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If you could go back to change one decision in your life would you stop yourself from being zoo?

I wouldn't have changed it even if I could have. It's a pretty central part of me, and I'm sure will lead to some good connections and experiences down the line. If anything, I would have gone back and stopped myself from being so scared to take the next steps with my family pup when I was growing up. We were always really close, and I know we would've been even closer had I not been too scared to to do anything with her.
 
There's a Jules Renard quote that answers this almost perfectly for me

“If I had my life to live over again, I would ask that not a thing be changed, but that my eyes be opened wider.”

That of course only applies to my zoo life choices (including being one). There are a myriad of things I would change from my birth till now.
 
Back then I knew I loved my dogs but didn't know that I also loved them in a more close way.. I'm happy about it and don't regret that but. If I had to answer honestly is say no. If I hadn't had loved my boys the way I did then that means I'd have loved nothing.. and at that time in my life was very depressing.. I don't think I'd be here today if I changed it.. sure I feel lonely and like I don't fit in often but I'm alive for better or worse
 
Hmmm... I don't think I "decided" to become a zoo. I won't say I was born a zoo, but a lot of my sexuality as a teen was zoo oriented. Most of my masturbation was while thinking of horses, my thoughts during masturbation rarely turning to women. Even during my marriages many of my sexual experiences had me thinking of animals instead of the woman I was with. My last serious relationship was the same way- having sex with a woman but thinking on how much I wanted to enjoy sex with a mare. If I had to do it all over again, knowing what I know now, I think many of my choices would be vastly different- I think I would have married differently or simply wouldn't have gotten married at all, and I think I would have sought out zoo friendships/partnerships much earlier in my life. The depth of the feelings I have for my lady now I've only ever felt one other time in my life, and that person (a teenaged girl in HS) DESTROYED me emotionally. I feel safe loving my lady because I know she will never leave me, nor will she ever play games with my heart. So would I change things? Yes. Would I change the fact that I am a zoo? No, I really don't think so.
 
Is a sexual orientation based on a decision? Being zoo is not a decision I made….it‘s an orientation which was handed to me….we can discuss, if it was handed to my by god, another form of creator or simply by DNA…either way, I didn‘t ask to be zoo…..
 
Yes I would. Am I in a bad place now? Not really. But I think I’d be better off if I hadn’t gone down this road.
 
puppycr34m said:
At first I was very embarrassed about being a zoo and hated myself for years. I regretted letting that dog take my first time from me. I felt it meant i wasnt good enough to have sex with people. I wanted to go back and stop myself everytime. Then came the porn addiction. I realized I only got off to dog cock. Even when I desperately tried to think about humans. Then when I was old enough to start pursuing people I realized something horrible. I realized humans don't feel as good as that dog did. No matter how much I try. I can't get off the same with people as I can on a dogs tounge or knot. Part of me wished I never went down this rabbithole. I wouldn't be struggling with my attraction, and being around most people wouldn't feel so alienating.
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Well, you are in a hard place there, between zoo or not. You really like the sexual derived pleasure a lot more, but you can't get to consider an animal as exclussive partner in life.

Not that it is something to feel guilty about but it certainly limits your options for fulfilling your phisical and mental satisfaction at once.

You may find a partner with same interest, but it will most likely be a kink seeing you and it wont last long. Or, you may some day decide to go back knowing it will be at the expense of less phisical pleasure in the future.
 
Honestly, I'm one of those people who probably haven't even decided yet. I like zooporn. But I wouldn't dare to implement it in real life. So it seems to me that I don't even belong to zoo☺️
 
liana said:
Honestly, I'm one of those people who probably haven't even decided yet. I like zooporn. But I wouldn't dare to implement it in real life. So it seems to me that I don't even belong to zoo☺️
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Interest, dreams and desires often become in time reality.... :p
 
I posted before but will post again.

I would definitely go back and take up the opportunity to meet more people and have more experiences.
 
puppycr34m said:
You sure gave me a lot to think about, are you zoo exclussive? Do you feel an emotional connection to animals when you guys are intimate? I have a human partner atm. I'm scared to lose them emotionally but sexually I can't stop craving dogs. I wish I could feel fulfilled with a dog partner but I dont want to project feeling onto an animal if they can't even grasp the complexity of the emotions.
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Yes, I call me zoo exclussive as I have trued human sex, but do not find it satisfying enough, but it is also about company and relations to me.

I like having people and friends around, of course. But I am happier with an animal arrond. Kind of easier to fulfill their life and everyone be happy, the honesty of their relation for good or bad, cuddling with an animal and forgetting about all troubles. And my mental peace while at it.

Yes, I may leave my zoosexuality behind if I felt I needed, and I actually did that some year ago. But in my case, I could not be happy just with human company and no animal interactions (sexual or not)

In short, *in my case*, if person and animsl relation come as incompatible, my decision is obvious. But that does not need to work for everyone, possibly not your case, so good to have a thought about life and future just to have your options clear 🙂
 
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