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DragonSky

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So i'm finally at that stage in my life where i really want to have kids.
I've been in a relationship with my now husband for nearly 5 years. I'm zoo but my husband doesn't know unfortunately (and probably never will know).
The main thing stopping him from getting me pregnant is financial stability. Don't get me wrong, we both have stable full time jobs with great wages, but we honestly haven't got much saved up, not even for our first baby.
I really need some advice.
Ideally i wanted to start trying in october but my husband wants to wait another year.
But i'm worried that my secret about my zoo life would get out or that somehow my kids would find out.
Anyone with kids or with a little one on the way that has the same worry?
 
DragonSky said:
So i'm finally at that stage in my life where i really want to have kids.
I've been in a relationship with my now husband for nearly 5 years. I'm zoo but my husband doesn't know unfortunately (and probably never will know).
The main thing stopping him from getting me pregnant is financial stability. Don't get me wrong, we both have stable full time jobs with great wages, but we honestly haven't got much saved up, not even for our first baby.
I really need some advice.
Ideally i wanted to start trying in october but my husband wants to wait another year.
But i'm worried that my secret about my zoo life would get out or that somehow my kids would find out.
Anyone with kids or with a little one on the way that has the same worry?
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Good morning and happy Sunday to you Dragonsky. My exwife and I were zoo lovers before we had our first child. The biggest change was experiences with the 2 dogs had to be limited because of caring for our daughter. Same as it would be for every other extra curricular activities people have before kids. We managed to have good times with the dogs, just not as often. There were a couple of close calls when our daughter came home early from school and her mom had just been enjoying some loving from the dogs. We think she saw something only because she started asking some questions about the dogs humping each other. Her mom enjoyed the dogs often when she was home alone. 🤗
 
DragonSky said:
But i'm worried that my secret about my zoo life would get out or that somehow my kids would find out.
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So instead of just having to hide it from your man, you'd have to hide it from your kids too?

Do you have your own dog at home or is this something you do with someone else than your man?

There are no guarantees in life. Just be careful, that should take care of 99.9% of all "accidents". As long as you don't post porn where your face can be seen, nobody should find out.
 
Anythingatleastonce69 said:
I hope that he realizes that not everyone has the same idea he does and your original question to the group.
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Yeah for sure. He started quite the argument in the comments. Don't get me wrong i have no problem at all with someone not wanting kids, it is their belief and they are welcome to it by all means, and i totally respect it. But shoving those beliefs on me and expecting the same response is a different matter all together.
 
DragonSky said:
Yeah for sure. He started quite the argument in the comments. Don't get me wrong i have no problem at all with someone not wanting kids, it is their belief and they are welcome to it by all means, and i totally respect it. But shoving those beliefs on me and expecting the same response is a different matter all together.
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Yes. That was very uncalled for.
 
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