HellCat9788
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Just a odd question I've been thinking, mainly because I'm thinking of living alone next year
If its a legit zoo friend its heaven. hell if its not. Trust and knowing the person is keywhat's not to like about a situation like that ....sounds great to me
@Kimberly from which Part of Germany are you?why not? sounds like fun if everybody knows about it
its about trust and willingness to grow as roommatesI have a lot of zoo friends and I've only known of one pair that living together as roommates has worked out for them long term. It seem to always devolve into trust issues about who might be doing who's dog. I'm not saying it couldn't work out for any particular person, I've just seen it fail several times vs the one success.
I am from the western part do you use KIK as well?the northern part
It seem to always devolve into trust issues about who might be doing who's dog.
You're absolutely right!why not? sounds like fun if everybody knows about it
Couldn't have said it betterI chose yes but there would have to be qualifications that the person would have to meet before I lived with them. Obviously I would have to talk with them and get to know the person. They would need to be a true zoo, not just a fetishist. They would also have to prove that they are careful with how open they are with their sexuality, and that they are not someone who is going to be careless and get caught putting my partners and me in danger. And last they would need to be someone I could trust to leave alone with my partner and not have sex with them without my knowledge. I am not really one for sharing, although that may be different if I lived with someone who spent as much time with her as I did and built a good relationship with her, and she showed that she wanted to engage in those activities with that person, and they were STD free. But if they were doing it behind my back I would not be okay with that.
I've noticed the same thing which is why I stayed away from the online zoo communities for years. Too many bad encounters with heartless tail-chasers, fetishists and really gross individuals kinda temporarily yeeted my desire for seeking out zoo connections.I yes said because I already have a zoo roomate. I've known him for over 5 years, I consider him a close trusted and one of my best friends. We don't need to hide nothing from each other. I take care of his dogs as if they were my own and give them the same attention and love, plus he gives me full access for any fun whenever I and the dogs are up for it.
Though when I get my own dog I wouldn't room with another zoo outside our tight group of friends. I feel like it's becoming harder to find good trustworthy zoos who won't go behind your back to chase some tail for the their own benefit.
It could be more workable if everyone had their own partner. It would certainly be an even better chance of success if nobody cared as long as everything was consensual. Then everyone is happy. Theoretically.I have a lot of zoo friends and I've only known of one pair that living together as roommates has worked out for them long term. It seem to always devolve into trust issues about who might be doing who's dog. I'm not saying it couldn't work out for any particular person, I've just seen it fail several times vs the one success.
It should work if everybody has communication.It could be more workable if everyone had their own partner. It would certainly be an even better chance of success if nobody cared as long as everything was consensual. Then everyone is happy. Theoretically.
Yah communication and respect are two essentials missing from much of the human population these days.It should work if everybody has communication.
Working at Retail already confirms thisYah communication and respect are two essentials missing from much of the human population these days.