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An online crush...

Kristy said:
Ah yes. That's why I NEVER want anyone to tell me where they stand, politically. It really ruins everything.
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For instances like that, it would be preferable to pair up with someone that has the same stance as you...or has no stance, but is not above letting you have your own stance.
 
I once sold something on eBay and struck up a conversation with the buyer. It certainly wasn't me who started it, but it seemed that in no time at all the subject of the emails got very raunchy indeed. At first I was very suspicious until out of the blue she called me on my landline, and yes, she was female alright and lived in Atlanta GA (I'm in Europe). But the most incredible thing to come out of this was that after we'd known each other for six months or so she confessed she loved having sex with her boyfriend's dog and treated me to some amazing photos (can't share those particular ones as they went down with the computer they were on, and besides, I wouldn't dream of doing that without her permission, and I haven't been in contact with her for several years now).
 
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cynofile said:
I once sold something on eBay and struck up a conversation with the buyer. It certainly wasn't me who started it, but it seemed that in no time at all the subject of the emails got very raunchy indeed. At first I was very suspicious until out of the blue she called me on my landline, and yes, she was female alright and lived in Atlanta GA (I'm in Europe). But the most incredible thing to come out of this was that after we'd known each other for six months or so she confessed she loved having sex with her boyfriend's dog and treated me to some amazing photos (can't share those particular ones as they went down with the computer they were on, and besides, I wouldn't dream of doing that without her permission, and I haven't been in contact with her for several years now).
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What a nice little thing you had going, there. Lovely!
 
I developed 1 recently, but found out that she's not into guys.

I'm not doing too well...
 
I have a crush on someone's dog I'm trying to meet. Every time they send me a pic if them....naughty or nice....my heart soars and i start to blush and my heart rate increases three fold ......just seeing a picture of them brightens up my day and I can pain a distinct and perfect picture of how incredible it will be meeting him.....and I can see with exact detail all the things we will do <3
 
I have actually only had 3 relationships in my life. All of which were online. The first was a furry (borderline zoo) that was a pipeline worker who traveled state to state. Six months later I'm in love and he says he's coming to my state. And that he's decided he doesn't like me enough to continue our relationship. 6 months later I meet another furry (def zoo) and intend things to be a friendship as I'm still completely heartbroken over my ex. Few months later and some drama involving fake identities, I find my attraction to him stuck between friend and boyfriend. I never fell in love, even though he did. So I lead him on and gave him hope because he severely needed psychiatric attention. It took 8 months total but I got him to a doc and on meds. At this point he knows I simply won't fall in love. So we take a break from talking. A month or two later I meet a super nice guy on this site. I have an uncanny ability to tell when I'm going to like someone a lot. I felt it with the previous two and no others before that. Until this guy. Our chances of meeting were negligible, but just reading his messages made me happy. I was still anonymous so I decide to get my big issue out of the way. I inform him of a darker philia I have (strictly non-practicing), to get it out of the way. Next day he decides it makes him too nervous, so he leaves. Same day my friend I got on meds decides that since I was talking to someone else (online status on telegram) it meant I had totally dumped him and didn't care about him anymore. So he blocks me on everything and leaves. My two last trustworthy people that I could be myself around, both gone within a day. And the cherry on top is that I'm becoming resistant to my anti-depressants. And that's the story of how I wonder every night if I have enough klonopin to sleep forever. Sorry for the rant, I'm just having a tough time and needed to let something out. Just ignore me.
 
pupwhoshaggedme said:
I have a crush on someone's dog I'm trying to meet. Every time they send me a pic if them....naughty or nice....my heart soars and i start to blush and my heart rate increases three fold ......just seeing a picture of them brightens up my day and I can pain a distinct and perfect picture of how incredible it will be meeting him.....and I can see with exact detail all the things we will do <3
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Fascinating...and very sweet!
 
Feels like having crushes on someone online is just as bad as having a crush on someone in real life. Wish I'd stop crushing so hard.
 
Yes but haven't we all.

Relationships of that sort can be fun, exhilirating, and exciting but like most things they run their course.

I am really happy with the fact that a couple of my online crushes and I have remained very good and close friends to this day so there can be a reward.

I usually find it best to go into things like this with no expectations and let things go where they will go in their own way.
 
Kristy said:
Have you ever developed a crush on someone online? Do you even think it's possible?
You've exchanged a few PMs with this amazing person over a period of days. They seem so perfect, your heart has already been fluttering for them. You can't wait for their next message...running to your computer is the first thing you do upon waking in the morning or arriving home. Your phone or computer can't get online fast enough...is there a message? Is there? Is there?

So, dear hearts and gentle people, have you ever found yourself in this position, or do you believe it impossible?
Feel free to expound upon your comments.
Thank-you!
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Not only have I "been there, and done that", but I got lucky once... I have been in a long-term relationship with a woman that I met online, and corresponded with for several months with... And eventually met in person.
We've been a couple, for over 7 years, now.

On the other hand, I DID have several "false starts" and disappointments, along the way...
 
eisbaer63 said:
Not only have I "been there, and done that", but I got lucky once... I have been in a long-term relationship with a woman that I met online, and corresponded with for several months with... And eventually met in person.
We've been a couple, for over 7 years, now.

On the other hand, I DID have several "false starts" and disappointments, along the way...
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Why the quotes around "false starts"?
 
Kristy said:
Have you ever developed a crush on someone online? Do you even think it's possible?
You've exchanged a few PMs with this amazing person over a period of days. They seem so perfect, your heart has already been fluttering for them. You can't wait for their next message...running to your computer is the first thing you do upon waking in the morning or arriving home. Your phone or computer can't get online fast enough...is there a message? Is there? Is there?

So, dear hearts and gentle people, have you ever found yourself in this position, or do you believe it impossible?
Feel free to expound upon your comments.
Thank-you!
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Yup....more than once, but if they have legs, I make them real.
 
Online crushes specially those that turn into online relationships can be very exciting and lovely.
When it plays out in a smaller community (like the one were on) it can how ever get really tricky! Jealousy more often than not plays a big part - not always between the couple them selves, a third party can start to saw seeds of distrust by posting all sorts of ways and things can go south real fast. But there's plenty of people who've managed to have online relationships for years!
Either way, be careful and just enjoy it for what it is.
 
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