The bad side of Zoophilia

Katelyn said:
It's hard not being able to deflect "Why are you 30 and single" comments with "No thanks I already have a partner" instead of "not interested". As a woman who "should be married with kids by now" I do get some shit from older generations in my casino. Many of them are just old women who mean well, and who want to see me happy. I wish I could tell them they could have skipped years of hardship with a nice good bone.

My responses of "Oh I have my German Shepard and he's enough for me right now" usually get replies with "Oh you will want kids/partner/someone soon enough"!

Meanwhile I am very well-loved by friends. I have an amazing sex life. My money is doing quite well. My hobbies and interests are going quite fine (apart from COVID of course) and I have very little stress in my life. The difference between me and these women is that I never got married like they did, and unlike them I'm getting properly fucked*. I have literally everything I need or want, and I also don't want kids. I have zero interest in kids (apart from a litter of puppies tho ^_-). My parents have bought that I am mostly asexual.

So for short, being a single woman who had tied the knot privately in more ways than one with her canine lover has societal expectations.

*Seriously you men have to learn to eat pussy, quite a few of your wives don't like going down on you without you going down on them. Though considering this forum I'm sure most of you down down on pussy, human or otherwise.
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You are lucky.
Those other ladies never felt so full like you when a tennis size knot and huge swelled cock stays inside your pussy for about 30 minutes and all that pumping of hot doggy cum ?
But any plans of marrying a zoophile like-minded guy in future?
 
Shroudedx said:
Personally for me the biggest downside or negative is the difference in lifespans.

My first zoo experience was also my first sexual experience. Shortly after I turned 16 I was mounted by my hybrid wolf (not instigated) while on all fours looking for something under my bed. I felt a deep, primal connection with him and afterwards viewed myself as his mate. Sadly he passed away a few years ago and it absolutely broke my heart. This is the reason why I have not considered getting another dog. While I have had multiple sexual relationships over the years, and am a member of various kinky communities in Las Vegas, nothing quite has matched up to just the raw feeling of being his mate. He owned me, he loved me and I loved him. The hole that was left is one that I doubt will ever be filled. Sure, I’ve grown incredibly close to my best friend as of 9 years and she’s becoming more and more my girlfriend, but it isn’t the same even if we do d/s play and have talked about the possibility of me being her pet.

At the core of myself I would say I am Demi-sexual for the most part. It is rare that I do anything with someone I don’t have an emotional connection with and it is a shame that I have to sacrifice that if I wish to further pursue any of my interests in zoophilia. Sure I want to be mounted and fucked by a pig, and maybe a mini-horse, but is it a need? No. And I’m afraid to try and pursue something with another dog (owning, not casual) in fears of it possibly replacing what I once had.
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...Maybe it's time to let go of the past?
 
Pillar said:
...Maybe it's time to let go of the past?
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I won’t argue that, and part of me is trying. Doesn’t change that a strong part of me doesn’t want to put myself in that same kind of scenario with a relatively known end date.

Although in all honesty my life hasn’t had time to try to move on. I’m self employed and buried in my home office a good 60-80 hours per week. No time generally for dating or social life.
 
The worst part was feeling alone and feeling shame.
The forums before were cesspools of perpetually horny people who knew nothing about actual animals and men roleplaying women telling really stupid stories which in no way could be true and in fact harmful if taken seriously (like dogs knotting your throat lmao) and I felt like I didn't belong anywhere.
Like the zoophile community is just fakes, people who don't care about animals but only want to fuck them or things like that. The people there weren't relatable and the people outside the community were even less relatable.
The maddening feeling of loneliness and shame!

I came to find a lot of genuine, animal-loving zoos. Most were furry artists, so I found them when searching for feral furry porn. They helped a lot.

Now I feel like I belong to the community, I can be happy and proud to be a zoosexual.
Only thing left is the general attitude towards zoophilia.. it's a big thing, but I don't mind the opinions of strangers, it's not illegal where I live and if all my friends and family knew.. I'm sure they would still accept me. I've been known to be genuine and kind.
 
to me the worst part is the short lifespan.. i envy "normal" people quite a bit. you know, the usual person meets person, they fall in love and grow old together.. it's something that won't ever happen to us zoo-exclusives, all we have is to watch our lovers slowly wither and die... if you manage to pull through it will just happen again later. the time you spend together is 100% worth it, it's just i have no idea how many heartbreaks will i be able to handle mostly on my own.

not being able to be open about what your passed partner ment to you just leaves me depressed as fuck. it's a week and a few days since my boy, whom i loved more than anything in this world, passed away and all i hear from some of the people who are supposed to be the closest to me is "it was just a dog" or "just get a new one". i dread the thought of how'd they react if i ever came clean.
 
