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Subs who likes being dominated

I feel I'm pretty weird about this. I'm completely bi for zoo and want to be dominated by male k9s and horses, potentially other male animals but I'm pretty standard top for female animals, not really a "dom". When it comes to people I'm kind of middle of the road, I enjoy being both dom and sub, especially if the woman wants to use my toys on me.
 
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But to answer I’ll play both roles. Since my current girlfriend was assaulted prior to knowing me I’ll sub out for her. Giving her some power she hasn’t had before. Helps ease any anxiety and we both win in the end.
 
Im strictly non confrontational, hate conflict which translates into a submissive nature in life, work and bed. I guess it makes me easy to take advantage of as I back down and give in to others demands all the time.
 
I feel like the older I get, the more I like the idea of being submissive. Still new to it though.
I've never really considered myself Dom or Sub, but seems everyone I've been with would just expect me to "lead" in our sex. Most cases it was fine, but when I asked for something or even guided them to something I wanted and hoped they'd get the clue, it either wasn't picked up on or was all about them still because they "felt" nothing doing it (strapon). Or might even get turned off because I was no longer the "man" and saw me in a lesser light after. As you said, the older I get the more I like the idea of being submissive and wouldn't mind finding a woman who would lead and fulfill some of those fantasies. Maybe why I even consider the topic here myself as well as my passable trans curiosity the last several years. A guy no, but receiving a woman strapped or natural or knot is on the thought bucket list. I've joked for years that I need to fulfill these fantasies before I fall in love again and it's back to vanilla and me doing most of the controlling or, if married, they allow me anything at all. I guess this is a switch relationship, which my first ex and I suppose had, as I think now, we both enjoyed pleasing the other. At least until the ring hit her finger, then it went from switch to switched off! lol
 
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