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Is anal penetration of dogs abusive?

Is anal penetration of animals abusive?

  • Yes

    Votes: 38 34.9%

  • No

    Votes: 33 30.3%

  • Ok in moderation

    Votes: 37 33.9%

  • Only on males

    Votes: 1 0.9%
  • Total voters
    109
My GSD just took a huge crap so I thought I could test the waters with him... big mistake. Also it was the most disgusting experience I have ever had with him. Glands expressed and lube does no favors. You can't easily flush (whatever the term is?) a dogs anal cavity. What a fucking disaster.

Lets just say, we agreed he'll do the humping from now on. 🤣

There are probably male dogs that like it. But for every unicorn example of a anal slut dog, there are a dozen or more forceful cunts that will insist their dog accept anal, and its concerning. It is definitely not a desired position and at best, is simply tolerated because it makes their human seem happy.
 
I don't think anyone on here who has sex with their animals is in a position to judge the sexual relationship of others in this community. Are there cases of abusive relationships? Of course, just as there can be in virtually ANY sexual relationship. However, I like to believe that the overwhelming majority of us love our partners and would never force them to do something they do not enjoy or that is hurtful.

That being said, I hate that I am automatically assumed to be "abusing" my dog because of how we enjoy sex together. It turns something beautiful and loving into something that I question whether I should be ashamed and scared to talk about with others who've experienced it.

I have only owned a male dog and he was my first K9 sexual experience. He and I have always loved having sex together. We started when he started acting horny as a pup. I took it gentle and slow with him and it naturally just became something we did together when either of us was horny. Yes, the majority of the time he bottoms for me but I ALWAYS make sure he is happy and satisfied. Sometimes he wants to top me and I am happy to switch with him. He also enjoys me jerking him off while I'm inside him, which we usually do as well. He also enjoys when I perform oral on him. So, it's not JUST about anal for us.

Maybe I found a one and a million dog who gets pleasure from anal sex, I don't know. What I do know is that my boy lives to show me love and please me, as do most dogs. So mine may become excited and want me to be inside him but I'm willing to bet that there are a LOT of other guys out there who happen to have male dogs that enjoy it as well. They are just scared to share their experience because of judgemental people.
 
xanderpnw said:
I don't think anyone on here who has sex with their animals is in a position to judge the sexual relationship of others in this community. Are there cases of abusive relationships? Of course, just as there can be in virtually ANY sexual relationship. However, I like to believe that the overwhelming majority of us love our partners and would never force them to do something they do not enjoy or that is hurtful.

That being said, I hate that I am automatically assumed to be "abusing" my dog because of how we enjoy sex together. It turns something beautiful and loving into something that I question whether I should be ashamed and scared to talk about with others who've experienced it.

I have only owned a male dog and he was my first K9 sexual experience. He and I have always loved having sex together. We started when he started acting horny as a pup. I took it gentle and slow with him and it naturally just became something we did together when either of us was horny. Yes, the majority of the time he bottoms for me but I ALWAYS make sure he is happy and satisfied. Sometimes he wants to top me and I am happy to switch with him. He also enjoys me jerking him off while I'm inside him, which we usually do as well. He also enjoys when I perform oral on him. So, it's not JUST about anal for us.

Maybe I found a one and a million dog who gets pleasure from anal sex, I don't know. What I do know is that my boy lives to show me love and please me, as do most dogs. So mine may become excited and want me to be inside him but I'm willing to bet that there are a LOT of other guys out there who happen to have male dogs that enjoy it as well. They are just scared to share their experience because of judgemental people.
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No matter what it is, or how you say it, or word it, some loser will get ass hurt over it, so, make sure they are frothing at the mouth and crapping them self in rage, then point and laugh and move on!

if you n your mate are happy and love each other mock the idiots and enjoy each others embrace
 
xanderpnw said:
I don't think anyone on here who has sex with their animals is in a position to judge the sexual relationship of others in this community. Are there cases of abusive relationships? Of course, just as there can be in virtually ANY sexual relationship. However, I like to believe that the overwhelming majority of us love our partners and would never force them to do something they do not enjoy or that is hurtful.

That being said, I hate that I am automatically assumed to be "abusing" my dog because of how we enjoy sex together. It turns something beautiful and loving into something that I question whether I should be ashamed and scared to talk about with others who've experienced it.

I have only owned a male dog and he was my first K9 sexual experience. He and I have always loved having sex together. We started when he started acting horny as a pup. I took it gentle and slow with him and it naturally just became something we did together when either of us was horny. Yes, the majority of the time he bottoms for me but I ALWAYS make sure he is happy and satisfied. Sometimes he wants to top me and I am happy to switch with him. He also enjoys me jerking him off while I'm inside him, which we usually do as well. He also enjoys when I perform oral on him. So, it's not JUST about anal for us.

Maybe I found a one and a million dog who gets pleasure from anal sex, I don't know. What I do know is that my boy lives to show me love and please me, as do most dogs. So mine may become excited and want me to be inside him but I'm willing to bet that there are a LOT of other guys out there who happen to have male dogs that enjoy it as well. They are just scared to share their experience because of judgemental people.
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the trick is to not give that much of a shit what other ppl think. only you know how it really is between you and your boy. who gives a shit what anyone else has to say about it?
 
