Should I tell my bf?!!

Sarah said:
Hey guys, I've recently started testing the waters with my dog and really enjoy it. I really want to go that little bit further, but worried that he might hurt me. I've considered coming clean to my bf so that maybe he could join in and assist me if he doesn't turn and run lol.

I'd like to see what the male members on here think about this. Would you mind if your partner told you that she enjoyed having sex with dogs and asked for your help? How would you react to this? Also any advice would be greatly appreciated!
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Tell him and share the moment together. Spice things up a bit
 
Sarah said:
Hey guys, I've recently started testing the waters with my dog and really enjoy it. I really want to go that little bit further, but worried that he might hurt me. I've considered coming clean to my bf so that maybe he could join in and assist me if he doesn't turn and run lol.

I'd like to see what the male members on here think about this. Would you mind if your partner told you that she enjoyed having sex with dogs and asked for your help? How would you react to this? Also any advice would be greatly appreciated!
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I loathe the concept of marriage, and told my girlfriend it'll never happen. But, if she ever said she has your desires... I'd buy that ring tomorrow.
 
Sarah said:
Hey guys, I've recently started testing the waters with my dog and really enjoy it. I really want to go that little bit further, but worried that he might hurt me. I've considered coming clean to my bf so that maybe he could join in and assist me if he doesn't turn and run lol.

I'd like to see what the male members on here think about this. Would you mind if your partner told you that she enjoyed having sex with dogs and asked for your help? How would you react to this? Also any advice would be greatly appreciated!
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Ease into it with joking around, and playful conversation.
 
Sarah said:
Hey guys, I've recently started testing the waters with my dog and really enjoy it. I really want to go that little bit further, but worried that he might hurt me. I've considered coming clean to my bf so that maybe he could join in and assist me if he doesn't turn and run lol.

I'd like to see what the male members on here think about this. Would you mind if your partner told you that she enjoyed having sex with dogs and asked for your help? How would you react to this? Also any advice would be greatly appreciated!
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I've always seen this as an easy response to this situation. Just simply say a friend of urs had admitted to trying things sometime ago and had told u in confidence and that u wasted to sure what to say and wondered what he thought. Its all about talking things over and testing the water. I guess its the same as any type of sex, watersports. Anal bdsm dominance etc etc just need to have a chat. Not sure how any couple can manage without being able to talk about anything. All he can say is yeh fine whatever or that he wouldn't be into it.
 
I have never told anyone let alone my significant other. I know he wouldn’t approve. I have also chatted with more than one woman who’s spouse/boy friend started them into it than became jealous because they enjoyed it. You will have to go with your gut on this.
 
Sarah said:
Hey guys, I've recently started testing the waters with my dog and really enjoy it. I really want to go that little bit further, but worried that he might hurt me. I've considered coming clean to my bf so that maybe he could join in and assist me if he doesn't turn and run lol.

I'd like to see what the male members on here think about this. Would you mind if your partner told you that she enjoyed having sex with dogs and asked for your help? How would you react to this? Also any advice would be greatly appreciated!
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If I were your b:f, I would gladly assist you in this. However, many people are intolerant of the zoo lifestyle and would react unfavorably. Some men feel that their masculinity is threatened if you fuck your dog. You should fist broach the subject about seeing something like girl/dog arc online and see how he reacts. You can say that the fictional woman looked like she was really enjoying herself. If he’s disgusted and repulsed, you have your answer and don’t talk any further to him about it.
 
Fondmemory said:
I have never told anyone let alone my significant other. I know he wouldn’t approve. I have also chatted with more than one woman who’s spouse/boy friend started them into it than became jealous because they enjoyed it. You will have to go with your gut on this.
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I'm curious, was she getting more intimate with the dog over him?
 
Joke around with him one day. Ask him about porn. Tell him that you watch porn from time to time. See how he responds. Ask if he has ever watched beast-porn. If he acts totally grossed out or says it is "evil" then don't take it any further. You will be saving yourself some legal trouble. You can find a new boyfriend or you can wait until your boyfriend leaves to go to work to have sex with the dog.
 
Schutzhund1956 said:
If I were your b:f, I would gladly assist you in this. However, many people are intolerant of the zoo lifestyle and would react unfavorably. Some men feel that their masculinity is threatened if you fuck your dog. You should fist broach the subject about seeing something like girl/dog arc online and see how he reacts. You can say that the fictional woman looked like she was really enjoying herself. If he’s disgusted and repulsed, you have your answer and don’t talk any further to him about it.
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I would be so turned on to be cucked by a male dog, then get to fuck her after, or clean her up.
 
tell your bF that you read a news story about some girl your age that had an affair with her dog. See his reaction to it. My spouse thoght it was disgusting and what man would want to fuck a dog. Totally turned her off. So fo me she will never know, about that side of me.
 
