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An online crush...

It's easier to have an online crush I think, especially somewhere like here where people are so open and the possibilities for infatuation are endless. I certainly can relate to that rushing to your computer or phone to see if " he, she, it or they have messaged you" but taking it to the next level and away from the fantasy world where you have to meet them and get on with them on a day to day basis with all their faults, the belching, farting, arse scratching, hands down the trousers fumbling, the drooling and the hundred and one other turn offs that's a whole other ball game.
I apologise in advance of meeting any of you for all my faults listed above!
 
Never had one. I’ve had online friends, but it’s hard for me to become infatuated with someone I’ve never met.
 
Kristy said:
Have you ever developed a crush on someone online? Do you even think it's possible?
You've exchanged a few PMs with this amazing person over a period of days. They seem so perfect, your heart has already been fluttering for them. You can't wait for their next message...running to your computer is the first thing you do upon waking in the morning or arriving home. Your phone or computer can't get online fast enough...is there a message? Is there? Is there?

So, dear hearts and gentle people, have you ever found yourself in this position, or do you believe it impossible?
Feel free to expound upon your comments.
Thank-you!
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Yes, I sure have. He wasn't what I was hoping he'd be, but we're still friends at this point. I was hoping for more, what with the way we were talking for at least a year or two. And what we had been talking about, we have/had things in common, but... It was disappointing to meet him in reality. It's probably my fault anyway for wanting more.
 
Yes i have, at the time i loved it afterwards it gave me definitely trust issues towards other online people sadly
 
Kristy said:
Have you ever developed a crush on someone online? Do you even think it's possible?
You've exchanged a few PMs with this amazing person over a period of days. They seem so perfect, your heart has already been fluttering for them. You can't wait for their next message...running to your computer is the first thing you do upon waking in the morning or arriving home. Your phone or computer can't get online fast enough...is there a message? Is there? Is there?

So, dear hearts and gentle people, have you ever found yourself in this position, or do you believe it impossible?
Feel free to expound upon your comments.
Thank-you!
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Yes.. everyday Haynes with me... With my online gf.. Everyday check many time if I get message or not...
 
We're living proof that online relationships, even LDR's, can be successful.

My deceased wife and I met my sweet fiancee on Beast Forum and all 3 of us were crushing on each other for months before meeting: we lived in CA & she's in WA. Prior to that we had a torrid 3-way crush with another member that resulted in several long weekends in New England: she flew from the UK and we flew from CA.

As it turns out, my deceased wife and now fiancee are both serial online romantics: serious online crushes with both sexes, some of which evolved into flings and more IRL (e.g., my fiancee almost moved to the UK for someone she met on a DDlg dating site).

Heck, even now she'll seek permission to search dating sites in hopes of connecting with someone! It's part of who she is and I love her As Is; just don't lie about it!

Bottom-line, be patient, go slow, be very careful, trust your instincts, don't compromise just because you're super hot-n-horny, and put energy into it because you may just meet The One!
 
Pillar said:
Why is it dangerous?
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Ever hear of the CraigsList killer? It was the Go To relationship site (in the SF Bay Area, don't know about other regions) before a serial killer used it to find victims. Too bad too: thats how I met my deceased wife.

I was also scammed on that and other sites 2 or 3 times over the years: lost several hundred $$'s. I'll ask my fiancee to provide other examples because let's face it, serial killers aren't common but robbery, rape and God knows what are.
 
Renegadewa1 said:
I just reconnected with one today and I'm not sure how I feel about that.

Very mixed feelings and emotions.
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Yes, there is a lot going there, one's mind and heart zapping msgs back and forth to each other, and sometimes not even agreeing.
I'm hoping the best for you on this.
 
I have to add....online relationships are the seed of about 40 percent of all new relationships each year in the US. Obviously that doesnt specifically mean at zooville, but...A number of my own relationships started at beast forum. If she hadnt passed away, I'd still be with the one that started 15 years ago. Its not a minefield....more like a cobblestone street....you can trip and skin a knee, but you're not likely to die. E-Harmony Our Time and a hundred other sites help people find each other....so does this place.
If you're really looking, don't rule online out.
 
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I am married but I have a huge crush on a guy I met through here and have talk to every day sense. But I know it can't go anywhere. I tell myself "just friends... Just friends..." But it is hard when you connect on a decent amount of levels.
 
Kristy said:
Yes, there is a lot going there, one's mind and heart zapping msgs back and forth to each other, and sometimes not even agreeing.
I'm hoping the best for you on this.
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Thanks for the concern but I'm fine.

It just caught me off guard is all. The reconnect was totally unexpected.
 
Casual Lurker said:
I often think its impossible for me to ever have a crush as ive never had one before
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Depends on the person. Growing up on the ranch, my schoolmates and I had a few by the time we were 9 or 10. When I moved to the city there were schoolmates that didn't know anything existed outside a car engine at 17 :oops:
 
Kristy said:
That's no reason to think it will never happen. It could, very easily, online or offline.
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Normally id agree it is potentially possible but the chances are low. Usually people may have a crush of some sort by now but ive chalked it up to me being aromantic
 
I've had many online crushes over the years.

I've had a few online crushes here on this site over the past year; some crushes have waned and faded, once I discovered who they really were.

At present, from either here or from Beastchat, I only have 2 or 3. Those 2 or 3 were the only ones willing to speak to me, and allowed me to show interest.
 
Kristy said:
Have you ever developed a crush on someone online? Do you even think it's possible?
You've exchanged a few PMs with this amazing person over a period of days. They seem so perfect, your heart has already been fluttering for them. You can't wait for their next message...running to your computer is the first thing you do upon waking in the morning or arriving home. Your phone or computer can't get online fast enough...is there a message? Is there? Is there?

So, dear hearts and gentle people, have you ever found yourself in this position, or do you believe it impossible?
Feel free to expound upon your comments.
Thank-you!
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I think any little boy net geek has felt that way when he thinks he is talking to a girl.
 
Kristy said:
Have you ever developed a crush on someone online? Do you even think it's possible?
You've exchanged a few PMs with this amazing person over a period of days. They seem so perfect, your heart has already been fluttering for them. You can't wait for their next message...running to your computer is the first thing you do upon waking in the morning or arriving home. Your phone or computer can't get online fast enough...is there a message? Is there? Is there?

So, dear hearts and gentle people, have you ever found yourself in this position, or do you believe it impossible?
Feel free to expound upon your comments.
Thank-you!
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Yes, there is someone that when I receive a message or a quick note from them, it makes me smile and brightens my day. Unfortunately, they're not close enough to easily meet for a coffee or a drink, but once things get a bit back to they were, I can hopefully make some plans to meet.
 
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