I must say when i get a pic of a guy sat in a ripped lazyboy with bèer cans strewn round and his cock out I'm overwhelmed by desire
To kick him in the nuts
What she said! ^^^^^^^^^
Some 98% of initial messages are either a disgusting volley of vulgar sex demands, lists of sex acts I can perform for the guy's satisfaction, or just "hey" or "hru". The first are self-centered narcissistic demands, the latter people too uninterested in spending time being interesting, so just complete fails.
This isn't rocket science. Put some effort into forming a relationship based on the proverbial "us", not you, or your dick.
And ask if I/women consent to receiving sexual messages. Or what our preferences are. Telling me you want me to find a dog to fuck you ass then knot me is a instant hard pass. Like most mature women -- not all, but most --I've learned to be interpersonally avoidant of bisexual men. And I won't ever do ass-to-anything -- it's disgusting. I've had salmonella poisoning (from tainted water). It sucked. Never, ever, doing anything with any type of risk of that. Duh.
It is what it is, the "bi male thing" is the reason most of the actually interesting men I've found/talked to here who can't find a female partner.
For me to spend time looking at hairy man ass? He'd have to be an EXCEPTIONAL person in every other area, a quality human who invests time building functioning relationships, not just me but with everyone around him. The one who never lies about sneaking out to get dick, and isn't hiding behind me as an avacodo to get more dick.
That rare guy? Then "it's on" and fuck yeah I'll fly with you to Nogales and help you put on an actual Donkey/mangina show. Make the myth a reality ;-)
I mention that to get the point across -- I, like many women here, am fucking twisted. I'm into zoo. Gangbangs, most fun things. But it doesn't mean I'm into YOUR kinks, and I sure as shit don't want you pressing your dick desires at me before I know or like you.