Mickflare said:
Oh snap this is just like cheating.. wait because it is. Id dump you despite being zoo myself.
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this "we should connect and agree on everything, because we have one shared interest" bugs me to no end... op coming here for sympathy and advice how to cheat on their partner properly.... what kind of a question "would you mind if your partner had sex without your knowledge?" even is? of course i would mind
 
Sarah said:
Hey guys, I've recently started testing the waters with my dog and really enjoy it. I really want to go that little bit further, but worried that he might hurt me. I've considered coming clean to my bf so that maybe he could join in and assist me if he doesn't turn and run lol.

I'd like to see what the male members on here think about this. Would you mind if your partner told you that she enjoyed having sex with dogs and asked for your help? How would you react to this? Also any advice would be greatly appreciated!
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This is really tough, and you should consider a lot of things before you do anything.
TRUST - this is the key thing. Can you trust him, and I mean really trust him, as in if you decide to tell him but he's totally disgusted by it, would he keep it to himself if you broke up or would he tell everyone what you want to do. It took a shitload of trust for my zoo girlfriends to admit to me that they liked it, but even if I didn't they knew I would never say anything about it.
JELOUSY - Sounds weird I know, but this is a big point. How would he feel if he sees you getting more pleasure from having sex with your boy than you do with him? I love women, probably to an unhealthy extreme. I loved seeing my zoo girls in total ecstasy from having sex with their boys. We made it a part of our total sex life. A lot of guys are not going to want you to think they're not the best you've every had in bed. We can have real fragile egos in that area.
THE FUTURE - What's going to happen to you two as a couple? Is this guy "the one" that you're going to want to be with for a long time? Is he the future father of your children? Or is he just one stop on the way to finding what you want in life? If he is "the one" and you do stay together, how are you going to handle it if he says you can't ever have sex with your boy again because he wants to have kids with you and no mother should be doing that? Or his job is too important for anyone to ever find out so you have to stop?

I hope you find the answer to your problem that you can live with, no regrets no matter what happens.
Normally I would say that I've found in life that I've regretted the things I failed to do more than the things I've done.
But I'm not sure opening up is always the right decision here.
 
ILoveZooGirlsXXX said:
This is really tough, and you should consider a lot of things before you do anything.
TRUST - this is the key thing. Can you trust him, and I mean really trust him, as in if you decide to tell him but he's totally disgusted by it, would he keep it to himself if you broke up or would he tell everyone what you want to do. It took a shitload of trust for my zoo girlfriends to admit to me that they liked it, but even if I didn't they knew I would never say anything about it.
JELOUSY - Sounds weird I know, but this is a big point. How would he feel if he sees you getting more pleasure from having sex with your boy than you do with him? I love women, probably to an unhealthy extreme. I loved seeing my zoo girls in total ecstasy from having sex with their boys. We made it a part of our total sex life. A lot of guys are not going to want you to think they're not the best you've every had in bed. We can have real fragile egos in that area.
THE FUTURE - What's going to happen to you two as a couple? Is this guy "the one" that you're going to want to be with for a long time? Is he the future father of your children? Or is he just one stop on the way to finding what you want in life? If he is "the one" and you do stay together, how are you going to handle it if he says you can't ever have sex with your boy again because he wants to have kids with you and no mother should be doing that? Or his job is too important for anyone to ever find out so you have to stop?

I hope you find the answer to your problem that you can live with, no regrets no matter what happens.
Normally I would say that I've found in life that I've regretted the things I failed to do more than the things I've done.
But I'm not sure opening up is always the right decision here.
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A well-stated out post.

On a side note... As far as the whole "ego" thing goes, there's another side to that... If she's having better sex with someone else, why does she need you then?
 
MasterKnight42 said:
I , possibly along with other males would love to be in this position, but I suggest gauging his interest first. Tell him a friend of yours sent you a video of a dog fucking a woman and that the friend thought it was funny. See how he reacts to that.
Also I have a female friend who lives out of state who was in this same position. She is younger than me and had an interest in k9. Her bf did not know. She wanted to tell him and I strongly suggested against it. She told him and he watched her with a dog. Then he got greedy and had his friends watch. Soon she was performing in front of multiple guys and fucking multiple dogs.
Their relationship ended and others found out about her fucking dogs. She was able to deny for awhile until pics were shown. Life was made miserable for her for awhile.
If you believe he is strong enough and open minded enough to share this, I say have no secrets. Always gauge their reaction with something that does not involve you first.
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I would suggest how serious there relationship is . He could hold it over her head if a bad breakup
 
Sarah said:
Hey guys, I've recently started testing the waters with my dog and really enjoy it. I really want to go that little bit further, but worried that he might hurt me. I've considered coming clean to my bf so that maybe he could join in and assist me if he doesn't turn and run lol.