The bad thing about zoophilia in my case seems to be the same as the bad thing being a male human.
As a man, i must admit, i am sometimes aroused by thoughts about men or animals. As i am aroused by cows as animals, i am aroused by woman which are obese. I am married to an obese woman, but when my thoughts and feelings grow, i sometimes think i need to get in contact to a cow or an very, very obese person, depending on my thoughts. Its an urgent thing, it can be ended by masturbation, but i don't do that, cause its a feeling i like. Its like a viscious circle, its a good feeling, but the consequence can be bad. It may be to ruin my relationship with my wife when meeting an other wife or (with the same consequence, ruin my relationship) beeing caugh when fence hopping.
I have not done fence hopping since 8 years or so, and never had a thing with an other woman, but i have the fear that i can do such things in the future...
 
GermanCowLover said:
The bad thing about zoophilia in my case seems to be the same as the bad thing being a male human.
As a man, i must admit, i am sometimes aroused by thoughts about men or animals. As i am aroused by cows as animals, i am aroused by woman which are obese. I am married to an obese woman, but when my thoughts and feelings grow, i sometimes think i need to get in contact to a cow or an very, very obese person, depending on my thoughts. Its an urgent thing, it can be ended by masturbation, but i don't do that, cause its a feeling i like. Its like a viscious circle, its a good feeling, but the consequence can be bad. It may be to ruin my relationship with my wife when meeting an other wife or (with the same consequence, ruin my relationship) beeing caugh when fence hopping.
I have not done fence hopping since 8 years or so, and never had a thing with an other woman, but i have the fear that i can do such things in the future...
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It's not worth it. The "other" woman is what led to my divorce. What sucks is that I have been in a dry spell ever since. What is even worse is that there are so many women with STDs now. Second-wave feminism has poisoned the pond forever. It is hard to find a woman, but it is a hundred times harder when you are older.
 
It's getting harder and harder to be more accepting of myself when 99% of people that I've met with a similar mindset as me are nothing but sex freaks looking for a new ways to get off. I was very ignorant at first believing that people would only focus on the bad fucked up people instead of the good but the longer I've been around this "community" the more I realize none of you are good people. None of you care for your partners or pack mates at all, nothing but "damn would love to jizz in her" or some other fucked up shit. They're not something for you to get your rocks off on. You guys/girls/broomsticks need to sort your shit out
 
Combat Wombat said:
.. when 99% of people that I've met with a similar mindset as me are nothing but sex freaks looking for a new ways to get off. I was very ignorant at first believing that people would only focus on the bad fucked up people instead of the good but the longer I've been around this "community" the more I realize none of you are good people. None of you care for your partners or pack mates at all, nothing but "damn would love to jizz in her" or some other fucked up shit.
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Common misunderstanding of "the people".
Ask yourself a simple two-part question (and stop blaming you for your own zoophile interests, missing self-acceptance doesn't help anyone at all):

Why would people like those "with a partly comparable ("similar" is plain unrealistic) mindset to yours" write here to meet people or to communicate with them - except a few hand-selected ones they might know over longer times? What would they gain by actively communicating with random other humans, while they lead a happy life with well-cared-for animals, as example?

And yes: about 90 to 95% of newly appearing / random users are (my opinion) fetishists or worse, nothing better. But not 100%. 🤷‍♂️
 
underdoge said:
You'll rarely get a chance to know how good people are from their public posts, and it can't be assumed that someone who is acting horny has no care for animals just because they had no reason to show it.
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That might be. On the other hand: If they are posting like illiterate member-controlled lizards, not taking their time to even communicate open-minded and don't listen (read) what's written and available in terms of information.. if they actually search for something - be it chats, information, media, a time killer (games as example) - why should anyone spend time and effort to analyze them further, give them time and try to lead conversations with them?

Just because I care for animals and am willing to do almost the same you stated as your reasons (now it's a bit more common, that's an improvisation!) - answer some questions or try to help sometimes a bit - I am not willing to spent my time with people which don't even take a fair and respecting approach of people here - or at least a neutral approach without horny goals enforced upon anyone and free from abstruse requests, sexual wishes and what not.

underdoge said:
Also when people when they get more and more fulfilled, ..
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Quite a lot of those might not get "fulfilled", but walk against a wall with their head because their methods to get "fulfillment" are only ever based on their own horny being and the related goals. Be it fantasy or in real life.

And for their fulfillment they might search something which just almost never exists, comparable to those which search for willing owners to first invite them, pay their traveling fees, sponsor food and at the end allow the guests as well to copulate with their willing and horny animals.. that's just not realistic in the utmost cases. As such the "imaginary fulfillment" might often hit a wall of bricks.

underdoge said:
People who are here have a need. This is an uncomfortable place with risk of persecution and there are abusers present, so there has to be a reason to give your time to this site.
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Hm. If you want to help, that's hardly a "need". It's more of an "offer".

