How many people on here identify as Bi-sexual?
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ILoveFemaleGSD's
Citizen of Zooville
No, I'm zoo exclusive, and straight. The only partner I desire is a female german shepherd. She will be my girl that I will do everything with, care for, and love more than life itself. She will also be the only one I will have sex with, because I want it to be a special thing between me and her only. I use future tense because I don't yet have one 
but just thinking about having her is the best thing ever. My God I can't wait to finally be with her...
but just thinking about having her is the best thing ever. My God I can't wait to finally be with her...
wet_kat2002
Tourist
I do, I’m a woman and I like men and women and dog cock 
CritterFunatic
Esteemed Citizen of ZV
I'd consider myself more of being "opportunity-sexual", but yeah, bisexual fits just fine.
As I like to say:
I'm like a western saloon door, I swing in both directions.
And I really don't care if it's called bisexual, pansexual or omnisexual. In my youth I was picky and gay-leaning, but nowadays I only care about a good, fitting personality, all the other, physical stuff can be made to work out in the end. As long as I like the "soul", I won't reject the body, no matter what shape and with whatever appendages it comes equipped with. The only exceptions would be non-consentual individuals of course. I'm only interested in whatever can give consent or shows a genuine interest in getting frisky.
EDIT: To make it clear, the last sentence only concerns sexual interest. I don't refuse relations to people who have no sexual interest whatsoever, that's fine as well. To me, sex is not a selling point, it just is a nice, added bonus, should it happen that is.
As I like to say:
I'm like a western saloon door, I swing in both directions.
And I really don't care if it's called bisexual, pansexual or omnisexual. In my youth I was picky and gay-leaning, but nowadays I only care about a good, fitting personality, all the other, physical stuff can be made to work out in the end. As long as I like the "soul", I won't reject the body, no matter what shape and with whatever appendages it comes equipped with. The only exceptions would be non-consentual individuals of course. I'm only interested in whatever can give consent or shows a genuine interest in getting frisky.
EDIT: To make it clear, the last sentence only concerns sexual interest. I don't refuse relations to people who have no sexual interest whatsoever, that's fine as well. To me, sex is not a selling point, it just is a nice, added bonus, should it happen that is.
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Animallover
Citizen of Zooville
See I like the attitude that you have so much better than most people here.
Dawkinscock
Zooville Settler
I Am bi and love to hang out with others and br horny
CritterFunatic
Esteemed Citizen of ZV
It comes from getting tired to chase skirts, pants, tails, whatever you want to call it, without any lasting bonds. I figured eventually, that while I like frisky stuff just like the next guy, it just isn't that high on my list of priorities anymore. Nice if it happens, but I'm not forcing it, I can wait for it to happen, it can develop naturally over time. But I also had a bit of a perspective shift about all of this.
I guess two factors in particular shaped my perspective here (In order to not derail this thread too much, I'll spoiler the personal part here):
As the first factor one relationship in particular comes to mind...
One specific relationship I had with a guy who was horny 24/7. He also kept flirting up people behind my back, even online, where I noticed it. I figured, that my monogamous attitude might not match well with his polygamous livestyle, so I decided to set him free and break up with him. Because I figured that either I would get unhappy by having to accept his livestyle, or he might get trapped by having to accept my livestyle. I figured the only way for both of us to get happy was to just remain good friends and not to tie each other down. I wanted to do it after a furmeet we both attended together, letting him enjoy this meet and telling him of my thoughts afterwards. Unfortunately a third party we met up with, who was our driver to the furmeet ahead of us, got involved directly before said meet, learned of my plans and basically blackmailed me to either break up right away to his benefit, or he would do it for me. So I did it before I even had any ideas on how to do it properly. It ended as suspected, with tears on both sides and with my ex starting to smoke again, despite having quit for health reasons a while before (which is something I still burden myself to this day). The third party swooped in, offered consolation and comfort, among (only towards my ex), among other things (free sex), so they got over it quickly. The next morning I woke up to both of them, standing hand-in-hand in front of me, awaiting my blessing for their new relationship (on trial). Confused and still half asleep I gave them my blessing and they were gone as silently as they had appeared. This action also kinda ruined my plans on wanting to maintain a friendship towards my ex, but more on that later.
When I realized what happened, I instantly knew they wouldn't be a good fit together and I admit, I was gloating over the fact that they were a pretty bad match for each other. Eventually they broke up again and I secretly was quite happy about that.
