Should I tell my bf?!!

Sarah

Sarah

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Hey guys, I've recently started testing the waters with my dog and really enjoy it. I really want to go that little bit further, but worried that he might hurt me. I've considered coming clean to my bf so that maybe he could join in and assist me if he doesn't turn and run lol.

I'd like to see what the male members on here think about this. Would you mind if your partner told you that she enjoyed having sex with dogs and asked for your help? How would you react to this? Also any advice would be greatly appreciated!
 
For my nickel, anybody - regardless of who they are, or what their situation - who even thinks the phrase "Should I tell _____________ I (want to) have sex with my (dog/horse/goat/three-toed sloth/whatever)" needs to immediately shut their mouth, and not say so much as "boo" on the topic. Unless you're *ABSOLUTELY* *CERTAIN* that the response is going to be positive, it's my opinion that you're a damned fool if you open your mouth. If you feel any need to ask "should I tell", you aren't absolutely certain, and by doing so, you're opening up yourself, and more importantly, your animal, whatever it might be, to a world of nasty shit that nobody in their right mind wants or needs.

It's possible to get lucky and find someone who doesn't object, but it's also possible to get lucky and win the powerball jackpot - Both things *CAN* happen, sure. But the odds against are so high as to make the idea of coming away a "winner" from either a really bad joke. And unlike the powerball, where if you don't win, all you're out is a buck or two, in the world of snitching on yourself about being into animal sex, if you don't win, you're probably going find yourself using a return address similar to "Prisoner #A79694, cell block H, <insert whatever state you live in here> state prison" for a long time.
 
I would start off by mentioning that you accidentally came across a site that that had zoo porn. And gauge his reaction. Difficult to fit into conversation, but better than blurting it straight out. If he is anything like me, he will be very receptive and interested and want to see it.
My 2 cents anyway, good luck to you.
 
As a guy that has loved this kink, I would hint that you saw like a whitney wisconsin youtube video about the discussion and see how he reacts. Me personally, I would love it if my lady was into it, but she thinks it's gross. So I would be tactful, however, there are a ton of dudes that love this, so I don't think you'd have a problem finding a new guy if it came down to it.
 
Wasbitchpolly said:
How do you “accidentally” come across a zoo site ?
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Wasbitchpolly said:
How do you “accidentally” come across a zoo site ?
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Well I am a reasonably good fabricator, perhaps I was searching about animal welfare and I clicked on a link that took me to a website that took me somewhere I was not expecting. Like I said a bit difficult to fit into conversation but I am sure with a bit of thought it could be done.
 
From what I have seen online guys seem to be more into this, or at least more willing to have their partner be into this even if they aren't themselves, than the other way around.

But ultimately it is up to you to decide
 
^Best in this case = Safest

Which is probably what I would do too. Play it safe. However, some people need a partner that is also into their sexual lifestyle
 
Sarah said:
Hey guys, I've recently started testing the waters with my dog and really enjoy it. I really want to go that little bit further, but worried that he might hurt me. I've considered coming clean to my bf so that maybe he could join in and assist me if he doesn't turn and run lol.

I'd like to see what the male members on here think about this. Would you mind if your partner told you that she enjoyed having sex with dogs and asked for your help? How would you react to this? Also any advice would be greatly appreciated!
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Unless he is a keeper, your lives look like being together forever say nothing. That said if you live together this is a secret hard to keep. If you offer yourself to doggy and then rebuff him when he expects action that is cruel. I suggest with respect is if you are questioning your bf response then you dont know him well enough
 
I say often, if you do not really trust someone enough to talk openly about this, then stop at "you do not really trust someone." If the trust is not really there, be honest: do you really think the relationship is one that makes you feel safe and happy?

Even if he said, "No, you may not cheat on me with the dog," you will not die if you do not have dog sex for the duration of this relationship.
 
