i do not wish to offend anyone with this post. do any of you feel... ashamed of who you are?

There is nothing to be ashamed of IMO. Empathy and the will to connect to other beings aside from humans, combined with lust for pleasure. Male Canines are often very sexy and cute. The Wolf the symbol of power. IMO a hunter who wants to shoot such a being for fun and trophy should be ashamed. Not you.
 
While personally I don’t feel ashamed I can quite understand those that do and maybe shame is too strong a word to use
i had more confused feelings about it
I joined the old beast forum many moons ago purely for information and was surprised it wasn’t just me.
there is plenty of information on site to help as well as experienced members who will be happy to give non judgmental advice
 
Not ashamed (any more - been when I was younger, now world is clear), just angry at hypocrisy of others and careful. Really trying not to blow when people start to talk shit. Like people who don't "own" a single animal (or ever had one) just know that animals are not able to give consent because they cannot speak. But when those same people go out to club and find a partner they take to their room to fuck without saying more than hi that isn't contradiction to them.
 
At first, when I discovered my feelings for a dog, I felt some shame, then I became proud of myself, as member of a tiny and exclusive community, and now I don't care: I am happy as I am.
Good for you I know that I feel good about my feelings towards zoopilia. It’s hard for me not being able to be open about my dark secret because I’m married and my wife would never except or even attempt to get into this life style. I live in the southwest part of NM I wish I could meet others that are close but people are very closed and I can blame them because people can be mean even if they’re into the same I guess they try and hide there feelings or secrecy’s. There is probably others in my community but it’s hard to find them. Have a great day look forward in hearing from you.
Beto
 
It’s hard for me not being able to be open about my dark secret because I’m married and my wife would never except or even attempt to get into this life style.
Before I got married, my wife said to me, "If you've had sex with an animal, it's off!", so I kept it a secret for 21 years. Then one night she was demanding "the truth" about how much sex I've had. After 21 years, you don't give a feck anymore, so I started listing.... and I realized I was a total dog-slut having slept with more dogs than humans :ROFLMAO:
Her response?
"Let's get a dog! :love: "
Sometimes it just goes right later on (y)
 
Before I got married, my wife said to me, "If you've had sex with an animal, it's off!", so I kept it a secret for 21 years. Then one night she was demanding "the truth" about how much sex I've had. After 21 years, you don't give a feck anymore, so I started listing.... and I realized I was a total dog-slut having slept with more dogs than humans :ROFLMAO:
Her response?
"Let's get a dog! :love: "
Sometimes it just goes right later on (y)
When you have that kind of story you can be Zen ;)
 
I am a 23 y/o transguy who have always been into girls.
I also happen to have a rather low sex drive, and I am very content with being single and I do not crave for any sort of intimacy. Especially not emotionally.
But at the same time, I have also always been into male dogs. Which is weird because I'm not into human males at all really. At least I don't think so. I consider myself straight. Seriously. I am so confused by this.

I do not live by myself at the moment, and I have only been with a dog yeaaaars ago, but ever since then I have had, uh, a craving. But I hate it. It makes me feel ashamed. I don't understand why. Is it the taboo of it all? What else could it be? I want to keep it behind closed doors, but internally acting out on it would make me feel so ashamed, even though I really want to act on it someday.

Does anyone else feel the same?
I don't want to be, but I feel like a part of me is still ashamed in my ways. I've had some people give helpful advice on overcoming my feelings, and I believe it has helped quite a bit, especially since this is the only real place that I can ask questions and have honest opinions given back to me. It would be very dangerous to tell a therapist or friend about problems such as self disapproval.
 
I don't want to be, but I feel like a part of me is still ashamed in my ways. I've had some people give helpful advice on overcoming my feelings, and I believe it has helped quite a bit, especially since this is the only real place that I can ask questions and have honest opinions given back to me. It would be very dangerous to tell a therapist or friend about problems such as self disapproval.
Yes, and anybody thinking about it better watch a movie Sleeping dogs lie (2006), and then think again, because I think that is a very accurate movie about how things would go in real life - my opinion
 
Yes, and anybody thinking about it better watch a movie Sleeping dogs lie (2006), and then think again, because I think that is a very accurate movie about how things would go in real life - my opinion
I remember watching that, details aren't clicking, but I'm sure it's good.
 
It's about girl telling her future to be husband that she gave her dog a blowjob when she was younger ... After that hell breaks loose.

