How did you come to terms with who you are?

phi9 said:
Did anyone of you struggle to accept their beastiality side?
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Many of us have, it's hard not to with the image projected by society is as negative as it is.
For years I struggled thinking that when I found the right person all these other feelings I had for non-humans would go away; surprise, they did not.
I have been an active zoo exclusive for over 2 decades and I'm happier in these relationships than I was trying to shoehorn myself into more typical ones with other humans.

If nobody is harmed or coerced and the goal is for everyone to have a good time, I don't see anything wrong with it.
 
For me I struggled with guilt and the taboo aspect from when I started until I got older and that 1st companionship ended. Then I buried it for about 20 years, eliminated that part of me.

Now I am older, wiser (sort of) and much more comfortable with myself. I was able to have a natural relationship with my companion without guilt and other negative feelings. It has been quite liberating
 
My journey has been full of inner conflict, interestingly enough I came to terms with my love of animals before coming to terms with the rest of my gender/sexual identity. I think it's because my animal partners were so much more accepting than the humans around me, in fact you could say they helped my journey by an unimaginable degree.
 
I struggled some, but ultimately knowing that I'm not alone and that people have been zoophiles for years helped to give me space to embrace this part of me. Being honest with myself was the first step to embracing myself
 
LuvelyLeda said:
There's a therapist that specializes in zoosexual people named Hani Miletski, and I've listened to her describe how some people come to see her cause they need help dealing with the shame they have from their desires. It's just sad hearing about what some people go through because of it.
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She's been a treasure to the community for a long time.
For anyone interested in such assistance, Ms Miletski tends to recommend AASECT certified therapists.
There's an interview with her on the Zooier Than Thou podcast titled Get Help! for anyone interested in a bit more.
 
I struggled with my feelings towards animals since puberty & remained in denial. For a long time I forced myself into human relationships in the belief that I just hadn't found the right person. Eventually I came to accept myself though & I now consider myself zoo exclusive!
 
I feel somewhat bad but in some respects it feels good like this taboo has some power to it when you grab it by the horns, if that makes sense?. For years since I was a child I've had this attraction and never knew what to do about especially because I'm a black American and that kinda shit isn't tolerated at all let alone spoken about with any form of seriousness. This has been a true personal demon of mine and sometimes I feel like my "normal" human life and personal goals and my sexual/romantic life are two entirely different beasts instead of being in all in one. I'm becoming more confident and honest with myself when I comes to my relationship with the animals and the world at large because I truly want to be a recluse that is forgotten about and can finally live the slow paced life I've always wanted with my companions.
 
I've still not accepted myself and I can't allow myself to go near a dog yet. However it feels like a magnet is leading me to them at all times and I don't know how much longer I can hold back.
 
When i was a teen, i REALLY struggled with my interest in zoo and being Bi. It was really hard for me to understand why i was interested in the things i was. but i came across another forum and sites, i just had to remind myself that if there wasn't a lot of people interested in the somethings, these sites wouldn't be here. that was kind of what made it so i could accept myself.
 
Yep, I struggled for many years, but I've accepted that part of me, in the end. You can accept or deny that, but that won't change who you are. And hiding it makes only you more unhappy and unsatisfied of your life...
 
egoldstein said:
Many of us have, it's hard not to with the image projected by society is as negative as it is.
For years I struggled thinking that when I found the right person all these other feelings I had for non-humans would go away; surprise, they did not.
I have been an active zoo exclusive for over 2 decades and I'm happier in these relationships than I was trying to shoehorn myself into more typical ones with other humans.

If nobody is harmed or coerced and the goal is for everyone to have a good time, I don't see anything wrong with it.
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Pretty much exactly my experience. I tried relationships with human men and it never really lived up to how comfortable and "at home" I felt with a dog partner.

And I agree, consent is key. If everyone wants to be there and is enjoying it, I don't worry too much about it anymore.
 
I struggled to begin with, years I tried to push the feelings down. Eventually however I learnt that it’s part of me and it’s what I like, so why should I feel bad about what I like.

I like dogs and that’s that really 😊

xx
 
I feel Until I can find a lady I can share my interests with, I will have thoughts in my mind whether things are normal for me.
 
I lost myself as a sub in a very intense relationship in college and slowly re found who I am over the last 10'years or so of being out if that situation with my boars helping me for about tge last 3. Always had inclinations and read tons of stories looked at hentai ect over the years, but at this point I am at peace with whom I am at this point in my life. Still experimenting and still kinda sub as well but not in any human relationship. I can go days without talking to anyone and that feels good to me. Obviously I still have anxieties and doubts but try to be positive.
 
farmergalwi said:
I lost myself as a sub in a very intense relationship in college and slowly re found who I am over the last 10'years or so of being out if that situation with my boars helping me for about tge last 3. Always had inclinations and read tons of stories looked at hentai ect over the years, but at this point I am at peace with whom I am at this point in my life. Still experimenting and still kinda sub as well but not in any human relationship. I can go days without talking to anyone and that feels good to me. Obviously I still have anxieties and doubts but try to be positive.
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I envy you that you can live your life in the peace and tranquility you do, and if you wish human company you could.
 
Kind of. I struggled with porn in general when I was younger. But then I stumbled upon beastiality and upon meeting the community everyone was so welcoming and open minded I just decided to accept it.
 
Younger in my puberty years, I was pretty okay with myself when I started. I do understand those who may not be though.
 
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