lilabit
Tourist
I'm wondering how many people on here are maybe in a relationship with someone, yet cheats for whatever reason, or what your thoughts on unfaithfulness are.
Personally, I am in a relationship, and am unfaithful. I still chat with an old f*ck buddy, though we no longer meet since he moved away. My f*ck buddy is actually why I'm exploring zoo, which I definitely could not do with my current partner. My partner, lovely as he is, is simply a scoop of vanilla ice cream. A fine, reliable flavor indeed, but I need some excitement here and there that can only be found elsewhere.
I suppose maybe I'm looking for some solidarity in this. Whether you feel that it's wrong, or maybe it's a fetish for you to cheat, I wanna know your thoughts.
For everyone else, please do not come in with bashful comments. I personally understand the harm and damage that can come with cheating in a relationship. If I'm being honest, it's likely a defence mechanism for me now since it happened to me. I am not proud of it, nor myself. But I want to have an open, safe discussion about this and why we do it.
Thanks for reading my big block of text. Hope to hear some interesting takes.
Personally, I am in a relationship, and am unfaithful. I still chat with an old f*ck buddy, though we no longer meet since he moved away. My f*ck buddy is actually why I'm exploring zoo, which I definitely could not do with my current partner. My partner, lovely as he is, is simply a scoop of vanilla ice cream. A fine, reliable flavor indeed, but I need some excitement here and there that can only be found elsewhere.
I suppose maybe I'm looking for some solidarity in this. Whether you feel that it's wrong, or maybe it's a fetish for you to cheat, I wanna know your thoughts.
For everyone else, please do not come in with bashful comments. I personally understand the harm and damage that can come with cheating in a relationship. If I'm being honest, it's likely a defence mechanism for me now since it happened to me. I am not proud of it, nor myself. But I want to have an open, safe discussion about this and why we do it.
Thanks for reading my big block of text. Hope to hear some interesting takes.