The bad side of Zoophilia

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Hey guys and girls, interesting question today. Is there something about zoophilia / bestiality that 'harms' you or gives you a hard time?

I answer the question first. I was and periodically still am in psychological treatment because there is one thing that I want so bad but did not achieve till now that I had hard depressions and at some points still have.

Have you may experienced something similar? Let's discuss! :)
 
Well, it's tough trying to hide how we are and that sometimes affects me. I may see a comment chain on a Reddit post that somehow got into talking about zoophilia and seeing how everyone is so aggressively against it doesn't make me feel great. But as I'm getting older (young/mid 20s currently) it's something I've learned that I just sorta have to not let that stuff get to me...

But I've gotten better with that over time. Society's view of us brought me down a lot, and still does at times, and pushing through that can be tough
 
The nature of the attraction inherently puts us at odds with the majority of the population. And while I myself don't have a problem with ignoring or avoiding the majority of the world's population (hint: I don't like people), it is nice and even healthy to be able to talk to others more freely here.
With that said, I wish it was more socially acceptable, or at least not looked down upon so harshly.
I think the aspect of zoophilia that harms me the most is having to be so careful and secretive. I worry about slipping or getting caught. Having an outlet here certainly helps.
 
It's hard not being able to deflect "Why are you 30 and single" comments with "No thanks I already have a partner" instead of "not interested". As a woman who "should be married with kids by now" I do get some shit from older generations in my casino. Many of them are just old women who mean well, and who want to see me happy. I wish I could tell them they could have skipped years of hardship with a nice good bone.

My responses of "Oh I have my German Shepard and he's enough for me right now" usually get replies with "Oh you will want kids/partner/someone soon enough"!

Meanwhile I am very well-loved by friends. I have an amazing sex life. My money is doing quite well. My hobbies and interests are going quite fine (apart from COVID of course) and I have very little stress in my life. The difference between me and these women is that I never got married like they did, and unlike them I'm getting properly fucked*. I have literally everything I need or want, and I also don't want kids. I have zero interest in kids (apart from a litter of puppies tho ^_-). My parents have bought that I am mostly asexual.

So for short, being a single woman who had tied the knot privately in more ways than one with her canine lover has societal expectations.

*Seriously you men have to learn to eat pussy, quite a few of your wives don't like going down on you without you going down on them. Though considering this forum I'm sure most of you down down on pussy, human or otherwise.
 
Katelyn said:
It's hard not being able to deflect "Why are you 30 and single" comments with "No thanks I already have a partner" instead of "not interested". As a woman who "should be married with kids by now" I do get some shit from older generations in my casino. Many of them are just old women who mean well, and who want to see me happy. I wish I could tell them they could have skipped years of hardship with a nice good bone.

My responses of "Oh I have my German Shepard and he's enough for me right now" usually get replies with "Oh you will want kids/partner/someone soon enough"!

Meanwhile I am very well-loved by friends. I have an amazing sex life. My money is doing quite well. My hobbies and interests are going quite fine (apart from COVID of course) and I have very little stress in my life. The difference between me and these women is that I never got married like they did, and unlike them I'm getting properly fucked*. I have literally everything I need or want, and I also don't want kids. I have zero interest in kids (apart from a litter of puppies tho ^_-). My parents have bought that I am mostly asexual.

So for short, being a single woman who had tied the knot privately in more ways than one with her canine lover has societal expectations.

*Seriously you men have to learn to eat pussy, quite a few of your wives don't like going down on you without you going down on them. Though considering this forum I'm sure most of you down down on pussy, human or otherwise.
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Don't feel alone with that - try being single and 32. A lot of people give me the same shit, and I tell them the truth -
I am a bore. And who the fuck wants to spend any amount of time (much less the idea of the rest of their lives) with someone who isn't fun and doesn't talk, doesn't play or doesn't do anything at all?

Some people have high expectations of me but then again these people don't really know me.
 
