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Have you told anyone about being into zoophlia?

I'm single gay and don't really have anyone to tell tbh.. I'd love a partner into it someday but other than that I can't even think of anyone I'd wanna tell outside of it. I do know that I'd like to move to a more busy place for better chances at making some irl connections! I thought this place would help with that tho so who knows!
 
EastTn3110 said:
I have told one man that I met online and later in real life. We are still in touch. I talk anonymously in chat sometimes as if it’s fantasy. It’s hard to open up about.
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I feel your pain. Unfortunately one just can’t bring up in casual conversation regarding our passion and desire for inter species sexual relationships.
 
Met a few people on grindr and fabswingers who after getting to know them a bit, but never sharing a real name was able to tell them, and they have either had experince too or really want to try. A couple of times it has resulted in them introducing their pet and having an experience.
Paw print tatoos are often a tell.
 
uk zoo said:
Met a few people on grindr and fabswingers who after getting to know them a bit, but never sharing a real name was able to tell them, and they have either had experince too or really want to try. A couple of times it has resulted in them introducing their pet and having an experience.
Paw print tatoos are often a tell.
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Honestly informative ty!
 
sophiaraj11 said:
It is easy for man to say but for us very risky to express and morever few people will be there to accept the same.
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I agree with Pentalish though, it turns out to be a huge turn on if you can share kinks and the level of trust as well. Yes, it's dangerous. Someone may not be accepting and it could ruin a relationship buuuut i'd rather take that chance instead of living repressed and hiding a part of the things i like.

Obviously, it's not a need, but it's fun to be able to share and talk about things. I constantly reassure her and listen to her.

For example last night, she suggestively joked about riding a horse in a game we play together. This led to me asking her if she ever thought about sex with animals. She admitted that she thought about it in passing but never really consciously. I didnt press the issue further and i'm giving her time to get comfortable to think and talk about it. I hope that she will introduce some of it into the bedroom.

That said a bad dragon tentacle toy arrived that day. She enjoyed the fuck out of it last night. I told her we're getting a horse one next.
 
Zookeff said:
I agree with Pentalish though, it turns out to be a huge turn on if you can share kinks and the level of trust as well. Yes, it's dangerous. Someone may not be accepting and it could ruin a relationship buuuut i'd rather take that chance instead of living repressed and hiding a part of the things i like.

Obviously, it's not a need, but it's fun to be able to share and talk about things. I constantly reassure her and listen to her.

For example last night, she suggestively joked about riding a horse in a game we play together. This led to me asking her if she ever thought about sex with animals. She admitted that she thought about it in passing but never really consciously. I didnt press the issue further and i'm giving her time to get comfortable to think and talk about it. I hope that she will introduce some of it into the bedroom.

That said a bad dragon tentacle toy arrived that day. She enjoyed the fuck out of it last night. I told her we're getting a horse one next.
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Your woman is lucky to get you as good wiseable boyfriend.
 
Pentalish said:
Same here. I told her and then she got a bit interested.
Even if nothing else comes from this, it's nice to have it not a be a secret between us.
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Met a fur pup that I'm getting along with super well and if we become close friends I'm hoping It goes this way lol
 
sophiaraj11 said:
It is easy for man to say but for us very risky to express and morever few people will be there to accept the same.
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Its not easier from any perspective. It's tricky, risky for any of us. A lot of feeling involved and plenty to lose...
There is also no one way to tell if it will be okay. In my case, the trust was there. I known my gf for quite some time, and at that moment, I was like, "oke, here we go (fingers crossed)."

Al in al I wish you a good experience with all your choices and hope more good things come of it.
 
Pentalish said:
Its not easier from any perspective. It's tricky, risky for any of us. A lot of feeling involved and plenty to lose...
There is also no one way to tell if it will be okay. In my case, the trust was there. I known my gf for quite some time, and at that moment, I was like, "oke, here we go (fingers crossed)."

Al in al I wish you a good experience with all your choices and hope more good things come of it.
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Thanks for concern. Iam happy withthis decision. He take care much better than my ex husband.
 
I told my partner when we got together. We're married happily and while they aren't as into it as I am, they participate now and then.

Also told a cousin, and they were completely supportive.
 
kinkygirl77 said:
(first post sorry if i did something wrong)
Have you told anyone about your lifestyle? If so, how did it go and how did it change your relationship?
For me, this is a secret i’m taking to the grave
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Told my wife and happily divorced. .. looking for a Zoo Gal to share a life with me. ..
 
Not at all - would love for someone to be able to confide in about this aspect of myself, but way too wary of things going south
 
kinkygirl77 said:
(first post sorry if i did something wrong)
Have you told anyone about your lifestyle? If so, how did it go and how did it change your relationship?
For me, this is a secret i’m taking to the gra
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I've told five people. Two were fellow zoos, one was really considering it, one is crazy, and the last one is a person I'm very close with and understand the complexities of the universe. They simply wish to not really know about it.
 
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