
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I go outside the home to a neighbouring town 2 hours drive away to a zoo couple for weekends. My partners are unaware of my preferences and never introduced to those special friends. They are business associates.
 
bobdud said:
I doubt my wife would leave me if she knew, but she would absolutely know that I'd had 'relations' with the dogs we'd had as pets and would surely resent me for that.
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But, do you like to have relationships with animals and would you accept her having too?
 
RiverPhoenix said:
I am fairly new here and not sure if this thread will be helpful or just duplicative (if so feel free to ignore), but I see a few conversations going back a ways about married persons (male and female) either who can't tell their partner, their partner isn't interested, etc.. Thought maybe a consolidated thread for those of us in that situation might be a good way for some us to share our interests and experiences, what we hope to get out of being here, connect with like-minded individuals, etc. Or is there a group for this or should there be (I have no idea how the groups work lol)? Or feel free to message me directly if you want to discuss. My preference is to discuss not so much what's wrong with our current situation or partner (some people just aren't into it) but focus on more on what we can do to feel more fulfilled living with this interest. Hopefully that makes sense to someone out there. :)
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Me too.
 
Janine said:
I go outside the home to a neighbouring town 2 hours drive away to a zoo couple for weekends. My partners are unaware of my preferences and never introduced to those special friends. They are business associates.
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What a great situation I am jealous but happy for you that you found something that works. The best kind of "business" associates. Assume you are taking lots more business trips these days. :)
 
RiverPhoenix said:
So just on the lighter and maybe somewhat absurd side of things, a few moments ago I was watching a video on here (without sound of course) while my wife was cooking in the next room and asking me a few questions about my day. If she only knew. o_O
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Awww so did she have to bring ur dinner too u or did u mange to stand up with out showing
 
RiverPhoenix said:
I am fairly new here and not sure if this thread will be helpful or just duplicative (if so feel free to ignore), but I see a few conversations going back a ways about married persons (male and female) either who can't tell their partner, their partner isn't interested, etc.. Thought maybe a consolidated thread for those of us in that situation might be a good way for some us to share our interests and experiences, what we hope to get out of being here, connect with like-minded individuals, etc. Or is there a group for this or should there be (I have no idea how the groups work lol)? Or feel free to message me directly if you want to discuss. My preference is to discuss not so much what's wrong with our current situation or partner (some people just aren't into it) but focus on more on what we can do to feel more fulfilled living with this interest. Hopefully that makes sense to someone out there. :)
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Same
 
Wife struggles with anything more than missionary, when I'm lucky enough to get that. Zoophilia?!?!? No telling what names I would be called. *sigh* The life I've chosen and continue to live, but it's my choice. Jealous of the others who have understanding spouses or alternative arrangements elsewhere. I would jump at the opportunity.
 
Jdoggy said:
South Alabama here and following this one. My wife would come unglued if she were to find out. Been with her for 11 years and she has no idea I've been active with my boys 2 or 3 times a week for 20 years. (I have always had doberman) I'll go between copulation with my boy to her orally and vaginally within the hour sometimes. Hell of a secret😊
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Ha! I can totally see myself in this type of situation someday. Are you still able to enjoy sex with your wife? I have been with girls but nothing compares to making love to my boy! No girl has ever turned me on like he does or felt SO GOOD around my cock! I don't think unless you've experienced it you could ever understand. He is always horny and ready to go whenever one of us is in the mood. Sometimes multiple times a day. Congrats on keeping it going for so long! That must be really hard. lol
 
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