Katelyn said:
It's hard not being able to deflect "Why are you 30 and single" comments with "No thanks I already have a partner" instead of "not interested". As a woman who "should be married with kids by now" I do get some shit from older generations in my casino. Many of them are just old women who mean well, and who want to see me happy. I wish I could tell them they could have skipped years of hardship with a nice good bone.

My responses of "Oh I have my German Shepard and he's enough for me right now" usually get replies with "Oh you will want kids/partner/someone soon enough"!

Meanwhile I am very well-loved by friends. I have an amazing sex life. My money is doing quite well. My hobbies and interests are going quite fine (apart from COVID of course) and I have very little stress in my life. The difference between me and these women is that I never got married like they did, and unlike them I'm getting properly fucked*. I have literally everything I need or want, and I also don't want kids. I have zero interest in kids (apart from a litter of puppies tho ^_-). My parents have bought that I am mostly asexual.

So for short, being a single woman who had tied the knot privately in more ways than one with her canine lover has societal expectations.

*Seriously you men have to learn to eat pussy, quite a few of your wives don't like going down on you without you going down on them. Though considering this forum I'm sure most of you down down on pussy, human or otherwise.
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Honestly, I hate how it's always the older women who pressure people in our generation (30's) to get hitched and have kids like they did. What they really mean by asking you that question is "How come you aren't married and miserable like me?" "How come you haven't settled for mediocrity like me?" It's also the same older women who always hunt for young bucks like me and complain to me how negligent their husbands are to them. I guess the honest truth is that we all get tired of being stuck with one person over a longer period of time and start to look for things other than vanilla missionary sex. ? as for me, I don't believe in marriage and honestly wouldn't wish it on anybody lol. Keep calm and take the knot, because years of mediocrity ain't worth it.
 
I couldn't find the dog show, but imagine this with dogs licking (no oral sex).

 
ZooGuyCurious said:
Honestly, I hate how it's always the older women who pressure people in our generation (30's) to get hitched and have kids like they did. What they really mean by asking you that question is "How come you aren't married and miserable like me?" "How come you haven't settled for mediocrity like me?" It's also the same older women who always hunt for young bucks like me and complain to me how negligent their husbands are to them. I guess the honest truth is that we all get tired of being stuck with one person over a longer period of time and start to look for things other than vanilla missionary sex. ? as for me, I don't believe in marriage and honestly wouldn't wish it on anybody lol. Keep calm and take the knot, because years of mediocrity ain't worth it.
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I would be that "negligent guy" if I ever got "married", as far as I know anyway. Like I said, I'm quite the disappointing person. Even after I explain that they still keep pushing for it. :\
 
Pillar said:
I would be that "negligent guy" if I ever got "married", as far as I know anyway. Like I said, I'm quite the disappointing person. Even after I explain that they still keep pushing for it. :\
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I've seen a few posts by you on here describing yourself... I honestly can't comprehend why you think so lowly of yourself man. I really don't think you can be all that bad. It's not that hard to please a woman and make her cum. Unless if you are the type of man that only has sex for his own pleasure and not the woman's, which seems to be a common complaint that I hear.
 
For a lot of people, I think the biggest downside is never being able to share it with your partner, unless you meet them through a site like this to start with. My GF found out I'm into it (by stumbling across my browser history), and was pretty cool about overall. That said, I dont think she's personally interested at all. At least I dont have to hide that part of myself like most people in relationships, so I'm lucky there.
 
ZooGuyCurious said:
I've seen a few posts by you on here describing yourself... I honestly can't comprehend why you think so lowly of yourself man. I really don't think you can be all that bad. It's not that hard to please a woman and make her cum. Unless if you are the type of man that only has sex for his own pleasure and not the woman's, which seems to be a common complaint that I hear.
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I agree so much with this. Most people grapple with self-doubt from time to time, but you can't let those moments permanently warp how you see yourself, because it'll trigger a downward spiral of self-pity and depression. I know its way easier said than done, but sometimes just realizing you're stuck in that mindset is the first step!
 