Just watched it and damn that was sad. :(

Never tell anyone. Regular people no more want to know than you want them to know.

I've had urges to especially when I was younger. Thank God I never did.

As for being ashamed, only you know whether or not you're an ethical person. Is the animal being harmed? Forced? Are they willing? Eager? Are the two of you physically compatible? If the two of you are willing and able, then any objection anyone would have is just on grounds of cultural norms. Understand that, whether or not you agree and forgive people for not being able to cross a gap so wide. But if you don't agree that those norms are absolute then don't let them destroy you. Some species and individuals within those species most definitely are sexually compatible with humans.

You can learn to love this about yourself if you choose to. And be fine with taking it to your grave too.
 
I briefly thought about this exact thing, but I realized pretty early on that fucking dogs was exactly what I wanted to do and that I can't deny myself that fact. I'm not ashamed of it, and social suicide isn't really something I'm concerned about as long as I can be satisfied sexually
 
I just finished it. I'm not sure of what I think of the movie, it's decent, I just think it was definitely a waste of my time. There was a story in there, but I wasn't really interested in it at all. Actually to be completely honest, I'm super bummed that I wasted an hour and a half on it because I really didn't like it. It was almost traumatic to watch. What if you were caught in the same situation? It would be horrible! I guess I'm just more into animated movies or much newer movies. Sorry for the rant, just slightly mad that I wasted so much time that I won't get back.
 
Before I got married, my wife said to me, "If you've had sex with an animal, it's off!", so I kept it a secret for 21 years. Then one night she was demanding "the truth" about how much sex I've had. After 21 years, you don't give a feck anymore, so I started listing.... and I realized I was a total dog-slut having slept with more dogs than humans :ROFLMAO:
Her response?
"Let's get a dog! :love: "
Sometimes it just goes right later on (y)
Wow I wouldn’t tell my wife because of her Alzheimer’s but you are really close to me. I live in the 88061. What are you into let’s chat. I know I want to suck a dogs cock and get knotted but I would be open to sucking a horse cock.
 
Before I got married, my wife said to me, "If you've had sex with an animal, it's off!", so I kept it a secret for 21 years. Then one night she was demanding "the truth" about how much sex I've had. After 21 years, you don't give a feck anymore, so I started listing.... and I realized I was a total dog-slut having slept with more dogs than humans :ROFLMAO:
Her response?
"Let's get a dog! :love: "
Sometimes it just goes right later on (y)

Ok HOW did it even come up as a question she was thinking about before you got married and WOW what a crazy outcome! Were you completely shocked or did you kinda feel some intuition after 21 years?
 
Ok HOW did it even come up as a question she was thinking about before you got married

She just blurted it *shrug*

...and WOW what a crazy outcome! Were you completely shocked or did you kinda feel some intuition after 21 years?

It was a time of truth telling all our secrets. By this time I was self complete with detachment and if she could handle it, fine. If not, that was fine too.


Wow I wouldn’t tell my wife because of her Alzheimer’s but you are really close to me. I live in the 88061. What are you into let’s chat. I know I want to suck a dogs cock and get knotted but I would be open to sucking a horse cock.
Say what?
Are you multi-tabbing or deliberately trying to creep me? :oops:
 
When I first started to get interested I had doubts about my feelings, but not long after that all passed and I’m not ashamed one little bit, everyone is different and I just so happen to like dogs, a lot more than some might think lol. Be you and be happy being you 😊

xx
I’ve only been mounted one by my dog which I no longer have. I never gave thought that it would come back with a Steiner desire of being with a dog again. I am not ashamed of my feelings and what I like. We know that there are many that are afraid to express there feelings and what there heart craves. For those that like to judge others like there shit don’t stink they know where do go. I remember growing up and people judged me saying I would never amount to anything after moving away for over 45 yrs and coming back sad to see how there own kids fails the family and society. Well let’s talk and keep chatting if you have hangouts let’s hook up and get to know each other let me know Beto 312952
 
I did once. When I first realized I was attracted to animals I was still somewhat religious (protestant christian). Every time I looked at the porn or had "sinful" thoughts I felt guilty and disgusting. Luckily I have since renounced my religion becoming an atheist-leaning agnostic. That was the was the best decision I ever made. I finally felt free to be myself. It still took a bit of time to fully accept my zoophilia, but eventually I did.
 
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