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An online crush...

Shegotme said:
I am married but I have a huge crush on a guy I met through here and have talk to every day sense. But I know it can't go anywhere. I tell myself "just friends... Just friends..." But it is hard when you connect on a decent amount of levels.
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If married, it's okay to have a really, really good friend of either gender, even IRL, IF you know where the line is and don't cross it.
 
Bladesmith said:
I met and fell in love with an amazing girl on Imgur a few years ago. We exchanged phone numbers and talked for hours at a time. She was a perfect match for me, and one day decided she was going to move back to where her parents were from (Kuwait), and I never heard from her again. I still miss her and our conversations
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Oh, that is rough...I'm sorry.
 
Bladesmith said:
I met and fell in love with an amazing girl on Imgur a few years ago. We exchanged phone numbers and talked for hours at a time. She was a perfect match for me, and one day decided she was going to move back to where her parents were from (Kuwait), and I never heard from her again. I still miss her and our conversations
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Sometimes you just gotta let things like that go... There's nothing you can do in situations like that.
 
It’s happened to me a few times. I find online crushes to be temporary though. After a while things just sort of die down. I mean what do you do when you actually want to hug and cuddle up next to the person? There’s only so much you could do over a screen.
 
xXSINNERXx said:
It’s happened to me a few times. I find online crushes to be temporary though. After a while things just sort of die down. I mean what do you do when you actually want to hug and cuddle up next to the person? There’s only so much you could do over a screen.
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You actually want to... Never mind.
 
Long distance relationships can build when things fit. The only problem is you have so many players that can read a person and say the right things. Trust your instincts and keep yourself safe.
 
Kristy said:
Have you ever developed a crush on someone online? Do you even think it's possible?
You've exchanged a few PMs with this amazing person over a period of days. They seem so perfect, your heart has already been fluttering for them. You can't wait for their next message...running to your computer is the first thing you do upon waking in the morning or arriving home. Your phone or computer can't get online fast enough...is there a message? Is there? Is there?

So, dear hearts and gentle people, have you ever found yourself in this position, or do you believe it impossible?
Feel free to expound upon your comments.
Thank-you!
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I used to believe in meeting someone online but I was catfished about 5 times. So I went to start meeting women that were more local but I was determined to finding a woman into k9 but that could have feelings for. I thought to just post photos of me and my dog on dating apps and that’s how I attracted a woman who loved dogs and then it was just a question of hoping she was even just a little more open minded.
 
No, not any online infatuations. There are a couple of ladies with whom I greatly enjoy interacting. Both write zoo erotica and one has a zoo story site. Those interactions haven't gone beyond light flirting and that's how I'd prefer to keep it.
 
Nice thread @Kristy
I am having a recent crush issue with someone on here. But she's engaged I believe. Great to chat to and very funny. Also very far away. But even at my age (44) I feel great to just be able to chat to her and learn more about her. But the more I learn about her the more I like her. It's kind of funny but nice to get butterflies in the tummy at 40 plus.
However I wish I could take it further!
Chivalry and common sense both don't allow it!
 
I met my first GF online on an RP forum. We were both horny fools and I ended up driving halfway across the country to meet up with her. Luckily for me she was a real person, and I moved in with her for a little while. However once the hornies wore off, we both realized that we didn't really have that much in common.
 
M_barberian said:
Long distance relationships can build when things fit. The only problem is you have so many players that can read a person and say the right things. Trust your instincts and keep yourself safe.
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Yes, too many are the wrong people, both male and female, who only want to mess with you. Rather sick if you think about it.
 
lovingfreely said:
I used to believe in meeting someone online but I was catfished about 5 times. So I went to start meeting women that were more local but I was determined to finding a woman into k9 but that could have feelings for. I thought to just post photos of me and my dog on dating apps and that’s how I attracted a woman who loved dogs and then it was just a question of hoping she was even just a little more open minded.
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Wow, I'm so sorry you had those catfishes. Thank goodness you seem to have met the right person. Thank-you for commenting.
 
likestowatchinnc said:
No, not any online infatuations. There are a couple of ladies with whom I greatly enjoy interacting. Both write zoo erotica and one has a zoo story site. Those interactions haven't gone beyond light flirting and that's how I'd prefer to keep it.
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Yes, quite often, it's best to keep it in "light flirting" mode. That's using your head on a site like this. I appreciate your comment.
 
I wouldn't expect a thread from @Kristy to be anything but amazing.

I don't think that there's anything wrong with online crushes, I'm sure in the right circumstances it could definitely work out in real life if the crush is of mutual feeling between both people. We are all human beings and have some very complex emotions and that feeling you get when you get a message from someone and the butterflies are swirling and have a release of dopamine is a very comforting.

Do i get similar feelings whenever I get a message or reaction from certain people on here, absolutely. Does it worry me? Not at all. If all the stars aligned and it was somehow possible to meet those people, i would jump at the chance especially if those joys that are received by a message or the like was mutual.
 
Japip said:
Nice thread @Kristy
I am having a recent crush issue with someone on here. But she's engaged I believe. Great to chat to and very funny. Also very far away. But even at my age (44) I feel great to just be able to chat to her and learn more about her. But the more I learn about her the more I like her. It's kind of funny but nice to get butterflies in the tummy at 40 plus.
However I wish I could take it further!
Chivalry and common sense both don't allow it!
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Thank-you for your compliment.
Ah yes, those butterflies, and your wish to take it further is pretty normal, but you mentioned that common sense thing; that's your brain struggling to keep your heart in one piece. Be careful! Thank-you for your comments.
 
amorousdog5 said:
I met my first GF online on an RP forum. We were both horny fools and I ended up driving halfway across the country to meet up with her. Luckily for me she was a real person, and I moved in with her for a little while. However once the hornies wore off, we both realized that we didn't really have that much in common.
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You got more lucky than some, don't you think? A real person is something many others can only wish for. I'm sorry it wasn't permanent, but I guess it wasn't going to be, the way it seems. Thank-you for sharing this.
 
Kristy said:
Thank-you for your compliment.
Ah yes, those butterflies, and your wish to take it further is pretty normal, but you mentioned that common sense thing; that's your brain struggling to keep your heart in one piece. Be careful! Thank-you for your comments.
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Yeah. Don't worry about being careful! I am old and this is pretty one sided. And this isn't a movie as well. ?
 
missadventure said:
I wouldn't expect a thread from @Kristy to be anything but amazing.

I don't think that there's anything wrong with online crushes, I'm sure in the right circumstances it could definitely work out in real life if the crush is of mutual feeling between both people. We are all human beings and have some very complex emotions and that feeling you get when you get a message from someone and the butterflies are swirling and have a release of dopamine is a very comforting.

Do i get similar feelings whenever I get a message or reaction from certain people on here, absolutely. Does it worry me? Not at all. If all the stars aligned and it was somehow possible to meet those people, i would jump at the chance especially if those joys that are received by a message or the like was mutual.
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You made a lot of important points. Nothing at all wrong wrong with an online thing, but you used an important phrase: "Mutual feelings." Both people involved need to know exactly what is happening, what will NOT be happening, and have to be in it for the same reasons.

Unless an offline meet happens and results in forever-romance, online won't last forever for various reasons. The above circumstances, and circumstances stated by you, will at least help the ending from being a big, painful crash.

Thank-you for your comments, and your compliment!
 
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