I never even put any blame on my ex, since I knew his nature. I put blame on the other party. My ex always tried hard to repair the friendship towards me, but he reminded me so much of the third party, that I never truely felt like letting him come closer to me again, because I didn't want to be reminded on how this whole relationship debacle went. And while I never blamed him for his nature, I would have forgiven him anyway after learning some details. Due to testicular torsion in his case, one testicle needed to get amputated, after which his libido fell to a more "natural" level and also his attitude to flirt up strangers totally halted and vanished entirely. I realized that his whole sexual behavior before was probably being influenced by his physical state alone (he had quite a lot of medical troubles at that time), and that if had known about this, I would have never pushed him away and would have learned to live with it.
Now I felt ready to let him become part of my life again, but unfortunately he died some time later (cancer is a bitch).
I realized at this point, that most of our relationships and sexual preferences are way too possessive and limiting to find true happiness. So my lesson was, that while I personally would be a monogamous partner, I shouldn't expect this out of my better half whoever this might be in the future. I would just be me and accept them for who and what they would be, otherwise I might get robbed of the opportunity to meet someone sweet and nice due to some old fashioned ideals that I figured got less important for me the older I got.
The second factor was that I entertained a friendship with benefits with a good friend for a while, before he moved countries and I was quite content with the openness of it all. He wasn't tied down by me and neither was I tied down by him. This made me more tolerant of the concept of open relationships and while I still might default to old fashioned monogamy in a relationship, I wouldn't expect the same out of any partner anymore.
I think that most of us (as in "us humans") are a bit too bogged down in our attitudes towards sexuality, either due to religious beliefs or due to societal peer pressure to become the "perfect" nuclear family. But the thing is, perfection is an unattainable ideal and might as well not exist at all, while many people struggle with their discoveries about themselves. Nothing is more painful to see from a distance than someone who is in heavy denial about who they are and what they want out of life. They could be so much more happy by simply be whoever they want or feel they are. Instead some guys think that they have to defend their masculinity by calling tears "liquid pride" or some people keep using that annoying "no homo" meme, even in situations where nobody would suggest anything even distantly homoerotical related to be going on. People who have a hard time to accept who they are and what they are (as in what sexual orientation they have) waste (part of) their lifes trying to justify to themselves as well as the outside world what they are truely are all about, out of fear of not being accepted or of being too different.
And I get it.
There are many intolerant people out there. Even here on the forum (if discussions in the dumpster fire subforum are any indication). People are too preoccupied with a "us vs. them" mentality trying to defend their position in the "culture war" and trying to figure out if some other person is friend or foe due to their opinion, that they all miss the things in life that truely matter. And sometimes that is not to be too judgemental of others and to live and let live, which also includes sexual orientations.
That's for example, why I don't care much about lables like "bisexual" or "pansexual". The former is the attraction towards both sexes, the latter is the lack of specific attraction based on any sex or gender. Sometimes I AM attracted towards a specific sex. Other times I don't. What does it truely matter? It matters little to me, as I could still be sexually active with one sex, while being currently heavily attracted to the other sex. My sexual performance towards the hypothetical partner would not change due to that, and why would it? Therefore, why would it matter at all?
One specific relationship I had with a guy who was horny 24/7. He also kept flirting up people behind my back, even online, where I noticed it. I figured, that my monogamous attitude might not match well with his polygamous livestyle, so I decided to set him free and break up with him. Because I figured that either I would get unhappy by having to accept his livestyle, or he might get trapped by having to accept my livestyle. I figured the only way for both of us to get happy was to just remain good friends and not to tie each other down. I wanted to do it after a furmeet we both attended together, letting him enjoy this meet and telling him of my thoughts afterwards. Unfortunately a third party we met up with, who was our driver to the furmeet ahead of us, got involved directly before said meet, learned of my plans and basically blackmailed me to either break up right away to his benefit, or he would do it for me. So I did it before I even had any ideas on how to do it properly. It ended as suspected, with tears on both sides and with my ex starting to smoke again, despite having quit for health reasons a while before (which is something I still burden myself to this day). The third party swooped in, offered consolation and comfort, among (only towards my ex), among other things (free sex), so they got over it quickly. The next morning I woke up to both of them, standing hand-in-hand in front of me, awaiting my blessing for their new relationship (on trial). Confused and still half asleep I gave them my blessing and they were gone as silently as they had appeared. This action also kinda ruined my plans on wanting to maintain a friendship towards my ex, but more on that later.
When I realized what happened, I instantly knew they wouldn't be a good fit together and I admit, I was gloating over the fact that they were a pretty bad match for each other. Eventually they broke up again and I secretly was quite happy about that.