And for me it's the same: I get offline for 1-12 months and don't think about it much. Then - in a free time span - I thought: "Let's check what happened in ZooVille at the recent time". That's hardly a "need" as well. "Needs" are 100% bound to my real life, not a forum. But if I'm here and see some open questions of request for opinions, it doesn't cost me more than time to write a response. After all it's free or unmotivated time and a time killer is hardly a bad thing in this situation. 🤷‍♂️ If it helps someone, even better.
 
Zooguy1988 said:
Hey guys and girls, interesting question today. Is there something about zoophilia / bestiality that 'harms' you or gives you a hard time?

I answer the question first. I was and periodically still am in psychological treatment because there is one thing that I want so bad but did not achieve till now that I had hard depressions and at some points still have.

Have you may experienced something similar? Let's discuss! :)
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Just merely seeing the indifference between the "good" and "bad" disturbs me. Makes me sometimes wish people never mastered animal husbandry since humanity always seems to abuse and exploit this cycle.

At least the world would be better off without all this farming that we have today that enslave billions of lives all because of (supposedly of course since usually it's mainly speculated) zoophile types aka the ones who like animals the ones who closest understood animals taught the normal people the animal behavior who probably hoped to bring animals closer to humanity but instead humanity decided to take advantage and multiply this resource to exploit for their gain as well as a easy life.

That's how I feel it "harms" me. The gift we share with another species is taken for granted because of so many our ancestors made animals as obedient / docile is possible with as much dependency as possible.


The moment where one person does one bad thing overrides 1 million good things also is a close second to me. Just like one Pitbull people define a whole breed over it. Aka you can do this with any race of human but nobody does it it's practically the same thing. A different "breed" of human a different string of genetic code of similarities. I'll just predetermined prejudice because nobody takes the time to see the deed instead they would rather blame the whole breed.
 
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I don't get depressed about being a zoo. Like other people here it's mostly fear of being found out and that doesn't pop up too often. I"ve learned that if I'm okay with myself I can be okay with most other things. Hang in there buddy! I am so happy to have found Zooville, what a relief!!!
 
i dont really experience internal conflicts about my zoo nature, moreso just the crippling fear of being found out is what plays on my mind a lot xD
 
I agree with this, for those of us who view this as more than just a kink it’s truly a part of us. While it’s not really the same it’s kind of like if you couldn’t tell your partner you were bi. Or if there was just a whole portion of your life you knew you’d never get to mention to someone else. Honestly that’s half the reason I come on here, listening to people’s stories makes me not feel so alone.
 
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For me it's probably the legality of it. I love animals with all my heart, especially canines and often dream about finding ''the one'' among them but the knowledge that anything beyond cuddling could lead not only to social ostracism but jail time as well really hurts. and frightens me. That's what has been keeping me from ever truly expressing myself.
 
Katelyn said:
It's hard not being able to deflect "Why are you 30 and single" comments with "No thanks I already have a partner" instead of "not interested". As a woman who "should be married with kids by now" I do get some shit from older generations in my casino. Many of them are just old women who mean well, and who want to see me happy. I wish I could tell them they could have skipped years of hardship with a nice good bone.

My responses of "Oh I have my German Shepard and he's enough for me right now" usually get replies with "Oh you will want kids/partner/someone soon enough"!

Meanwhile I am very well-loved by friends. I have an amazing sex life. My money is doing quite well. My hobbies and interests are going quite fine (apart from COVID of course) and I have very little stress in my life. The difference between me and these women is that I never got married like they did, and unlike them I'm getting properly fucked*. I have literally everything I need or want, and I also don't want kids. I have zero interest in kids (apart from a litter of puppies tho ^_-). My parents have bought that I am mostly asexual.

So for short, being a single woman who had tied the knot privately in more ways than one with her canine lover has societal expectations.

*Seriously you men have to learn to eat pussy, quite a few of your wives don't like going down on you without you going down on them. Though considering this forum I'm sure most of you down down on pussy, human or otherwise.
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Sometimes, a light-hearted or humorous response can deflect unwanted questions without causing offense. You've mentioned using your German Shepherd as a deflection, which is a great example. Finding other similar deflections that work for you can be helpful.
 
My biggest issue for some time has been not being able to have a human serious relationship.
Everyone around me is getting kids and getting married. They've tried setting me up with blind dates, but I just don't feel comfortable.
Some guys have been very nice and most of them wanted to meet again and chased me (politely) with flowers and cards and text messages.

My biggest issue: how do you teel a guy that you like him a lot. That you might even have been swept away by him. Yet there is this little nagging issue that he will have to share you with my big pet dog?

