Is anybody else just fuckin lonely?

420Fatty said:
I dunno if it's my age, my sexual interests, my complete loss of all interest in the things I used to love or my personality, but I feel like all I do is distance myself and push people away when all I want is to connect.

Anyone else feeling like this or am I just going insane on my own?
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Yeah, I can relate, feel free to pm me if you want someone to talk to, I was/am in a similar boat, But i can see land.
 
Yes I’ve been getting depressed and lonely lately just don’t have the energy or desire to do anything so I just withdraw. But then I will have a good day and it is good. Sometimes it is a roller coaster
 
I've never felt truly lonely, I've been very fortunate on that regard. However the loneliest I've ever felt is when my then SO went on a pretty awful and negative rant about zoos just as I was hinting around to gauge their reaction. Took me longer than it should have taken me to break up with them. After that tho, it's been so much better just day to day. I would like for all you here to be able to feel that. Because I realized that the negativity was really pushing me down and I want all you to know what it's like to be better and happy!
 
420Fatty said:
I dunno if it's my age, my sexual interests, my complete loss of all interest in the things I used to love or my personality, but I feel like all I do is distance myself and push people away when all I want is to connect.

Anyone else feeling like this or am I just going insane on my own?
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You are not alone .... let's connect.
 
I'm not an overall lonely person, I've been fortunate to have family and friends but when it comes to the zoo part of my life, I've never had someone to share it with, even talk with. Joining this board has been very therapeutic for me, knowing that I'm not alone in this part of my life and being able to chat and share experiences really made a positive change. I hadn't realized how much I needed that connection.
 
420Fatty said:
You're both right. Honestly losing my vehicle has had a huge impact on my socializing. I used to go out, talk, was eager to explore. Now I don't even want to get to know anyone because I can't hang out with them like an actual adult.

It is an annoying pain in the ass but I'll get past it soon as I can. I miss real conversation, I'm so fucking awkward now.
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I do feel some of the same and I think it's because after a marriage and dating after that marriage, I have concluded I want to forge a relationship with someone that shares this same passion. Finding a woman that does is tough and regular women no longer interest me.
 
Samtasti26 said:
I'm not an overall lonely person, I've been fortunate to have family and friends but when it comes to the zoo part of my life, I've never had someone to share it with, even talk with. Joining this board has been very therapeutic for me, knowing that I'm not alone in this part of my life and being able to chat and share experiences really made a positive change. I hadn't realized how much I needed that connection.
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I've had a similar experience here, and it makes me happy that you've found camaraderie and connection :giggle:
 
Lickmypussy said:
I feel this. People get to close and i push them away. Just safer that way i guess.
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I've noticed that's a common thing with people into zoo or D/s. I think a lot of people feel vulnerable sometimes when they reveal their darker sides to others.
 
420Fatty said:
I dunno if it's my age, my sexual interests, my complete loss of all interest in the things I used to love or my personality, but I feel like all I do is distance myself and push people away when all I want is to connect.

Anyone else feeling like this or am I just going insane on my own?
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Honestly i dont think ive met more then a handful of people IRL who are in this community.. it can feel so incredibly alienating and lonely. so i feel it bad. Sending some love and stuffs from Australia to you <3
 
Not quite alone as got my animals to keep me company. Far as friends none that are that close too me but then that's the way I like it. My animals are my support they don't judge me or my mental health unlike humans do. They just love me for who I am and I love them for who they are. I never really had close friends as have never really fitted in anyways to get that close friends relationships.
 
KarenWGeorgiaGirl said:
long divorced, longer than some of yall have been alive. lost my daughter, 29, 2 years ago to sleep apnea. I live in Georgia. My son lives in Rhode Island. yes I get lonely. Got a great job at Wells Fargo and own my house but I throw myself out there on here and other sites cause I need to.

I like to meet. Does me alot of good
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I'm very sad to read that.
Even though you don't know me, I've been following you a long time on this site and I just wanted to say that you are beautiful and deserve all the love in the world ❤️
 
I have been as of late. Being a social person, it is hard to really make a connection any more with people. I have been divorced for about 10 years now and have been trying to hard to find someone to really share myself with. Someone who would allow me to really be me. Maybe one day but right now I am just hanging on. Being a part of this forum has allowed me to stretch my legs a bit. I have not had the pleasure of chatting with any of you all. So if anyone is just looking to chat and message with someone, I volunteer as tribute and would be more than happy to chat.
 
I often find myself alone, but the feeling of loneliness eludes me. Perhaps I have a unique psychopathy, but appreciating your very existence and the little details of everyday life satisfies me completely. Why should I feel lonely? The world is complex but incredible and asking you to understand it as best as you can.
 
Yes… whnevr I feels lonely I tries an learn som things on the guitar 🤷🏻‍♀️… I suggest to maybe a hobby of som sort that noo having to do with this stuff. 🤷🏻‍♀️
 
I got my animals which helps, they love me but what I do miss companionship can't go out for a meal or a movie with my girls, and if I am sick or have issues I still had to feed and take care of everybody.
I also don't talk about sex with people anymore because some say that to much info or get jealous of it and on my life is boring so don't have much to talk about.
Most the people on here either were me and demand I allow them sex with my girls or just send messages once every 4 or 5 days which you can't build a friendship or relationship.
If you're suffering from depression I would say get medical help maybe you need some kind of medicine to help you. If it's because you just want friends to talk to then go out and try to make friends. And if you're looking for more I can help you because I'm a total failure at relationships.
 
With my partner across the rainbow bridge I feel lonely at times. Working with other horses helps, but no matter how nice that is, they will never replace her. On top of that, I don't make easily contact with people, so nothing happens there: every time I look for friendship or a relationship it seems like I am invisible, or they are not interested, or they live on the other side of the world, or a combination of that all.
 
Chiara2003 said:
Yes… whnevr I feels lonely I tries an learn som things on the guitar 🤷🏻‍♀️… I suggest to maybe a hobby of som sort that noo having to do with this stuff. 🤷🏻‍♀️
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Guitar is a great hobby. But yeah, loneliness can be eased with a productive hobby. Especially one you can learn from.
 
Even though I have no opportunity to practice at home, I keep on playing with an orchestra, just to get me out of the house every week.
 
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