Imagine you’re the dog. Your family just left, you don’t know when they’ll be back, if they’ll be back, you miss them greatly, and you’re stuck at home with an unfamiliar person who has total control over your wellbeing. Then out of the blue, they start groping you and trying to coerce you into sex, even though your previous owners never tried to do that. Sound a bit scary? Cause I imagine a dog in that situation would be a bit hesitant for sex.
Dogs aren’t like people. They’re not part of hook-up culture. Hell, sometimes people aren’t made for hook-up culture. If they’re not your pup, respect that. You can wait for an experience. Take a deep breath, and use your head. There’s so much more to life (and dogs) than sex.
(Also I don’t know how my tone comes across in this, but just know it’s not meant to be abrasive or anything, lol. I understand you didn’t mean harm)