How did you come to terms with who you are?

Although I have problems with depression, and have done for a long time, I have never had a problem accepting my self. I have never had a problem accepting I am a zoo, although, at first I did have the guilts for a few weeks until I realised there was nothing to be guilty for.

I would stress if you do feel guilty and find it insurmountable, or it is depressing you in any way, get help.
 
Life is short, and I live it the way I choose. As long as I’m not hurting anyone, what I do is really no one else’s business. For me, there’s no “coming to terms.”
 
Even when I was a child, we had many dogs and I was very curious when they mated. Later, I felt and tasted their genitals. I was still a child then and I didn't know that it was "sin, bad."
Later, I became interested in dogs not only out of curiosity, but also sexually, for the purpose of masturbation. I already knew then that it was a bad thing and shouldn't be done, but I really enjoyed it and did it. Later, when I was a teenager, I noticed that I have boy and girl friends, but I don't feel love or sex for any of them. In fact, girls are repulsive, just like boys. It was then that I realized that I am exclusive. I was about 14 years old. Then everything happened by itself, while I was at school I lived with the family dogs, then I started working and bought my own dog, and since then my whole life has consisted of this. I have a complete pack, because I realized that I resemble dogs not only sexually, but also in my lifestyle, I am either a dog or a wolf.

Anyway, I didn't struggle much, at the beginning it was a bit strange that it wasn't normal, but I didn't worry about it. I have accepted that I am like this and I really like it, and I am very happy about it. Since then, I'm over 30, I have other experiences in life, which also showed that I made the right decision with the exclusive zoo life, it's for me.
 
I never had trouble accepting bestiality and im not just saying that. I have trouble accepting peoples views on bestiality for some reasons. I struggle with ptsd since you know, the way people are about this.
 
How did I come to terms with my sexuality? Simple. It's the only sexuality I have or ever will have. When a dog mounts you of their own free will or a female dog flags at you, literally asking for sex with her body language and even humps back on you during sex, the taboo nature of how society views it tends to matter alot less than the fact that you both enjoy doing it 🤷
 
Honestly, with muh support from loved ones surrounding me, and finally an acceptance and pride of me being me
 
I've always been kinky and loved pretty much every kind of sex and it was cool to find a lady to marry who is too. Huge bonus that her family is pretty kinky.
 
I really didn't have to accept anything. I am what I am and therefore I dont know of any other way.
Others might have an issue with it but what I do in the privacy of my own home is none of their business anyways.
 
rocky_dp said:
I really didn't have to accept anything. I am what I am and therefore I dont know of any other way.
Others might have an issue with it but what I do in the privacy of my own home is none of their business anyways.
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This, I've realized over the years that damn near everyone is faking the front and are so self-conscious about the littlest minor shit that they will clinge to anything that makes them feel normal or have a bit of power over their lives.
 
Furfriend said:
This, I've realized over the years that damn near everyone is faking the front and are so self-conscious about the littlest minor shit that they will clinge to anything that makes them feel normal or have a bit of power over their lives.
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Exactly. In general people have a need to be accepted and looked upon as if they don't partake in ANYTHING that anyone else would view as strange. I just never understood that.
 
I’m more accepting as I’ve grown older, but I feel bad I have no one to share with.
 
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I’m 50/50 because before watching videos of woman and dog having sex it feels good to watch but afterwards I feel guilt, that’s why I joined here to talk to people about it and to be honest I’m starting to feel good about it cuz there’s quite a lot of people that like this type of stuff males and females which I was surprised there’s quite of few of them out there
 
Honestly, I didn't have much problems with it until the internet taught me to hate myself. I wish I'd found the zoo community first and not the furries. Thanks to the help of a therapist I had a breakthrough with it, even if she never learned exactly what she helped me with. I know my love will go to a canine someday, and despite my best efforts I can't find a single thing wrong with that. I do still struggle with the anxiety of having to hide this side of myself from my loved ones and the world at large though. It can be crushing at times.
 
Honestly LSD mate , I've always done my own thing. I started smoking pot and sneaking out in my teens, I never tried to conform to whatever definition of normal could be. I got my hands dirty, I made mistakes. I came to terms with it one night while I was tripping. I stopped being ashamed and embraced that part of myself.

Infact I came to terms with being a zoo before coming out as gay. I'm happy with the choices I've made In life.

Word👍
 
Well there was no terms to come to if always had sexual thought for dogs after watching dog mateing infrount of me and been dog crazy from that day also like the way there all different and have different personalitys and away find that dogs have more emotional connections to me
 
What is there to come to terms with.
That some folks think EEEEEWWWW
some think we are abusers
God said No

If neither is forced, we both love it and want to do it again .... what is so wrong with it?
 
When I was much younger I struggled with it..even thought I was practically the only one in the world doing it for many years .then I chatted with someone online when the internet became more common..on a site called Person.com and ended up chatting to many many more and the more I chatted the more I came to terms with myself and now I'm very comfortable with who/what I am..I'm happy and content with just k9..they just won't do them damn lawns or put bins out..😒🙂
 
I know what you mean. I struggled at first. I thought I was a bad person. My dog would always try and come and lick me whenever I would masturbate and being only 16 at the time I thought that was wrong. Then one day laying in my bed I let him come and join me and that was the best decision I ever made. He gave me more pleasure every moment of it. When I would get home from school to go to my room he knew what time it was and would start pacing at my feet and follow me to my room it was the happiest he would be all day. And we would do our thing. He loved every minute of it and so would I. Once I finally accepted him it was such a freeing moment. Mind you I was already watching zoo porn at this time but didn't actually engage in it. But once I did wow is all I can say. Now that I'm 33 I don't have trouble with accepting who I am we are all animals and we all enjoy pleasure there is nothing wrong with that. Be who you were born to be. Fuck what being "Normal" is supposed to be and live your life.
 
I lost my zoo virginity first and shortly after temporarily had a gf. She loved having sex but it just didn't satisfy me. Also I sometimes like to eat zoo pussy for fun. I couldn't go down on her because her pussy smelled too bad. Maybe if she would have joined in because I was still being a zoo when she wasn't around.
 
I'm French and after months of hesitation I decided to talk about it with my psychologist (he's German) and he simply told me that I had to accept myself as I am and that I don't do harm to anyone on the contrary I do good to the dog and to me he also told me that I had the right to have romantic and sexual feelings towards my dog from the moment I do not hurt him
 
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