Pillar said:
I couldn't find the dog show, but imagine this with dogs licking (no oral sex).
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As a a lifelong 50 year old zoophile who finally fully accepted his sexuality in his early forties, the obvious main downside is it's illegaliity, although it didn't become illegal in my state until 2018. The thought of being prosecuted for zoophilia and all the horrific fallout that would entail is terrifying.

I can deal rather easily with all the other societal hardships of being a zoophile. I give no shits about societal acceptance, but the hard reality that my freedom, my animals, my rights-my LIFE- could all be legally taken away from me in an instant by a cold, callous, unfair judicial system is a very bitter pill to swallow. Other than that, I love being a zoophile. The constant variety of being sexually aroused by so many different species is endlessly invigorating. Sex with just one species is just boring to me. I can't change this feeling no matter how hard I try ( and believe me, I have tried).

FTW I say. I love and respect my animals and treat them as family, I love my mares more than any human lovers' I have ever had, but I practice discretion for my own survival.
 
Katelyn said:
It's hard not being able to deflect "Why are you 30 and single" comments with "No thanks I already have a partner" instead of "not interested". As a woman who "should be married with kids by now" I do get some shit from older generations in my casino. Many of them are just old women who mean well, and who want to see me happy. I wish I could tell them they could have skipped years of hardship with a nice good bone.
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old people lived in a time where people had more patiences in relationships
 
ZooGuyCurious said:
Honestly, I hate how it's always the older women who pressure people in our generation (30's) to get hitched and have kids like they did. What they really mean by asking you that question is "How come you aren't married and miserable like me?" "How come you haven't settled for mediocrity like me?" It's also the same older women who always hunt for young bucks like me and complain to me how negligent their husbands are to them. I guess the honest truth is that we all get tired of being stuck with one person over a longer period of time and start to look for things other than vanilla missionary sex. ? as for me, I don't believe in marriage and honestly wouldn't wish it on anybody lol. Keep calm and take the knot, because years of mediocrity ain't worth it.
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The older generations always have trouble understanding or accepting the younger ones. I'll admit, I don't get what goes through early 30 somethings and 20 somethings heads, why they act the way they do, etc. However, I try to give them the benefit of the doubt. I might mumble about them under my breath (especially the ones that work for me), but I try to realize they grew up in a different environment/society than I did. I try to be more open minded and accepting.
However, the generations that came before me definitely can be perceived as more intolerant, less understanding. Again, I think it just happens to be a product of their environment. Those older generations grew up in a time that was more conservative and religious, not to mention all the major wars and what not. Just the same as the younger generations are growing up in a completely different environment than us. Not trying to be ageist by any means, just shed some light on why the older generations "pressure" younger folks to get married right away - it's how it was done in their time. I'm sure if someone were to research it, the average age of marriage would increase with calendar year. My grand parent's got married in late teens. My parents in mid twenties. Me when I was 30.
 
I'm probably the complete opposite of most people here, I presume. I can easily find a lot of bad sides to zoophilia but I struggle to find a single good one.

I think my biggest issue with it stems from how society perceives the emotional and physical aspects of zoophilia. Simply expressing a desire to form a romantic relationship with an animal is at best ridiculed and at worst met with hostility. It's not something that is taken seriously, encouraged or condoned in any way. And as we all know actual sexual acts with animals are seen as completely unaceptable. This of course means that expressing such a sexuality is illegal in most places, but it also pervades through society in more subtle ways. People won't help a zoophile achieve his or her dreams or ambitions. They won't take them seriously or try to understand them. Zoophilia is seen as a sickness that has to be treated, never as a legitimate pursuit.

Because of this, zoophiles live in fear and secrecy. They often can't connect to other people. Even if the rest of society doesn't care to help them, they often can't even help each other due to the severe repercussions that can follow being exposed as one.