I'd like to see what the male members on here think about this. Would you mind if your partner told you that she enjoyed having sex with dogs and asked for your help? How would you react to this? Also any advice would be greatly appreciated!
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God he's lucky
 
Sarah said:
Hey guys, I've recently started testing the waters with my dog and really enjoy it. I really want to go that little bit further, but worried that he might hurt me. I've considered coming clean to my bf so that maybe he could join in and assist me if he doesn't turn and run lol.

I'd like to see what the male members on here think about this. Would you mind if your partner told you that she enjoyed having sex with dogs and asked for your help? How would you react to this? Also any advice would be greatly appreciated!
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If it's still actual.. I think u might tell him. If he agree and help then it's win- win 😋 but if he doesn't try to understand your desire, and your situation, and leave after a BIG argument.. Frankly i'll be better for everyone on long term
 
Sarah said:
Hey guys, I've recently started testing the waters with my dog and really enjoy it. I really want to go that little bit further, but worried that he might hurt me. I've considered coming clean to my bf so that maybe he could join in and assist me if he doesn't turn and run lol.

I'd like to see what the male members on here think about this. Would you mind if your partner told you that she enjoyed having sex with dogs and asked for your help? How would you react to this? Also any advice would be greatly appreciated!
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Honestly not a single gf I've had has ever been interested in animals especially not the hot ones ever been interested or any of their interests peaked 😑 even when i was training like 30 german shepards at one time never found one. Well maybe one but they were married up lol but I'm always blocked by someone interested in me and not my dog at the time lol I've debated whether or not to see if someone is interested and had ways of "testing" if they were susceptible as its kinda a lifestyle if you are zoo and a whole other side that's not there in the relationship. Kinda sucks, but I usually know any girl I get with it is likely going to fail as they are not zoo oriented and its kinda a thing (F/with male dog or what not). Its funny because it drives some people mad why I'm not with anyone at times as people are interested, but I've learned to maybe be patient as of recently and stop getting into relationships. But yeah it depends on how into zoo you are if you should mention it or not and that can be fairly tricky as to be exposed is pretty much social scuicide... sure you can still go on but yeah any though on normal life or having an animal people would out you and you would just need to move to the other side of the world and dissapear lol. I would ask yourself is it a phase? Or is it something that's always going to come up.... for me even with a hot gf I figured I would get past it but 2 years in and it's like an itch that needs to be scratch and I would want to see a video or something and honestly I would prefer not to have it like that 😑. So first you have to ask yourself is this a forever thing or a passing phase.

Onto the subject of trying to discriminate some type of probing material to "test" or see if they are zoo.

One step that places you out of the crosshairs and you can gauge someone's reaction and have a discussion is to get GOOD attractive material from some of the wonderful women that do beasiality for us all and scuff up a USB thumb drive (make sure it's a good size so you can have lots of material on it to keep a long conversation later on) make it look weathered, old, or have some type of patina to it that makes it not come to the mind it is a planted USB device or suspiciously new. It can buuut if someone's use to investigative stuff it's "odd a USB shows up with material on it your ready to talk about" The idea is to have it look like you found it HOWEVER you do not want to be the one that found it... they have to.

So now that you have the thumbdrive filled with "content" lol your next step is to plant it where they would find it or happen upon it outside and away from your local location. As if they are not susceptible they are going to be on the lookout or mention it in your close friends area and that can build up suspicion. As they do happen to come across it (most people are interested in picking things up off the street especially if it could be something interesting) your next key words without any throwing ideas about it (ie, maybe there us porn on it or something crazy that could give yourself away) is saying I wonder what's on it and then let their mind do the thinking of what it could be and just agree with them then it's just toss it into something to take home. Also make sure there isn't a camera there to show you dropped it should they do the other thing and want to go expose them to get them arrested 😬

Now it can go one of two ways, you let him watch it and see if he keeps the USB and doesn't say anything and It "disappears" 😏 to which then you know he is interested but embarrassed about it (and you can later tease or find it and curiously interrogate him with some sexual offers of if he wanted to see it?) He could also call you over to see and then you can talk about it. Def let him insert the USB or bring it up so again it's not suspicions

Or

You can both be present and scroll through the material and laugh then start the conversation about it and gauge his reaction to the material without putting yourself in the crosshairs such as "accidentally misstyping" or showing something that you bring up that makes the idea maybe your into it. In this method you can point out if a female is hot in the video or pictures and then start up a conversation about the topic and then either get an immediate answer or test the waters and see if there is an curious interest that can grow to an interest or wanting to see it.

