iwanttobeabottom
Esteemed Citizen of ZV
Bitches.
I need an honest opinion from y'all guys and if I do let me know what I can do about it and I'll try and fix it
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saddlebum66
Supreme Citizen of ZV
This knuck isnt just scaring the Ladies...I'm surprised he hasn't found work for Eloin's Space Case operations
Miss ZW
Esteemed Citizen of ZV
So after a quick dive into your last few dozen posts and looking at your profile, right off the bat, most women will look at those things and not engage. Your profile “About Me” section is very overwhelming and a bit hard to follow/read. There are many details there that don’t need shared. It should be a paragraph or two about you as a general person. Something someone can get a feel for if you would vibe well with or something that gives some very commonly asked info. As others have noted, the lack of proper grammar and punctuation is typically seen as low IQ or disinterest. It’s also overwhelming and feels like a firehouse of words.
You have to keep in mind, most women are bombarded with messages and people trying to connect with us all the time. So if we have 10 messages from different people, we may cut loose the handful where it’s difficult to read the message. Or the ones that feel a little overwhelming or too forthcoming. I know it’s not fair to be judged on terms that you are unaware of, but that is just life.
what's more commonly asked info from girls, females, women, ? particularly those that just don't want money
Miss ZW
Esteemed Citizen of ZV
Your About Me section can just start with general info; your age, general location, general interests, some interesting things about yourself that sets you apart from others. The second paragraph can be about what brings you here, what are you looking for, your level of experience, how you first got into this lifestyle. Things don’t have to be super detailed there. Just enough to give general ideas that can be further explained/asked about.
As far as women asking for money, I’d venture to say that most of them are just catfish. Dudes trying to make easy money off of other lovely guys. Any actual women that ask for money on here just aren’t worth your time/energy anyways. So they filter themselves out of the equation easy enough. Honestly though, in the year I’ve been on this site, I’ve been contacted by well over 100 people claiming to be women and only 1 or 2 have actually been women. So you’re most likely just talking to catfish.
it shouldn't have nothing to do about my status right?
my status as a non-driver is the worst 
I think a lot of people adopt sexist traits too often am not that way at all and all i wanna do is drown in it oraly all day, and caterception is a major one for me I'm terrified of ever having kids 
am just as afraid if not more
am just as afraid if not more
UR20Z
Dumpster Diver
No, your status as a non-thinking, 100% filter-free, spew-anything-that-comes-to-mind - regardless of how brain-dead, obnoxious, cringe, or just plain downright idiotic - doofus is the worst. The fact that you can't drive is just a mercy to anyone outside of walking distance from wherever you happen to be standing. It means they don't have to hear from you.my status as a non-driver is the worst
knotadeer14
Citizen of Zooville
@Miss ZW is genuinely(and foolhardedly) trying to help you and I encourage you to stop trolling and take her advice seriously if you actually care.I think a lot of people adopt sexist traits too often am not that way at all and all i wanna do is drown in it oraly all day, and caterception is a major one for me I'm terrified of ever having kids
If you can't even have the simplest of conversations publically in any comprehensible way, then that might be the answer for why people don't want to talk with you. I've seen poorly translated mods that run text through translators dozens of times that communicate better than you.
Bloit
Esteemed Citizen of ZV
He’s not.
He’s genuinely like… This.
knotadeer14
Citizen of Zooville
I know...but I like to live in a cloud of hopeful optimism. It helps me get through the day.
Miss ZW
Esteemed Citizen of ZV
I mean, if they are trolling, maybe someone passing through can take my advice. Obviously I’m just one person with my own likes/dislikes. I don’t exactly speak for every woman here, but as a member of the Poon Squad, I can at least give my genuine thoughts on things. I’ve seen so many guys struggle with just talking to women on here and I’m sure many are good people who just never had the chance to learn or are just too afraid to ask.
If this guy is actually curious, then just spouting negative comments at them and making them feel like shit doesn’t help anyone but the haters own bully ego. It not only hurts the person seeking help but everyone who comes across this and sees that asking for help is only met with hate and bullies. How can anyone grow or get better in an environment like that. This is supposed to be a community of like-minded individuals seeking belonging and connection in a world that hates us. Men get more than enough hate from women in the world. Why pile on as fellow men when you know how much it hurts.
Sorry for my rant. I just don’t get the mentality of joy in spreading hate.
Miss ZW
Esteemed Citizen of ZV
Your relation status can be in there. But status as far as not being able to drive or mental status or any of that doesn’t need to be in there. Those things can be discussed further into a conversation if they come up organically. Someone doesn’t need to know those things if you’re just seeking conversation.
UR20Z
Dumpster Diver
YOu
It shows in the fact that you profess to have even a drop of sympathy left for him. The rest of us ran out of that a good long while back.