Another issue with society is that animal life is considered much less important than human life. This can manifest itself in several ways that could be harmful to zoophiles and their family.

Next up, there is the issue that animals have much shorter lifespans than humans. Most species of animals simply can't be life partners to a human due to their short lives.

In my own personal life, I have struggled a lot with the sexual side of things. Being exclusively zoo means I have no other outlet for my sexuality and I have never managed to find that connection with an animal. No matter what people who have never gone through something like this can say or think, people in a similar situation tend to agree that prolonged celibacy can rot your mind. I am now suffering from severe depression due to pursuing that dream in vain for decades.
 
sirius said:
I'm probably the complete opposite of most people here, I presume. I can easily find a lot of bad sides to zoophilia but I struggle to find a single good one.

I think my biggest issue with it stems from how society perceives the emotional and physical aspects of zoophilia. Simply expressing a desire to form a romantic relationship with an animal is at best ridiculed and at worst met with hostility. It's not something that is taken seriously, encouraged or condoned in any way. And as we all know actual sexual acts with animals are seen as completely unaceptable. This of course means that expressing such a sexuality is illegal in most places, but it also pervades through society in more subtle ways. People won't help a zoophile achieve his or her dreams or ambitions. They won't take them seriously or try to understand them. Zoophilia is seen as a sickness that has to be treated, never as a legitimate pursuit.

Because of this, zoophiles live in fear and secrecy. They often can't connect to other people. Even if the rest of society doesn't care to help them, they often can't even help each other due to the severe repercussions that can follow being exposed as one.

Another issue with society is that animal life is considered much less important than human life. This can manifest itself in several ways that could be harmful to zoophiles and their family.

Next up, there is the issue that animals have much shorter lifespans than humans. Most species of animals simply can't be life partners to a human due to their short lives.

In my own personal life, I have struggled a lot with the sexual side of things. Being exclusively zoo means I have no other outlet for my sexuality and I have never managed to find that connection with an animal. No matter what people who have never gone through something like this can say or think, people in a similar situation tend to agree that prolonged celibacy can rot your mind. I am now suffering from severe depression due to pursuing that dream in vain for decades.
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How long has it been?
 
Katelyn
Im the guy that would love to lick gf/wifes pussy when i is filled with her k9 lovers cum
Thats the kid of girl i am looking for
 
Oddly enough, I could care less about how society views us. Finding a partner is difficult and that sucks! I fall into the camp of Zoos that are Males that are attracted to Zoo-Females. Getting a dog is not too difficult for me but finding a Zoo-gal is.
It is partially my fault. I need to hit the gym first of all. Being a recluse has not helped me. I have identified several key factors in a woman that can indicate how easy they are to lean towards Zoo. Still, it is a very difficult life. Keeping this part of myself hidden has led to chronic depression. I have seen a growing community of acceptance with online forums like this. I remember life before the internet. I felt like an alien walking among people. If you even joked about it; people acted like you were fit to be killed.
"Animals can't consent!" said one girl I knew. She forgot about the time her Shi-Tzu mounted her leg as she waited for the school bus. "Bestiality is animal abuse," said one woman I knew, and then she would let her dog lick her neck and lips. One day she got out of the shower and the dog began licking her and she acted surprised when the dog licked her pussy. It never occurred to her that all that attention from her dog was Zoo-romantic. "Contact was initiated by the dog and not the human; consent was implied by action." When a horse ejaculates in a woman's mouth it means he enjoyed it.

Life in isolation, and being treated like a demon for being a Zoo. This is the negative bullshit I put up with every day.
 