It's only abusive if that's the intention and you're not respecting the other's boundaries if they don't enjoy anal. With time, you can tell if they like it or not. Maybe they might enjoy it at first, but there's no harm in trying it again in the future because there's a chance that they weren't ready for anal yet, just like with everyone. Just remember to take it slow with your partner and have good communication with each other to know for sure if it's something you can enjoy together. If they show signs of discomfort, then stop and don't force it. Some people might say it's automatically abusive because they assume that they don't enjoy anal sex at all when they don't know the full story of what goes between the ones involved if it's not. It may be rare especially for males, but I can say there's a good majority who would enjoy anal.
 
Seems like a good entrypoint for my view, that dogs derive a lot of their enjoyment in zoophilia (as in not for reproduction, mostly for fun and bonding, and for the love of their human or humans in general) from intimacy, trust, bonding e.t.c.
As someone into anal I don't think many dogs even males get off on anal penetration, not that none do, or that a larger number would at least enjoy it when masturbated before during or after. I however put forward there's still lots who'd enjoy it for reasons other than just chasing climax: intimacy, praise, and they definitely recognise it was a form of sex so they may get a general sense of satisfaction or love from it.
It may also vary based on how you introduce them to it and form the association, lube and positive reinforcement versus selfishness and inexperience.
A huge factor to think of, when it's IRL and not just a porn video you get a lot of context, a lot more body language, a lot more 'vibes'.

I've told a few people this but my first couple zoo experiences were with a male dog courtesy of the owner who present, this dog enjoyed it with his owner for basically the reasons I said, but he wasn't as into it with me. I respected his preferences by just watching most times I was over, and it was a pretty replicable reaction that the dog enjoyed anal from his owner but wasn't into me in that way. It does seem dogs can be open to exploration with their human and each one has a unique sexuality and personality you can't accurately predict.

The comment is becoming a bit unwieldy but I've said most everything interesting I have to say in one go.
Seems people have been nicer on here than expected and it's really good to discuss and debate it, even, or especially critique and caveats. It can only be a win for everyone to encourage experimentation while discouraging bad practice.
 
lablvr said:
Anal can be very uncomfortable and dogs aren't able to understand why that is or that it will get better as they adjust or any of that. I don't think humans should be participating in giving anal to dogs. Their body is not built for it. Neither is ours, but they cannot understand the risks the way we can.
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lablvr said:
Stick to receiving or vaginal sex.
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Lol... You anal haters use always the same excuses. So... Anal sex can be uncomfortable, but what makes you think that vaginal sex is always comfortable?
I bet your answer would be something like: "it' s more natural". Well... you are pretty delusional if you think in this way. Even the vagina of a dog is not built for the penis of a man (it can even be smaller and less stretchable than her anus). The male dog penetrates the bitch while his penis is still pretty thin compared to the average size of the penis of a man. And that's the reason why many zoos have to work slowly over time to stretch a bitch well enough to be penetrated without discomfort, or have to choose for a bitch who already delivered a litter. And, as I already said on my previous post, most female dogs are not very receptive for sex when they are not in their heat period, but, if they learn that sex can be an enjoyable experience they may change their behavior and seek for attention even when it's usually "not natural" for them...
 
Thank you. This is so well put. I have never shared my boy but I'm almost certain that he wouldn't enjoy or want another guy to have anal sex with him. I do think he would be ok with topping another guy though. When him and I are together it does feel very intimate and special. We absolutely trust each other and there is amazing chemistry with us where we enjoy giving each other pleasure. It's hard to even explain.
Fuzzer said:
Seems like a good entrypoint for my view, that dogs derive a lot of their enjoyment in zoophilia (as in not for reproduction, mostly for fun and bonding, and for the love of their human or humans in general) from intimacy, trust, bonding e.t.c.
As someone into anal I don't think many dogs even males get off on anal penetration, not that none do, or that a larger number would at least enjoy it when masturbated before during or after. I however put forward there's still lots who'd enjoy it for reasons other than just chasing climax: intimacy, praise, and they definitely recognise it was a form of sex so they may get a general sense of satisfaction or love from it.
It may also vary based on how you introduce them to it and form the association, lube and positive reinforcement versus selfishness and inexperience.
A huge factor to think of, when it's IRL and not just a porn video you get a lot of context, a lot more body language, a lot more 'vibes'.

I've told a few people this but my first couple zoo experiences were with a male dog courtesy of the owner who present, this dog enjoyed it with his owner for basically the reasons I said, but he wasn't as into it with me. I respected his preferences by just watching most times I was over, and it was a pretty replicable reaction that the dog enjoyed anal from his owner but wasn't into me in that way. It does seem dogs can be open to exploration with their human and each one has a unique sexuality and personality you can't accurately predict.

The comment is becoming a bit unwieldy but I've said most everything interesting I have to say in one go.
Seems people have been nicer on here than expected and it's really good to discuss and debate it, even, or especially critique and caveats. It can only be a win for everyone to encourage experimentation while discouraging bad practice.
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MashaSobaka said:
Dont say this.
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why not? i value honesty more than anything. being honest with oneself is the baseline.
there is no one out there "happy for me" and that's fine. am i extremely close to "dead inside" because many factors regarding that? yes, and that's fine too.
everything is just fine.
 
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