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Married but alone in this ... you too?

I'm in the same boat as most. My wife knows I've looked at zooporn but has no idea I've been working to have any sort of experience. Things would not end well if she found out so I have to be careful. Unfortunately, I have no female k9 companion right now either ? hopefully sometime in the near future but that's a ways off still (at least maybe 5 years). I've tried reaching out on here, but most of the time have no luck. But, won't stop me from trying
 
My situation is a little different. Had the zoo interest since I saw the classic old Horse job video back in the early days of the Internet. I wasn't even looking for it, it just showed up somewhere I was browsing, and here's this female taking all the horse cum to her face willingly. It opened up a can of worms. Fast forward to my wife and I getting to know each other less than 10 years ago, and I brought it up fairly early. She had no interest in pursuing, looking, or engaging in zoo. Recently, as I've become more willing to try it, or at least see it in person, I've brought up going off to find it. She gave me her blessing. (We're swingers, so open communication and trust is utmost for us). So while I am married, but alone in this, she's not unaware.
 
AlabamaSlamurai said:
My situation is a little different. Had the zoo interest since I saw the classic old Horse job video back in the early days of the Internet. I wasn't even looking for it, it just showed up somewhere I was browsing, and here's this female taking all the horse cum to her face willingly. It opened up a can of worms. Fast forward to my wife and I getting to know each other less than 10 years ago, and I brought it up fairly early. She had no interest in pursuing, looking, or engaging in zoo. Recently, as I've become more willing to try it, or at least see it in person, I've brought up going off to find it. She gave me her blessing. (We're swingers, so open communication and trust is utmost for us). So while I am married, but alone in this, she's not unaware.
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Well this is not a bad deal!
 
its hard and I've been lucky that my husband knows. I've know a few woman that have struggled with this and each dynamic is unique and there isn't a general answer. some partners will undrestand and not want to take part, some will freak out, and some might want to watch or take part. People know their spouce better then anyone so you have to be 100% sure you want to open up or for the safety of you marriage keep it quite.
 
What I find interesting is whether or not some people would be interested, if they felt as if it was socially accepted. I feel like some people just react in a certain way because they think that’s the way they are expected to react. But if we can be a fly on the wall I’m sure many of us would find out our partners may have stoped, watched and gotten turn on by it in private.
 
My wife knew that I sometimes watched videos involving a dogs and didn’t mind, even though she wasn’t into it herself. She thought it was limited to just watching and nothing more. Recently, I told her that I had once (a long time ago) had a sexual encounter with a german shepherd. She asked, 'Did you like it?' and followed up with a couple more questions. Then she said, 'Okay, fine, that’s your thing, but I don’t consider it hygienic for myself.' After the conversation, we had sex.
So, no changes in my relationship with my wife, but I’m still alone with my desires.
 
Uggy8 said:
My wife knew that I sometimes watched videos involving a dogs and didn’t mind, even though she wasn’t into it herself. She thought it was limited to just watching and nothing more. Recently, I told her that I had once (a long time ago) had a sexual encounter with a german shepherd. She asked, 'Did you like it?' and followed up with a couple more questions. Then she said, 'Okay, fine, that’s your thing, but I don’t consider it hygienic for myself.' After the conversation, we had sex.
So, no changes in my relationship with my wife, but I’m still alone with my desires.
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Having your partner’s acceptance is still a win imo.
 
Fortunately I have shared this part of me with my husband (mm) and I’m grateful that he’s supportive or at least not judgemental. He just isn’t into it, or maybe it’s the beginning of the journey for him. I don’t really know. I worry deep down he might feel confused or hurt even though he doesn’t express it.
 
animavolpe said:
Fortunately I have shared this part of me with my husband (mm) and I’m grateful that he’s supportive or at least not judgemental. He just isn’t into it, or maybe it’s the beginning of the journey for him. I don’t really know. I worry deep down he might feel confused or hurt even though he doesn’t express it.
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It's complicated. You've got to play it like 3D Chess.
 
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