Anyone had a positive experience confessing bestiality to their partner?

Yes I hadn't experienced it since I was a teen and was now married. We got a dog together and I found myself very attracted to it.

It became a big thing for me so I confessed to him and explained everything. Thankfully he was amazing about it and let me explore with our boy. He still let's us continue, and it isn't for his pleasure as he's not really into watching as he doesn't like seeing it so I feel lucky to have him.
 
One week ago today, I finally got brave enough to start the conversation that allowed me to confess my life long zoo attraction. Very scary but the end result for me has been total acceptance, even a hint of excitement. I am glad I finally had this hard conversation, which could have gone down a very different and difficult path. I feel like a great weight has been lift from me. PS the sex since then has been amazing.
 
carlaquim27 said:
My sister is my partner, when she first caught me she was kinda freaked out but after some conversation she wanted to do it together.
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Wow, I’m surprised to see an incest couple on here. Good for yous :D

Can I ask what people in your position prefer to be called? Or do you simply like to be referred to as any other couple.
 
Qwazycupcakes said:
I wanna tell my boyfriend so bad but I'm scared he would judge me.
Any other girls out there that told their bf and if ended up okay?
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My bf and I are both furries and I hinted to him that I was into animals by telling him that I liked the Rex Bad Dragon dildo a little too much ;)

Vague enough to sound normal to your average person but specific enough to let another zoo know you’re in the same boat with them :p

He seems intrigued at first and asked what I meant, so I asked him the same thing. He said he thinks he has an idea and finds it hot. 💜
 
bij het vanzelf en het is een enorme druk dat er van je afvalt dus ik raad iedereen aan om open te zijn en praat er over. Erna is alles zoveel makkelijker
 
I swore I'd carry it my grave but I blurted it out one night. Just my signficant collection of Petlove porn. She processed the information and immediately pretended to forget. Or did forget.. It was pretty much the same when I told her I had had sex with one of my sisters when we were very young. She was a few years older than me but it was more like mutual exploration that led to her enjoying my penis inside of her than molestation. Pretty natural when you think about it. I have no hard feelings. And beyond that I life long fetish for natural redheads. (Oh yes she was.) But it doesn't even feature signficantly in my parrallel interest in incest. I'm probably more interested in that, but almost exclusively in a M/S. My pet kink in purely and 100% centered on the passion that the female participants display. Vixen/StrayX. They were my jam. I was a HUGE fan of Vix on the old, old AoZ forums. She was a stunningly beautiful person. Inside as out. But it's her passion for dog cock that it my passion for her. Maybe it's the ultimate cuck kink. I know that if I asked my wife would probably do anything I wanted. I'm not that kind of guy. If I see a single hint of pain or regret on a girl (or dogs) face, I'm out of the door and off the movie. Yeah, my wife accepts that I'm the very definition of the street-saint, closet- ultra-perv personality. We rarely have sex (too many reason to count) few of them her fault. But it is what it is. I am 100% monagamous to a woman I can't have sex with and has very little interent in sex in general, beyond desperately wanting to please me and having none of the intruments to do so. Truly she is a perfect 'unicorn'. Sadly, I've been with her since we we teenagers for several decades since. Her virtue is largely intact except for some wild and kinky explorations. She actually pretty crazy in bed so I think it might have been a good thing that the universe put a natural 'throttle' on potential. I suggested 'bukakke' to her just once. That might have been a mistake. It's now her #1 kink and it's one I more like the idea of theoretically, than I do reality. Nope. Hot. women having wild sex with there dogs, regardless of my approval or interest.? That's what really turns me on more than anything. There passion is my passion. Sorrry to dump all that at once! Wow. The last time I was this open and honest, it was with Vixen on the AoZ site. This is a very lonely fetish. I guess that singular feeling of shared isolation and secret-self, is the most real 'me' there is.
 
I did not get a positive reaction at all. I haven't participated, but I have a serious kink to the content. I told her about it when we were just dating. Horrible, but we got married. She recently left me. And told everyone. Plus I had some people in my friend group that were hackers and they hacked my devices and revealed my secrets on the low. But randomly I've caught her friends and my friends mentioning it in a nonchalant and vague way. I'm still dealing with it.
 
Alpha boy said:
I’ve been with my wife for 6 years and at the start we talked about having sex in the fields next to her house. Dog walkers use these fields to let their dogs off the leash and I slipped in a cheeky comment like “ yeah you straddled over me fucking me hard, and a dog comes along and sniffs you but and pussy and takes a big lick.” She knew I was a little weird then but about a year later it came up in conversation and I confessed. She didn’t like the idea but I kept dropping it in when ever we have sex and now she actively starts the dirty talk saying how she’d love to feel the knot, and saying “good boy, give me that big dog cock”.
A few months back she said she wanted a dog on Facebook and then I text her saying you know what will happen, she just text back saying she’s make my dreams come true and that she wants a dog to follow her around the house and to have it mount her whenever it wants to fuck.
I’m one lucky son of a gun 😁
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Greyfoxinheat said:
My bf and I are both furries and I hinted to him that I was into animals by telling him that I liked the Rex Bad Dragon dildo a little too much ;)

Vague enough to sound normal to your average person but specific enough to let another zoo know you’re in the same boat with them :p

He seems intrigued at first and asked what I meant, so I asked him the same thing. He said he thinks he has an idea and finds it hot. 💜
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great white buffalo
 
Bellicosearies93 said:
I did not get a positive reaction at all. I haven't participated, but I have a serious kink to the content. I told her about it when we were just dating. Horrible, but we got married. She recently left me. And told everyone. Plus I had some people in my friend group that were hackers and they hacked my devices and revealed my secrets on the low. But randomly I've caught her friends and my friends mentioning it in a nonchalant and vague way. I'm still dealing with it.
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fuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuucccckckkkkckckckckkc... this is like worse case scenario.. im so sorry your ex is a cunt. pardon my french.
 