1: He will freak out.
2: It is illegal.
3: He will tell people you are nuts, including your friends (no - things don't stay secret).
4: It is illegal - go back to 1, 2 or 3.

So I am caught in this catch 22 when I can't date, because I know I will fall in love with someone eventually. I don't want to be mean to a guy and just have fun for the moment and dump him when most guys have been very serious. Lastly, I don't want to go behind his back and have sex with my dog and feel bad about "cheating" on him, even though it is technically not cheating. Just because I happen to adore my dog, love the sensation of being with him and having his love nectar inside of me, doesn't mean that a potential boyfriend will love the idea if he finds out. Besides, even if he doesn't, it isn't right. He never asked for this taboo and might be very disgusted with this.

Do I need therapy? No, I have managed. It irks me, but I have come to terms with it and in a way, I have chosen freely to be with my dog for as long as he lives. Then, I don't know what will happen. I don't think I will grow out of it. It is embedded in me for too many years.
 
LilyBlue said:
My biggest issue for some time has been not being able to have a human serious relationship.
Everyone around me is getting kids and getting married. They've tried setting me up with blind dates, but I just don't feel comfortable.
Some guys have been very nice and most of them wanted to meet again and chased me (politely) with flowers and cards and text messages.

My biggest issue: how do you teel a guy that you like him a lot. That you might even have been swept away by him. Yet there is this little nagging issue that he will have to share you with my big pet dog?

1: He will freak out.
2: It is illegal.
3: He will tell people you are nuts, including your friends (no - things don't stay secret).
4: It is illegal - go back to 1, 2 or 3.

So I am caught in this catch 22 when I can't date, because I know I will fall in love with someone eventually. I don't want to be mean to a guy and just have fun for the moment and dump him when most guys have been very serious. Lastly, I don't want to go behind his back and have sex with my dog and feel bad about "cheating" on him, even though it is technically not cheating. Just because I happen to adore my dog, love the sensation of being with him and having his love nectar inside of me, doesn't mean that a potential boyfriend will love the idea if he finds out. Besides, even if he doesn't, it isn't right. He never asked for this taboo and might be very disgusted with this.

Do I need therapy? No, I have managed. It irks me, but I have come to terms with it and in a way, I have chosen freely to be with my dog for as long as he lives. Then, I don't know what will happen. I don't think I will grow out of it. It is embedded in me for too many years.
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big issue, yes
and if you begin to date people into swinger life style, i mean men with an open mind who will like and love to exhib you, and share you with other men in a "libertine " relation ship, as many couple life , a man who will search to guest other men for sex with you (and woman ) , who love to live gangbang with you, swinger camps etc,
with a very open mind, like that , you can have much more hope he will accept you secret love and trust you for love him and your dogs
as you have already a relation where love and sex are mixed but not équal
surely if you date a christian man... that will not fit with your life...
 
hebus said:
big issue, yes
and if you begin to date people into swinger life style, i mean men with an open mind who will like and love to exhib you, and share you with other men in a "libertine " relation ship, as many couple life , a man who will search to guest other men for sex with you (and woman ) , who love to live gangbang with you, swinger camps etc,
with a very open mind, like that , you can have much more hope he will accept you secret love and trust you for love him and your dogs
as you have already a relation where love and sex are mixed but not équal
surely if you date a christian man... that will not fit with your life...
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I'm not sure I'm open to have sex in a swinging life-style. This is more a case of, "what I am is what you get", for better or worse. Hopefully, not a nutcase, but someone who can either accept me the way I am and what I do, and maybe even can be okay with watching and feeling some sort of excitement.

I would never date the religious type. There is just too much baggage and hypocrisy. Sorry if I hurt anyone's feelings.
 
Zooguy1988 said:
Hey guys and girls, interesting question today. Is there something about zoophilia / bestiality that 'harms' you or gives you a hard time?

I answer the question first. I was and periodically still am in psychological treatment because there is one thing that I want so bad but did not achieve till now that I had hard depressions and at some points still have.

Have you may experienced something similar? Let's discuss! :)
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Often I struggle with guilt and I don't understand why
 
LilyBlue said:
I'm not sure I'm open to have sex in a swinging life-style. This is more a case of, "what I am is what you get", for better or worse. Hopefully, not a nutcase, but someone who can either accept me the way I am and what I do, and maybe even can be okay with watching and feeling some sort of excitement.

I would never date the religious type. There is just too much baggage and hypocrisy. Sorry if I hurt anyone's feelings.
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no no no offense i am not a religious guy
it was an idea, for brain storming, i know it is possible and real but it is a choice of way of life..
 
There seems to be alot more mentality challenged or unhindered zoo's then I thought existed
 
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