Apparently haven't had much (if any - count your blessings) with this particular specimen.
It shows in the fact that you profess to have even a drop of sympathy left for him. The rest of us ran out of that a good long while back.
Miss ZW
Esteemed Citizen of ZV
I don’t know. Maybe that’s the case.
I’m only human. I haven’t seen much from them aside from the few dozen posts and their profile. I just know what it’s like to get bullied and be different. I’m sure I deserved some of the bullying by being purposely different but still. I just think it’s still better to not say anything if you don’t have anything nice to say. If not purely for the fact that it creates a toxic environment that scares off genuine people.
UR20Z
Dumpster Diver
"If you can't say something nice, don't say anything at all" is the outlook that has brought us (by which, I mean the entire USA, and a big hunk of the so-called "civilized world") into the nightmare of wokeness and tolerance for insanity that we've currently got.I don’t know. Maybe that’s the case.
It used to be summed up rather nicely in a line from an old, old newsgroup - "Encourage quality, berate shit".
Put in a bit longer form, "Slap the shit out of that which is bad, encourage that which is good".
It's a variation on the concept from "The Emperor's new clothes" - You're not doing anybody any favors by pretending that he's the finest-dressed in the land when anybody with even a single working eyeball can see that he's running around bare-assed with his whang swinging in the breeze.
Miss ZW
Esteemed Citizen of ZV
I’m not looking to get into a political argument.
I’m just putting some general advice out there. I’m not sure how someone trying to be nice or considerate on the internet is such an issue. But alrighty. Agree to disagree.
knotadeer14
Citizen of Zooville
I'm sorry if you interpreted any joy in my words. That was not at all what I was attempting to convey. I take no joy in needing to offer the words that people sometimes need to hear, but that doesn't mean they don't need to hear them. Not every situation is best suited for kindness.
I like you, but I've seen enough of your comments to know that you have a tendency to interpret what people say very literally and without considering subtext. With that in mind, please consider this: you are speaking with and attempting to help someone who likely has a traumatic brain injury. I don't mean that in a disparaging way in the slightest. It is just a simple acknowledgement that they genuinely have been in some sort of accident and don't have the ability to communicate as a normal human would.
Placing them in the same category of person who has trouble talking to women because they are incapable of treating them as a person and using that as justification for continuing to engage with someone who cannot form a coherent sentence is naive and does both of them a disservice.
I know this sounds harsh and I truly don't mean to sound like I'm attacking you, but I really don't feel that you're seeing this situation for what it is.
Edit: After looking a bit further through their posts and profile I'm changing my TBI assertion to schizophrenia with serious drug dependency issues.
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Miss ZW
Esteemed Citizen of ZV
I don’t know. Maybe I am seeing it the wrong way. I myself am not great with socializing or reading people. But I can’t help that I feel bad for people who are clearly hurting or struggling. If I want to expend my energy to try and put something positive out there, not just for this person but for others who might stumble across it, I don’t feel like that is a net negative to the world. If I’m just screaming into the void, well that’s my loss I guess.
knotadeer14
Citizen of Zooville
You are not capable of providing the help this person needs. It's admirable that you want to try and I appreciate that you want to, but the sad reality is that you can't save everyone.
Miss ZW
Esteemed Citizen of ZV
I know. Save is a strong word there tho. Help, positively interact maybe. Idk. Like I said. When I try and just give out some asked for advice, it’s for anyone that would be willing to read it. Not just the person asking. I get that people don’t see a point in trying to be positive towards others if there’s not a discernible positive outcome that can come of it. It is what it is. We all are different and have different opinions on things. But we all get to choose what we do with our time.
UR20Z
Dumpster Diver
No politics, m'lady. Nor even disagreement twixt thee and me. Just trying to save you some headache. This guy has a history of being a raving idiot, with every attempt to date to assist (or even just have a coherent conversation with) him just making the "crazy-pot" slop over.I’m not looking to get into a political argument.
Miss ZW
Esteemed Citizen of ZV
Thank you for your concern. I understand the intent behind your actions. I’ve already given what advice I could anyways for anyone to see if they wish. I doubt I’ll continue to give this thread anymore oxygen anyways and I’ll move on to roam the rest of this site. I hope you have a lovely day/night wherever you may be and I hope people in this world show you kindness beyond what you think you deserve.
i meant like money cars and 'status' like keeping up with the Joneses and stuff
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why does the USA enable disparagement to people who lost they're opportunities to learn to drive ?
iwanttobeabottom
Esteemed Citizen of ZV
Why have you "lost" your opportunity to learn?why does the USA enable disparagement to people who lost they're opportunities to learn to drive ?
You may be legally forbidden from obtaining a license, but that's very different from "losing your opportunity to learn to drive."