Clearly not. The “(to me)” section you quoted from me is a clear indicator that it is my opinion. My further opinion is people are free to do whatever they want as long as it isn’t hurting anyone else.
I hope you saw the start of my post begin with a respectful "I feel you" and a VERY clear "everyone's entitled to their opinions" statement from me. Not that you need my validation, but I was offering no rebuke, no argument, and nothing but respect for you and your position.
But then you went on to state that you feel it's a form of infantilization of women. I think this is what I backed up and took notice of. Many practitioners of such DON'T think this, and might even take umbrage at your characterization of such. Does it matter what you think vs what they think? Maybe. Maybe not. Again, everyone can hold their own opinion. The very nature of this board is that the vast majority of us hold an unpopular opinion, that many would judge - and punish - us for.
I've heard the pervasive "this is one step away from pedophilia" argument from people who feel VERY strongly about shaved genitals. Likewise, I've also heard people who simply say "I don't like it, and it's not for me." You seemed to do a little bit of both. S'okay. That's why we call them opinions. LIkewise, my replies are my opinion. Doesn't make them wrong or right, though we do reserve the right to hold them (even if those opinions ARE wrong or right, or perhaps - "popular" or "unpopular.")
As an example, someone I know once inappropriately referred to the 'doggie' position as "missionary" and was VEHEMENTLY opposed to such because "the missionaries didn't want to look at the faces of the indigenous women they were fucking!" I shook my head and explained what missionary was and why it was called that and she flat out refused to believe me. I think her opinion revealed more about her perspective and perhaps some biases that she held, but it still was... her opinion (to which she was entirely entitled).
The ideas and opinions we all hold amaze me sometimes. That we're from different walks of life, socioeconomic strata, even cultures and countries only reinforces that we'll have a variety. To quote you again, "people are free to do whatever they want as long as it isn’t hurting anyone else." On this we agree one million percent.
Be well, friend. I don't mean any judgement or criticism of you. Thanks for taking the time to read my posts and interact.