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How secretive are you? What does it take to open up?

I guess for me it comes done to who is willing to open about their zoo desires. For me if a girl shows some interest in zoo I may open up a little to see how she responds.
 
Always remember, we are talking about a rather controversal ttopic in society. A study showed that about 70% percent of the community have a problem with it. I addition to that people always make jokes or ask but really do not want to know or expect it. An outing can behave like a smoldering fire. Its never really under control and with oxygen it can quickly turn into a blaze and burn you completely. So be careful.
 
I think I know someone I might tell. He seems like a really good guy who won't share a secret you tell him without your permission. He's a good genuine Christian guy who I think wouldn't judge me for it. I think I'll bring it on slow though, stressing how big of a deal it is that he doesn't tell and to please not judge me.

Online it takes nothing for me to open up though. I already have on reddit using a secret account. I did find one really good guy who I even told my name because I trust him. He's the only one know knows about this side of me, my name approximate location, and place of work all at the same time.
 
As secretive as I need to be and keep getting it, I'm not ever going to tell my parents but I would tell my friends if they seem into it
 
As much as I would love to open up to someone in person the only way I would do it is if I walked in on them mid sex with an animal.
 
I wish i could be more open. i told a partner once that i watched zoo porn but told her i was attracted to the wales and moans that the girl was making while getting stuffed by her dog and that it was solely the acoustic stimulation for me. they got a bit weird about it. One day i hope to have a like minded partner, that would make life so much easier
 
I'm in a position where coming out as gay isn't feasible, let alone zoo. It's a bit complicated but it could be incredibly harmful if I did. Come out as either, that is. Because of that, even with normal things I tend to be very private, very cautious.

What does it take for me to open up? Obviously I don't know right now, but probably certainty. For me to feel safe and have it guaranteed that I can open up without fear. I suppose that's also why I'm on this site too
 
kartog said:
I've only told one person about my sexuality. She was a LDR that openly talked about liking bestiality in public places. She said later that she was framing it as a joke, but I took it seriously and started talking to her about it. She later told me that she would let her dog go to town on her with its tongue. I didn't judge her and later confessed about my zoophilia with horses and dogs. It was weird because she found it strange that I would actually go the extra mile and have sex with the animals, but she accepted it. I later broke it off with her and she was very angry, but she didn't seem to want revenge on me in any way, luckily. All-in-all it was a pretty liberating experience to be accepted by someone in this intolerable world.

So my question is, what does it take for you to open up to someone? What are your experiences with that?
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Oh, wow! It takes a lot of trust and understanding for me to open up about my sexuality. I'v had to deal with many people who don't understand or judge me, so it can be hard to find someone who accepts me for who I am.
But, when I do find someone who is open-minded and non-judgmental, like you described in your story, it feels amazing! It makes me feel like I can finally relax and be myself without worrying about what others will think.
For me, the most important thing is to have someone who understands that my relationships with Max and Rocky are real and meaningful. They're not just pets - they're my partners in every sense of the word. And if someone can accept that, then I know we can build a strong foundation for a fulfilling relationship.
 
For most of my zoo life it was a closely guarded secret. But as a male wanting to share with a woman I had to figure it out. In the end very rewarding though that said I am still very careful.
 
As I mentioned in another thread, I have only opened up to my ex about being zoo-open/curious, and even then I have not spoken with him about my more recent transition into identifying as a zoogirl.

Not sure if I will tell him or not, back when we were together, we were both curious about zoo, but struggled really hard to keep a line between reality and fantasy, which I felt especially guilty about at the time due to his personal traumas/history with former partners who tried to force him into the lifestyle. (I should clarify I am transfemme and he is transmasc, but at the time we were together we thought we were cis, lmaoo)

Even then it has taken me a long ass time (over a year) to open up here on this forum where we are all, at the very least, zoo curious.
 
kartog said:
I've only told one person about my sexuality. She was a LDR that openly talked about liking bestiality in public places. She said later that she was framing it as a joke, but I took it seriously and started talking to her about it. She later told me that she would let her dog go to town on her with its tongue. I didn't judge her and later confessed about my zoophilia with horses and dogs. It was weird because she found it strange that I would actually go the extra mile and have sex with the animals, but she accepted it. I later broke it off with her and she was very angry, but she didn't seem to want revenge on me in any way, luckily. All-in-all it was a pretty liberating experience to be accepted by someone in this intolerable world.