DannyWotan said:
Oddly enough, I could care less about how society views us. Finding a partner is difficult and that sucks! I fall into the camp of Zoos that are Males that are attracted to Zoo-Females. Getting a dog is not too difficult for me but finding a Zoo-gal is.
It is partially my fault. I need to hit the gym first of all. Being a recluse has not helped me. I have identified several key factors in a woman that can indicate how easy they are to lean towards Zoo. Still, it is a very difficult life. Keeping this part of myself hidden has led to chronic depression. I have seen a growing community of acceptance with online forums like this. I remember life before the internet. I felt like an alien walking among people. If you even joked about it; people acted like you were fit to be killed.
"Animals can't consent!" said one girl I knew. She forgot about the time her Shi-Tzu mounted her leg as she waited for the school bus. "Bestiality is animal abuse," said one woman I knew, and then she would let her dog lick her neck and lips. One day she got out of the shower and the dog began licking her and she acted surprised when the dog licked her pussy. It never occurred to her that all that attention from her dog was Zoo-romantic. "Contact was initiated by the dog and not the human; consent was implied by action." When a horse ejaculates in a woman's mouth it means he enjoyed it.

Life in isolation, and being treated like a demon for being a Zoo. This is the negative bullshit I put up with every day.
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Factors of being zoo?
 
Pillar said:
Factors of being zoo?
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Yup. I wrote about it in response to a person looking to get his girl interested. I mentioned one being women who read romance novels about werewolves and vampires. There is a certain action-adventure series starring a female protagonist that is really popular; I will track down the name of the author and the series. I had two women confirm that this was true. Buy a Great Dane and take him for walks downtown during lunch hours or club hours. Girls will walk up to you and admire your dog. Some girls will flat out say it, "I bet he's got a big dick. Look at the size of his balls!" Look for women who volunteer at animal shelters. I assure you that if your vet is a woman then there is a 90% chance that she is a zoo. Those women feel a close bond with animals.
As I said, I need to get in shape, get a dog, and get out there. There are more closet Zoos than closet homosexuals.

PS. Alcohol is your best friend.
 
Personally for me the biggest downside or negative is the difference in lifespans.

My first zoo experience was also my first sexual experience. Shortly after I turned 16 I was mounted by my hybrid wolf (not instigated) while on all fours looking for something under my bed. I felt a deep, primal connection with him and afterwards viewed myself as his mate. Sadly he passed away a few years ago and it absolutely broke my heart. This is the reason why I have not considered getting another dog. While I have had multiple sexual relationships over the years, and am a member of various kinky communities in Las Vegas, nothing quite has matched up to just the raw feeling of being his mate. He owned me, he loved me and I loved him. The hole that was left is one that I doubt will ever be filled. Sure, I’ve grown incredibly close to my best friend as of 9 years and she’s becoming more and more my girlfriend, but it isn’t the same even if we do d/s play and have talked about the possibility of me being her pet.

At the core of myself I would say I am Demi-sexual for the most part. It is rare that I do anything with someone I don’t have an emotional connection with and it is a shame that I have to sacrifice that if I wish to further pursue any of my interests in zoophilia. Sure I want to be mounted and fucked by a pig, and maybe a mini-horse, but is it a need? No. And I’m afraid to try and pursue something with another dog (owning, not casual) in fears of it possibly replacing what I once had.
 
The difference in lifespan is a cruel fact of life that I have to accept one way or another. So even though that is a bad thing about zoophilia, it is not my main concern.

No, for me the strain is that I have to live a double life because of the way people think of 'zoophilia' or 'bestiality'. They only see the bad stuff, like a fencehopper arrested or an animal being abused and molested by a sadist, and then think that that is what zoophilia / bestiality is all about. I would love to scream it from the rooftops that - even though I am sexually attracted to mares - I am totally not like what they think a zoophile or a bestialist is. Alas, I cannot point it out because people will just hear 'sex with animals' and think of abuse. Yes, it can be difficult to be a zoophile in an unforgiving society, but too many self-declared zoophiles or bestialists also don't make it easy for us.

And the worst thing there is: every time somebody hits the news because they got busted being somewhere where they shouldn't be, doing something that also genuine zoophiles would never condone, we're back at square 1...
 
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