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I told my boyfriend that I'm zoophilie

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NothingtoSeeOk?

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I told my boyfriend a few times over our year of relationship that I was into zoophilia and he always said it was okay and he said that maybe one day my fantasy could be done more times, last time was a week ago but reading a few post about telling other even loved one scared me a bit with arguments like what could happen and what could that person say to others and I was wondering am I fine? I mean he is a very empathetic person and always helped closed friends and he's very open minded and till now he seemed like he loved me so so much that in fact he's giving me a lot of gift and I'm giving a lot of gift too and we spend a lot of time together during the weekend because he lived a bit far from me but I wanted to know what you think because lately I'm full of doubts and don't know what to think really
 
I know that it really sucks to have this as a secret in a relationship.
I could not keep it a secret and told my, then, boyfriend everything, in a very incoherent manner while crying hysterically.
I do not recommended that approach to anyone, as it's a miracle that he did not leave me then and there, which I was almost positive that he would do.
Your approach, to ease it out a little at a time, seems like a better option than opening the flood gates.

I wish things work out for you.
 
Shemon said:
I know that it really sucks to have this as a secret in a relationship.
I could not keep it a secret and told my, then, boyfriend everything, in a very incoherent manner while crying hysterically.
I do not recommended that approach to anyone, as it's a miracle that he did not leave me then and there, which I was almost positive that he would do.
Your approach, to ease it out a little at a time, seems like a better option than opening the flood gates.

I wish things work out for you.
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I really hope that it didn't ended tragically because of that:(
 
yeah this is the hardest part of being in a relationship...i dont know what to say...sorry. trusting people is hard...and you cant really know for sure if your secret is safe. You just open up and hope for the best. Me personally...i decided that whoever i date i would try and poke around and see their vibe before making a decision. If i get a sense that they're into it then i would maybe take a chance and tell them based on feeling. However if theyre against it but a good person than i would make a choice between losing a good partner or just letting this part of me go
 
NothingtoSeeOk? said:
I told my boyfriend a few times over our year of relationship that I was into zoophilia and he always said it was okay and he said that maybe one day my fantasy could be done more times, last time was a week ago but reading a few post about telling other even loved one scared me a bit with arguments like what could happen and what could that person say to others and I was wondering am I fine? I mean he is a very empathetic person and always helped closed friends and he's very open minded and till now he seemed like he loved me so so much that in fact he's giving me a lot of gift and I'm giving a lot of gift too and we spend a lot of time together during the weekend because he lived a bit far from me but I wanted to know what you think because lately I'm full of doubts and don't know what to think really
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If I wasn't into zoo and you told me you were, I'd prolly bolt
 
Honestly, if I was in a relationship, I probably wouldn't have the courage to say it. Kudos to you for doing it, I'm hoping i can find someone who's already into the zoo
 
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