UR20Z is right,I wouldn't even being it up unless you know for sure,easy way to end up blackmailed or in jail.Also and ive seen this happen to a member from BF,the couple breaks up and now each is wondering if the other is gonna use it against them or try to get them in trouble
 
Well I think if you have a relationship where you might end up married, and if your extremely close, then you should tell him and ask him to help so its not a thing that you do without him. There are a lot of ways you can break him into the idea so its not a shock to him but in the end he should know.
 
Wasbitchpolly said:
I really can’t see how you can type fuckmydog.com and say it’s a typo ?
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No but on your phone you could be typing should I desex my dog, and autocorrect could certainly change desex to sex.
The whole point really being that if the bf is not receptive then he will focus on how you typed incorrectly, but if he is receptive he will not focus on that but rather further the conversation.
You know there are many ways to enter that conversation for instance "I overheard some people today talking about bestiality today" is another way to work it into the conversation. The whole point of this discussion is to assist in giving the requestor some advise and opinions on the question. Not really to ridicule someone trying to be helpful.
 
1KnottyGirl said:
Well I think if you have a relationship where you might end up married, and if your extremely close, then you should tell him and ask him to help so its not a thing that you do without him. There are a lot of ways you can break him into the idea so its not a shock to him but in the end he should know.
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Totally agree, you need to test the water without complete admission.
 
As someone else said you need to bring about the subject in a manner that does not elude to your current interests. It will be much better to plant the seed and see where he takes it rather then you leading him let him think he led you on to it. As to porn sites that have dog sex on them sites like femefun, **********, sheamateur, fapdig have it along with normal porn so you can say you were browsing porn sites and tripped into one of them just tell him they have some wild and crazy porn that might peak his interest in checking one of them out and let him do the browsing on the site if he quickly shuts it down you will know he's turned off by it if he lingers or even clicks on some of the beasty porn you have a foot in the door but still let it come from him.
 
Sarah said:
Hey guys, I've recently started testing the waters with my dog and really enjoy it. I really want to go that little bit further, but worried that he might hurt me. I've considered coming clean to my bf so that maybe he could join in and assist me if he doesn't turn and run lol.

I'd like to see what the male members on here think about this. Would you mind if your partner told you that she enjoyed having sex with dogs and asked for your help? How would you react to this? Also any advice would be greatly appreciated!
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The first issue is having sex with your dog. My opinion is that you should have sex with your dog (there is nothing wrong with having sex with a dog, and doing so can be mutually pleasurable for both the human and dog).

Regarding telling your boyfriend, it's kind of a gamble. He may be accepting of it, or he may not. This is the issue with telling non-zoos about one's zoo interests -- there's no way to know how the non-zoo will react. The best reaction would be that he is accepting of your zoo interests, while the worst reaction would be that he calls the authorities (snitches). One option is to live a "double life" in which you secretly have sex with your dog without your boyfriend knowing, but that has risks as well.

Knowledge (of one's zoo interests) can be a dangerous thing, if it is spread to the wrong people -- as others have mentioned, if the relationship becomes sour and the boyfriend breaks up with you, he could potentially blackmail you or snitch to the authorities as "revenge".
 
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Zoo50 said:
Knowledge (of one's zoo interests) can be a dangerous thing, if it is spread to the wrong people -- as others have mentioned, if the relationship becomes sour and the boyfriend breaks up with you, he could potentially blackmail you or snitch to the authorities as "revenge".
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That is why I say that he should be involved, be a part of it. That way he is not left to feel like he is an outsider while in the relationship. And if things go sour then he can't really say anything because he was a part of what was happening.
 
1KnottyGirl said:
That is why I say that he should be involved, be a part of it. That way he is not left to feel like he is an outsider while in the relationship. And if things go sour then he can't really say anything because he was a part of what was happening.
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If I remember correctly, there was a couple (man and woman) in Colorado who had sex with dogs -- the man was the true zoo, and the woman was a non-zoo who was pressured into having sex with dogs by the man. Eventually, the woman (the non-zoo) snitched to the police, and both of them were arrested and charged with "animal cruelty". This doesn't happen very often, but it could potentially happen.
 
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