gonna keep this short n whatnot. I'm a virgin, never had more than fingers in me lol. I've been thinking of trying to lose it to a dog but I'm not sure how practical that'd be (I have a hard time stretching? So idk if I'd just pussy out). Any tips for what to look for and how to prep?
Only tips I can give would be to focus more on prep the day of than anything else, sure it's a generally good idea to stretch yourself out gently so that you'll be more comfortable with having something in you, but relaxing and stretching beforehand will help out tremendously, give yourself like an hour or two to stretch. Specifically yoga helps a lot actually, also using toys to help relax yourself as it gets much easier to accommodate things if you're aroused. Another extremely important thing is using plenty of lube, put that shit on everything, in and around your vagina, all over your partner, make sure it is a safe lube to use for your companion, water based is best. make sure to take things slow, it's very easy to get caught up in the moment like
@sophandbear did on her first time, if something is painful, that's something wrong, sex is not supposed to be painful at all, if you're in pain, put a stop to it and either use more time to get ready or try again another day. Other people may try and say that a painful experience is part of the process, but that's stupid and horrible advice. I literally cannot stress this enough,
pain is your body's way of signalling something being wrong, if you are in pain during sex, stop immediately or you could seriously injure yourself.
Hope that helps at all, you can reach out to me if you need any more advice, I'll be glad to help. I don't think I need to say it one more time, but it will, pain is not normal, stop immediately if you experience any.