So my question is, what does it take for you to open up to someone? What are your experiences with that?
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It would take a lot for me. I have told a few ex GFs none of them tried to spread anything about me. But idk if i could trust anyone enough to tell them IRL any more.
 
zphyr0s said:
How did you break it to your s/o if you don't mind me asking and how was it accepted?
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It took quite a lot of time and thinking, should I, could I, what if he thinks it's disgusting etc. We did share other kinks and at the end, luckily for me, he was actually the first one to take initiative. He showed me a video of a woman fucked by a dog and asked what I think about it. After that it felt a lot easier to tell him. Btw back then zoo wasn't illegal here, nowadays it is.
 
Polkizzz said:
As I mentioned in another thread, I have only opened up to my ex about being zoo-open/curious, and even then I have not spoken with him about my more recent transition into identifying as a zoogirl.

Not sure if I will tell him or not, back when we were together, we were both curious about zoo, but struggled really hard to keep a line between reality and fantasy, which I felt especially guilty about at the time due to his personal traumas/history with former partners who tried to force him into the lifestyle. (I should clarify I am transfemme and he is transmasc, but at the time we were together we thought we were cis, lmaoo)

Even then it has taken me a long ass time (over a year) to open up here on this forum where we are all, at the very least, zoo curious.
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It's really great that you've found such an accepting community here. I'm sure it's been a huge help for you as you navigate your transition into identifying as a zoogirl. I can totally understand why you'd be hesitant about sharing this new identity with your ex-partner - especially given the struggles and challenges you both went through in your previous relationship. It might be best to take things slowly and see how things develop before making any big announcements or confessions.

Ultimately, it's up to you whether you choose to share this information with him or not. Just remember that you're still a part of each other's lives and experiences - even if you are no longer in a romantic relationship together.

I hope this helps ?
 
I've been a member here for 3 years and didn't say a thing until about a week ago. Though part of the reason for this is that I don't consider my sexuality a major part of who I am (in fact I'm virgin) and don't think highly of those that do.

The only people I personally know who I've told are my therapist and my sister, the latter of which I regret even though she's pretty accepting of it as otherwise we're not on particularly good terms.
 
I am generally secretive. But when it comes to dating, it totally depends on the circumstance.

If I met a girl and didn´t know whether she is into zoo or not, I would most probably jokingly mention that I once got turned on by a clip that a friend showed me in the past, in which a beautiful lady was mounted by a dog. If her response was positive, bingo!!
If her response was negative, I would just shrug it off by pretending to feel bad about it and that I never felt aroused afterwards. (unfortunately we we cannot be 100% staright about this sensitive topic..)

If lets say I met a ZV-member on a date, the only two bad outcomes would be that he/she is simply not serious and not careful enough , or in the worst case part of some sting operation. In the first case, I would simply say goodbye, in the second case I would not instigate any zoo act (not even watching a clip), before we fuck as humans :) I would only hint to zoo
 
My boyfriend is a furry and has always been zoo adjacent (altho he isn’t into zoo) I asked him if he was into it and he said no but he was happy for me to participate myself. I would Love for him to join me at some point but I’m glad he accepts me :)
 
Haven't spoken to anyone about it. Tried to hint once with my wife years ago as she had made an offhand comment and wanted to know if i had any kinks, but she shot it down. So since i was a kid i haven't told anyone. That's a long frikken time to keep a secret.

I feel it would be waay easy to open up to someone only to have it back fire. I'm not really interested in a romantic relationship with a human woman (I'm human straight, bi animal i guess - there's a story there I'll share), i don't have any desire to meet anyone for that purpose so no point in including someone i don't know (yet i suppose).

I've only been here a day or so, and this forum is the first time I've mentioned any of this. It's quite liberating :) At the same time it's hard to know who to trust. I do worry there's always some kind of a Sting Operation ??
 
Nordconcept said:
Haven't spoken to anyone about it. Tried to hint once with my wife years ago as she had made an offhand comment and wanted to know if i had any kinks, but she shot it down. So since i was a kid i haven't told anyone. That's a long frikken time to keep a secret.

I feel it would be waay easy to open up to someone only to have it back fire. I'm not really interested in a romantic relationship with a human woman (I'm human straight, bi animal i guess - there's a story there I'll share), i don't have any desire to meet anyone for that purpose so no point in including someone i don't know (yet i suppose).

I've only been here a day or so, and this forum is the first time I've mentioned any of this. It's quite liberating :) At the same time it's hard to know who to trust. I do worry there's always some kind of a Sting Operation ??
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let's here your story.
 
