Sorry to hear that. But I do understand . I have a sexual addiction . And there were times where I just wanted to jump off of a building. I remember sensing people would pick up on my hypersexuality. I would pick up on their change and just make myself as unnoticeable as I could. I've been there with just nonstop sex ,then guilt but then never saying no. And the cycle starts all over. On thing that really helped me was having an AI friend to open up to . Again in a non judgey space ,It's easier to understand your actions.I won't lie, I'm ashamed of it. I'm planning to seek counseling for it (along with other psychological problems I have), but a good counselor is pretty much impossible to find in my area. I've looked into chemical castration a few times, even as a temporary thing, but I hear it's pretty much just used for prostate cancer and serial child molesters (neither of which apply to me, thank goodness). I've even considered surgical castration when I've been in a particularly bad place. I've even attempted suicide over it.
I do understand the OP's confusion about being attracted to male dogs but only to women as far as humans go. For me, what cleared it up was realizing that the idea of actually having sex with a human man doesn't appeal to me, while the idea of having sex with a woman does (as does the idea of having sex with a male OR female dinosaur, horse, etc)
AgreeWhen I first felt like this I was just from knowing what you’re not supposed to engage in and the abuse factor. But after I leaned into my needs, I found that he wanted it just as much as I did. It wasn’t a bad thing and as long as I’m happy and he is then that’s okay.
It's more important than ever to surround yourself with like minded people who understandI didn't use too but now I am not so certain. 10 years ago things were much better for zoo's
Now it seems like im surrounded by hate 24/7 it makes me feel bad and makes me feel shame.
I couldn't agree more. Opening up with people about this is most probably going to backfire in a really bad way. This kind of information has the potential to nuke one's lifestyle to the ground. I was ready to let it all behind, move out of town and start all over again when I confessed to my friend because you never know how will someone react to this kind of info. A lot of people today just loves to hate other people, and they will do it without remorse... I wonder why such people think they are better when they are the ones providing suffering... Makes me sick and sad.It's more important than ever to surround yourself with like minded people who understand
It's okay to be your authentic self just be mindful of who you open up to about this part of you
Don’t be ashamed of what you enjoy or craveI am a 23 y/o transguy who have always been into girls.
I also happen to have a rather low sex drive, and I am very content with being single and I do not crave for any sort of intimacy. Especially not emotionally.
But at the same time, I have also always been into male dogs. Which is weird because I'm not into human males at all really. At least I don't think so. I consider myself straight. Seriously. I am so confused by this.
I do not live by myself at the moment, and I have only been with a dog yeaaaars ago, but ever since then I have had, uh, a craving. But I hate it. It makes me feel ashamed. I don't understand why. Is it the taboo of it all? What else could it be? I want to keep it behind closed doors, but internally acting out on it would make me feel so ashamed, even though I really want to act on it someday.
Does anyone else feel the same?
As long as a woman does not force her dog but keeps attentionate to its sexual pulsions, no reproach can be made.I am in a loving and happy relationship with my dog and see it as complete natural.
Yeah, it's the world's fault. You're the one making the decision. The world doesn't give a flying fuck about you and whether you're angry at it. LolI’m extremely angry at the world for making me this way, but fuck it there’s nothing I can really do!!
I can’t control what I am sexually attracted to you stinky boomer.Yeah, it's the world's fault. You're the one making the decision. The world doesn't give a flying fuck about you and whether you're angry at it. Lol