Previous Gfs have been either indifferent or mildly interested.

Current one is really against it. She's amazing in literally every other regard. Cream of the Crop.

Just er...

Hearing "I wish you weren't into that..." from her kinda hurt...
 
It sucks but I can only keep moving through life. I expected to be busted out eventually since I wasn't too tech savvy. Not near as much as I am now.
 
My current partner and I share some various kinks, it’s one of the things that brought us together. About a year ago I came out to her as a partial zoosexual, and she‘s shared that she has zoo fantasies too. So it’s definitely a game of chance, in my perspective.
 
I told my wife before she was my wife. I'm a pretty straight shooting person who doesn't like to hide things especially in a relationship as important as husband/wife so once it became clear our relationship was getting serious enough to head in that direction we had a chat.

Having sex with animals had been such a massive part of my youth and it was something I always wanted to experience again. I had every intention of having my own dog when circumstances allowed and of course I had (and still have) many fantasies involving animals and my spouse. We are both very open minded kinky people so I didn't feel as though I was risking much.

Her reaction was very underwhelming. She didn't care I had sex with as many animals as I had and it didn't bother her that I still had a desire to have sex with bitches. Unfortuntely though she wasn't into it herself. I've shown her porn of men in female animals and male dogs on women but its not really moved her much. She's supportive of me and it doesn't bother her that I enjoy this but it just doesn't seem to do anything for her
 
Back on my younger days I was in a very dark place had a few to many and confessed to her true feeling about my past pets and what we had done to each other. By the time I woke next morning Over half the town knew about my past. Needless to say she was now my ex and I left quickly never to return
 
Yeah, he proceeded by knotting me! lol but fr I wish I could have that IRL with another girl but I love what I have too much to risk for potential misfortune.
 
I've never told anyone, and I have trouble picturing myself telling others without a very good reason to think they'd be okay with it. I did get 'caught' when I was in my early teens though, when my sister found out I'd read a few bestiality stories. She briefly mentioned something about it during an argument, but nothing else. Considering it's been close to 20 years at this point I'm not even sure if she'd remember.

I do know my parents are likely somewhat ambivalent about it, as the Netherlands adopted a law explicitly outlawing sex with animals, or being involved in any way with pornography of that type. (This includes simply owning/viewing bestiality porn). It was a whole thing in the news back then, and I remarked that it seemed odd to make a new law for it: in the past, it was prosecuted under animal cruelty. Surely that would suffice? They pretty much agreed, stating something along the lines of "Considering cows and horses take whole arms inside of them during some vet visits, I hardly think they're even going to notice some guys junk", but that anything hurting the animal should be illegal. This seems to be shared with their default view on sex, as they do know I am/have been active in the kink community, to which they just replied "well, if everyone's consenting and no-one gets unduly hurt, have fun".

As for all the people mentioning finding others on FetLife, I'm fairly surprised at that to be honest. I am (or rather was, pre-corona) somewhat active in the scene, and it was pretty (implicitly) verboten. The rationale being that the main creed of the scene was either SSC (Safe, Sane, Consensual) or RASC (Risk-aware, Sane, Consensual), with the argument that animals (much like children) are unable to properly consent. This is of course ignoring the fact that adult animals have an instinctive drive towards these acts and more, but I'm simply illustrating what the rationale from the scene was/is like.
 
I told me ex when we were together, but I waited about a year before I came clean. But I kept making the occasional hint and joke to judge his reaction and eventually when I told him he was more upset that I thought he'd look down on me, considering details about him meant he's not the judgemental type.

He was fully supportive and okay with it, and whilst he isn't a zoo he was there when I mated a mare for the first time. He's also mated a dog before and his main thoughts were "I get it, but this isn't my thing". He does occasionally ask me if I've ever told people or gotten up to any more fun since then, and we've spoken at length about things and he's completely on the side of knowing that zoophillia isn't wrong and peoples general perception of it is incorrect.

I think I'd say he's a special case, I doubt many people would be so casual and accepting like he is. But overall it was a fully positive experience
 
After hiding it for about 2 years and actively denying it for 3 more years , I did confess. But only because he is a furry too, sexually very open, i figured out he was member of a lot zoo-friendly porn chatgroups AND a friend of us both kept pushins us to send eachother more and more zooey porn/pictures/jokes.

So by the time I confessed, we actually pretty darn well know of eachother that we were both zoophiles.
Still, we are currently 5 years together so we spend quiet a few years in hide and denial.


So my partnee DID react positively. But only because he turned out to be a zoo himself
 
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