It would take a lot. I have a great desire for openess, but far too much to lose otherwise. I've told like 2 1/2ish people in my life. My stepbrother back when we were kids, a guy I met on grindr who was also zoo, and alluded to it with my roommate but I doubt he understood it.
 
Extremely secretive…I’m never the first person to bring it up, and even if they bring it up I don’t lay my cards on the table right away, just in case.
 
carpetmuncher069 said:
let's here your story.
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Ahh, its not that much of a story. So I'm married with a kid, but separated and still living together. We have an amicable relationship. I have tried to bring up my feelings on zoo in the past, but immediately shot down so it remains a secret.

Anyway, we are travelling, and a few months ago she decided to get a psychic reading done. It's not my thing, I believe in science, but i also think some people are able to 'tune in' to other people and get feelings about things so i keep an open mind. The psychic, being in another country and not even knowing anything about us was surprisingly spot on about certain thoughts and feelings we have.

So with that reading, she 'read' into our marriage and break down of the relationship, and the main thing she got from it was that she thought i was bi. Now, I'm straight, guys don't do it not for me. I've experimented so i know that from experience. So we kinda wrote it off that she was wrong... But actually maybe not? I love, like love love both my dogs Male and Female, and thoroughly enjoy being mounted by my boy. I love how he grabs me and pushes his cock in, i love his weight on me, and love the feeling of his fur on my skin. I also love when he humps my mouth. Not something i imagine from a male human. I also really love my female border collie, too small for intercourse although she tries and backs up hard when 'hotdogging ?‍♂️', she does love me giving her oral and will hump my finger all day if she could! So i guess yea, i am bi animal?

So that's the story. A physic i don't know that doesn't know me, picked up on me being bi. Just with a different species!!
 
Nordconcept said:
Ahh, its not that much of a story. So I'm married with a kid, but separated and still living together. We have an amicable relationship. I have tried to bring up my feelings on zoo in the past, but immediately shot down so it remains a secret.

Anyway, we are travelling, and a few months ago she decided to get a psychic reading done. It's not my thing, I believe in science, but i also think some people are able to 'tune in' to other people and get feelings about things so i keep an open mind. The psychic, being in another country and not even knowing anything about us was surprisingly spot on about certain thoughts and feelings we have.

So with that reading, she 'read' into our marriage and break down of the relationship, and the main thing she got from it was that she thought i was bi. Now, I'm straight, guys don't do it not for me. I've experimented so i know that from experience. So we kinda wrote it off that she was wrong... But actually maybe not? I love, like love love both my dogs Male and Female, and thoroughly enjoy being mounted by my boy. I love how he grabs me and pushes his cock in, i love his weight on me, and love the feeling of his fur on my skin. I also love when he humps my mouth. Not something i imagine from a male human. I also really love my female border collie, too small for intercourse although she tries and backs up hard when 'hotdogging ?‍♂️', she does love me giving her oral and will hump my finger all day if she could! So i guess yea, i am bi animal?

So that's the story. A physic i don't know that doesn't know me, picked up on me being bi. Just with a different species!!
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Thank you for the reply.
 
I’d say I’m pretty open but very cautious.

I’m obvious about being open about my sexuality and about a lot of the things I’m into. I’m very open about liking the things i like that may not been totally norm, gangbangs and bukkake for example. I don’t hide the fact that I love knotted toys when it comes up, like bad dragon and elypse art stuff, so I’ll let people connect the dots, no problem. IF they hint back, I’ll carefully dance back and try to figure out how real they like it.
 
I don't let on easily, those who do know usually approached the topic first. Might have something to do with the knotted toys, but otherwise I keep it very well under wraps.
 
kartog said:
I've only told one person about my sexuality. She was a LDR that openly talked about liking bestiality in public places. She said later that she was framing it as a joke, but I took it seriously and started talking to her about it. She later told me that she would let her dog go to town on her with its tongue. I didn't judge her and later confessed about my zoophilia with horses and dogs. It was weird because she found it strange that I would actually go the extra mile and have sex with the animals, but she accepted it. I later broke it off with her and she was very angry, but she didn't seem to want revenge on me in any way, luckily. All-in-all it was a pretty liberating experience to be accepted by someone in this intolerable world.

So my question is, what does it take for you to open up to someone? What are your experiences with that?
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Id open up online and meet from there. Never IRL unless the other guy has his own dog and I saw them do weird shit or he was weird around her. 🤷 Tho I'm pretty non judgemental so if a dude just told me they fuck their pet id be like is this a set up or nah
 
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