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Has anyone ever met up with other zoos on this site?

K9Kpl said:
I recall the general vibe at BF being "never meet anyone for your own safety". Which always bummed me out, as it sounded like everyone must be suspicious.

We're curious how you go about building the trust to meet people
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It’s the safe way to be, it’s unfortunate but I try to be as reserved as possible. While I would love to build a close group of friends who share this Interest, the reality of it is very hard in practice at least in my experience.
 
jhooty said:
It’s the safe way to be, it’s unfortunate but I try to be as reserved as possible. While I would love to build a close group of friends who share this Interest, the reality of it is very hard in practice at least in my experience.
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Yes. Very. And the key point there is build. Seems like the younger crowd here is largely of the mind that this is all going to work out like a munch or something. No way that happens. You'll have to build any circle slowly over time, and one link at a time, and even that will be a strong challenge.
 
Dogdaddy69 said:
Yes. Very. And the key point there is build. Seems like the younger crowd here is largely of the mind that this is all going to work out like a munch or something. No way that happens. You'll have to build any circle slowly over time, and one link at a time, and even that will be a strong challenge.
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Yeah true some are build over time but there have been a few lightning in a bottle scenarios where iv made freinds by just jumping right in the deep end

So you just never know till you try ^^ though the slow and steady is the most commen
 
Made a few friends and found my partner here. Pretty unexpected to meet anyone on a porn site, rare but it happens.
 
Doggyluv said:
Made a few friends and found my partner here. Pretty unexpected to meet anyone on a porn site, rare but it happens.
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X3 yeah rare indeed but it be fun if it became more commen place among a fun story to tell your kids if you have them "mom dad how did you two meet" *plays the pornhub theme song* xD
 
melbourne_stallion said:
Yeah true some are build over time but there have been a few lightning in a bottle scenarios where iv made freinds by just jumping right in the deep end

So you just never know till you try ^^ though the slow and steady is the most commen
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Absolutely true. Lightning happens, it's just very rare. I have a post on here somewhere from a knotting that happened 3 days after meeting here, and the knotting was decided on within hours, the 3 days was all scheduling to get to the knotting.

I can happen fast, and soetimes does, that's just very very unlikely and pretty rare.
 
Dogdaddy69 said:
Absolutely true. Lightning happens, it's just very rare. I have a post on here somewhere from a knotting that happened 3 days after meeting here, and the knotting was decided on within hours, the 3 days was all scheduling to get to the knotting.

I can happen fast, and soetimes does, that's just very very unlikely and pretty rare.
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Agreed but its nice when you can snag that lighting in a bottle ^^
 
I've met two, but don't think the other friend was on here. Not much of a chatter either, so meeting could be extremely rare. Plus working all the time, so not much to do for social stuff.
 
The way me and my friends met new ppl was a group of us would chat a person. We'd share those bits of information with the group to see if the persons story was the same with everyone.
If the person had met someone else we would talk to them and get details that way.
The next step was one of us would met the person in a public place and report the outcome back to our group.
3 or 4 time a year we would have group meets and the 3 of us ( lead organizers) would look over our trusted friend list 52 ppl were trusted and send out invites, naming everyone invited so if there was issues we would limit the meet to everyone that was chill and safe for the group meet. NO pix, NO online forum posting about the meet prior to the meet and the location was given to approved ppl the week prior to the meet. At that time the majority of members were within 100 mile of the location. Average was 10 to 15 ppl at the group meets and once we had 21. That was ppl from the entire state and 3 from a neighboring state.
 
Sup. Oh there were no surprise guests allowed and if someone got out of hand they were told to leave and weren't invited to future group meets. These weren't sex parties !! We ate, drank, chatted face to face and shot pool in a big, clean location. Anything that happened after was up to those individuals.. TIP, don't do them near holidays because most ppl have other plans. Feb, June to Aug and Oct seemed to work out for most ppl.
 
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Ilikealotm said:
Sup. Oh there were no surprise guests allowed and if someone got out of hand they were told to leave and weren't invited to future group meets. These weren't sex parties !! We ate, drank, chatted face to face and shot pool in a big, clean location. Anything that happened after was up to those individuals.. TIP, don't do them near holidays because most ppl have other plans. Feb, June to Aug and Oct seemed to work out for most ppl.
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I think I lost at pool. But the beer was cold and the laughs were fun and good to meet some of the people I was chatting with back then and sometimes still do. :)
 
Ilikealotm said:
The way me and my friends met new ppl was a group of us would chat a person. We'd share those bits of information with the group to see if the persons story was the same with everyone.
If the person had met someone else we would talk to them and get details that way.
The next step was one of us would met the person in a public place and report the outcome back to our group.
3 or 4 time a year we would have group meets and the 3 of us ( lead organizers) would look over our trusted friend list 52 ppl were trusted and send out invites, naming everyone invited so if there was issues we would limit the meet to everyone that was chill and safe for the group meet. NO pix, NO online forum posting about the meet prior to the meet and the location was given to approved ppl the week prior to the meet. At that time the majority of members were within 100 mile of the location. Average was 10 to 15 ppl at the group meets and once we had 21. That was ppl from the entire state and 3 from a neighboring state.
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Dam thats a cool but logical way to go about things OwO now if only i could get my freinds off there asses even hapf the time xD
 
Just meeting ppl is pretty chill. It's the topic that's the issue. Do it causal, you both know each other is pet friendly/ likeminded already. We wanted likeminded friends and didn't make it all about sex. I'll try to do this KISS.
I met a lady, shared and became roommates. Had talk to another girl owner and we met and she gave me a second exp.k9 she couldn't keep. She had a few friends we all met. Then I got a backup roommate, German k9 guy and he had a friend German k9 guy, my female roommate knew a owner and another k9 guy....... we all got closer and the trusted friends grew at a nice and safe rate.That was two years of the 13 years being actively sharing and making friends.
 
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