Damn I didn't expect this to be long but I know to often the troubles of trying to bring this subject matter up 😑😅😂 good luck in your endeavors and hope this helps but yeah be careful. If nothing ever works out or they leave, your more than welcome to chat and you won't have to worry lol
 
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acoronaplease said:
Honestly not a single gf I've had has ever been interested in animals especially not the hot ones ever been interested or any of their interests peaked 😑 even when i was training like 30 german shepards at one time never found one. Well maybe one but they were married up lol but I'm always blocked by someone interested in me and not my dog at the time lol I've debated whether or not to see if someone is interested and had ways of "testing" if they were susceptible as its kinda a lifestyle if you are zoo and a whole other side that's not there in the relationship. Kinda sucks, but I usually know any girl I get with it is likely going to fail as they are not zoo oriented and its kinda a thing (F/with male dog or what not). Its funny because it drives some people mad why I'm not with anyone at times as people are interested, but I've learned to maybe be patient as of recently and stop getting into relationships. But yeah it depends on how into zoo you are if you should mention it or not and that can be fairly tricky as to be exposed is pretty much social scuicide... sure you can still go on but yeah any though on normal life or having an animal people would out you and you would just need to move to the other side of the world and dissapear lol. I would ask yourself is it a phase? Or is it something that's always going to come up.... for me even with a hot gf I figured I would get past it but 2 years in and it's like an itch that needs to be scratch and I would want to see a video or something and honestly I would prefer not to have it like that 😑. So first you have to ask yourself is this a forever thing or a passing phase.

Onto the subject of trying to discriminate some type of probing material to "test" or see if they are zoo.

One step that places you out of the crosshairs and you can gauge someone's reaction and have a discussion is to get GOOD attractive material from some of the wonderful women that do beasiality for us all and scuff up a USB thumb drive (make sure it's a good size so you can have lots of material on it to keep a long conversation later on) make it look weathered, old, or have some type of patina to it that makes it not come to the mind it is a planted USB device or suspiciously new. It can buuut if someone's use to investigative stuff it's "odd a USB shows up with material on it your ready to talk about" The idea is to have it look like you found it HOWEVER you do not want to be the one that found it... they have to.

So now that you have the thumbdrive filled with "content" lol your next step is to plant it where they would find it or happen upon it outside and away from your local location. As if they are not susceptible they are going to be on the lookout or mention it in your close friends area and that can build up suspicion. As they do happen to come across it (most people are interested in picking things up off the street especially if it could be something interesting) your next key words without any throwing ideas about it (ie, maybe there us porn on it or something crazy that could give yourself away) is saying I wonder what's on it and then let their mind do the thinking of what it could be and just agree with them then it's just toss it into something to take home. Also make sure there isn't a camera there to show you dropped it should they do the other thing and want to go expose them to get them arrested 😬

Now it can go one of two ways, you let him watch it and see if he keeps the USB and doesn't say anything and It "disappears" 😏 to which then you know he is interested but embarrassed about it (and you can later tease or find it and curiously interrogate him with some sexual offers of if he wanted to see it?) He could also call you over to see and then you can talk about it. Def let him insert the USB or bring it up so again it's not suspicions

Or

You can both be present and scroll through the material and laugh then start the conversation about it and gauge his reaction to the material without putting yourself in the crosshairs such as "accidentally misstyping" or showing something that you bring up that makes the idea maybe your into it. In this method you can point out if a female is hot in the video or pictures and then start up a conversation about the topic and then either get an immediate answer or test the waters and see if there is an curious interest that can grow to an interest or wanting to see it.

Damn I didn't expect this to be long but I know to often the troubles of trying to bring this subject matter up 😑😅😂 good luck in your endeavors and hope this helps but yeah be careful. If nothing ever works out or they leave, your more than welcome to chat and you won't have to worry lol
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Great and well-reasoned points. Unfortuntely "she" is no longer with the site.
 
K9GuyinTX said:
Great and well-reasoned points. Unfortuntely "she" is no longer with the site.
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Ahh, I can imagine so lol when I would be in a relationship I would dissapear off this site as well as you dont want to hand your partner your phone and 👀. But always found myself comming back occasionally. Figured I would offer my input as I'm sure the title is searchable to help someone should they have trouble and put it out there well written once. Lmao you said "she" I'm assuming this was a bait trap lol
 
acoronaplease said:
Ahh, I can imagine so lol when I would be in a relationship I would dissapear off this site as well as you dont want to hand your partner your phone and 👀. But always found myself comming back occasionally. Figured I would offer my input as I'm sure the title is searchable to help someone should they have trouble and put it out there well written once. Lmao you said "she" I'm assuming this was a bait trap lol
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It was suspect for sure :)
 
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