I never even put any blame on my ex, since I knew his nature. I put blame on the other party. My ex always tried hard to repair the friendship towards me, but he reminded me so much of the third party, that I never truely felt like letting him come closer to me again, because I didn't want to be reminded on how this whole relationship debacle went. And while I never blamed him for his nature, I would have forgiven him anyway after learning some details. Due to testicular torsion in his case, one testicle needed to get amputated, after which his libido fell to a more "natural" level and also his attitude to flirt up strangers totally halted and vanished entirely. I realized that his whole sexual behavior before was probably being influenced by his physical state alone (he had quite a lot of medical troubles at that time), and that if had known about this, I would have never pushed him away and would have learned to live with it.
Now I felt ready to let him become part of my life again, but unfortunately he died some time later (cancer is a bitch).
I realized at this point, that most of our relationships and sexual preferences are way too possessive and limiting to find true happiness. So my lesson was, that while I personally would be a monogamous partner, I shouldn't expect this out of my better half whoever this might be in the future. I would just be me and accept them for who and what they would be, otherwise I might get robbed of the opportunity to meet someone sweet and nice due to some old fashioned ideals that I figured got less important for me the older I got.
The second factor was that I entertained a friendship with benefits with a good friend for a while, before he moved countries and I was quite content with the openness of it all. He wasn't tied down by me and neither was I tied down by him. This made me more tolerant of the concept of open relationships and while I still might default to old fashioned monogamy in a relationship, I wouldn't expect the same out of any partner anymore.
I think that most of us (as in "us humans") are a bit too bogged down in our attitudes towards sexuality, either due to religious beliefs or due to societal peer pressure to become the "perfect" nuclear family. But the thing is, perfection is an unattainable ideal and might as well not exist at all, while many people struggle with their discoveries about themselves. Nothing is more painful to see from a distance than someone who is in heavy denial about who they are and what they want out of life. They could be so much more happy by simply be whoever they want or feel they are. Instead some guys think that they have to defend their masculinity by calling tears "liquid pride" or some people keep using that annoying "no homo" meme, even in situations where nobody would suggest anything even distantly homoerotical related to be going on. People who have a hard time to accept who they are and what they are (as in what sexual orientation they have) waste (part of) their lifes trying to justify to themselves as well as the outside world what they are truely are all about, out of fear of not being accepted or of being too different.
And I get it.
There are many intolerant people out there. Even here on the forum (if discussions in the dumpster fire subforum are any indication). People are too preoccupied with a "us vs. them" mentality trying to defend their position in the "culture war" and trying to figure out if some other person is friend or foe due to their opinion, that they all miss the things in life that truely matter. And sometimes that is not to be too judgemental of others and to live and let live, which also includes sexual orientations.
That's for example, why I don't care much about lables like "bisexual" or "pansexual". The former is the attraction towards both sexes, the latter is the lack of specific attraction based on any sex or gender. Sometimes I AM attracted towards a specific sex. Other times I don't. What does it truely matter? It matters little to me, as I could still be sexually active with one sex, while being currently heavily attracted to the other sex. My sexual performance towards the hypothetical partner would not change due to that, and why would it? Therefore, why would it matter at all?
TL;DR: That's basically why I'm truely not that picky when it comes to iRL partners anymore. I still might be picky, when it comes to porn or erotica, depending on my mood, but when it comes to physical beings it's the personality that matters most for me. Anything else will be fine just the way it is, no matter if I have currently strong preferences for one thing or the other.
Animallover
Citizen of Zooville
I have found and most people let they try to change the person they're with to the person they want and most the time that is just asking for problems.
Ask me I really don't care if a person is male female what they look like. honestly what matter is on the inside and how they care for people and animals.
But also I no longer have time to try to find a mate because I have animals that have to take care of and work a full-time job and most people don't understand that.
So I will wish you luck on your endeavors and I hope that you actually end up with somebody that you could be happy with for the rest of your life.
CritterFunatic
Esteemed Citizen of ZV
Indeed. Little things can be changed. Habits for example. Also people and their personalities involuntarily rub off onto other people, that happens. But big things, like passions or lifestyles? Unlikely to happen. And trying to force it will only end in tears, frustration and broken hearts.
Agreed. Same here.
Having (unfortunately) not enough time has at least a single advantage. It helps getting the priorities straight: Knowing what you want and knowing what you don't really care for, which is also something important to know.
Thanks. I wish the same to you as well.
anycockinme
Tourist
I'm a bottom Bi??? Only like fucking women but LOVE being fucked by guys...and dogs.
passingby182
Tourist
This is an interesting one, and makes sense that the majority does identify as Bi-sexual.
persianbsx
Tourist
I'm bsx
TabooTitan
Tourist
Meeeee
Little Miss Humpee
Citizen of Zooville
My mind doesn't think in genders or races, the only factor is if I'm attracted or not.
I can be attracted by many different things. Looks, wits, humor, style etc.
I can be attracted by many different things. Looks, wits, humor, style etc.
MiloAndres
Tourist
I have had experiences with women and men
