Zoosexual Spectrum -- Observations

There is so much psychology in this, and as usual psuchologists are desperate to put people in a "box" with a label on it. Basically we are all unique, but some always try to change themselves to be "like the others", maybe an old camouflage instinct.

Be what you are and throw those boxes far away.
 
Another would be, Born Zoo Exclusive, such as myself.

Speaking from personal experience, someone who has never had any sort of sexual feelings for another human, and have always had zoosexual feelings. it starts long before you can understand what any of it means, for example being the odd boy out that draws dog pussies and buttholes instead of what other boys were drawing, and even that early preferring the companionship of animals. from there it escalates to exploring the animal's body and learning to read their body language and know what they like. then as you learn what sex is and start to have sexual desires, those thoughts are always involving animals. You find the idea of sex with another human to be a huge turn off, completely uninterested, or even downright disgusting.

Its here that this category can split, as you could be the hermit type who solely prefers animal companionship for both friendship and love.

Or like me, you can have platonic friends, but only animal lovers that is you are only IN love with and attracted to animals.

Born Zoo Exclusives typically differ from those who become exclusive later in life for whatever reason, as Born Zoo Exclusives generally don't harbor ill will toward other humans of either gender the way those who are turned exclusive as a result of bad relationships or whatever reason tend to.
There is also another offshoot and that is me. I had sexual urges toward animals from the moment I hit puberty. Later in my teens/early 20's I became curious about human females, but not to have sex with in terms of sticking my penis in her, only to play with sexually and more specifically wanting to help her have sex with a horse. While I did try having sex with a human female just so I could find out if I liked it or not, I found I did not, and reverted back to only wanting sex with animals. I do however like playing with human females sexually, and want to help human females have sex with horses, but I do not have any desire to have penile penetration with my own penis into a human female.

I am not sure what category that would put me. I consider myself zoo exclusive because I have no desire to have my penis inserted into another human, or vise versa, yet does my desire to play with the human female genitals and to help a human female have sex with a horse make me not zoo exclusive? Of this, I am uncertain how to say I am categorized.
 
I have met people from all of the categories you have described here.

I feel there are more categories.

Like the person who sees animals as equals with a different childhood. When they mature and understand their bodies they explore each other. This is a mental and physical exploration. I suppose you could define it as seeking non verbal consent to do or try things that are new or different.

One case of this is when I first got Alpacas. I knew that they could have sex with humans but would they and what would it take.
From the time they arrived it was a case of learning how they lived and how they thought. The first thing I discovered is that a female Alpaca that feels pressured with no where to go. IE on a halter will drop to the ground in a sort of submission. This led to exploring her body which led to stimulating her which led to sex. In a few short weeks she went from being haltered to worm, trim toes etc to just putting a hand on her back and she would drop for sex or less appreciated was the possibility of worming etc. This progressed to missionary sex with Alpacas which they loved as long as there was no soft comfortable mattress on the ground. This mattress is seen as the shearing trigger.
The original owners were amazed at my training skills in that in a short time I could catch an Alpaca with a touch.

I found out that a randy male alpaca will literally run a female to submission to breed her. So they are pre programmed to be excited by the chase and offer themselves for sex when they are ready. If they are pregnant then in the wild and captivity they will fight to death not to be bred. Which I think is due to the male penetrating the cervix during sex. So pregnant sex in Alpacas will terminate a pregnancy so they are programmed to fight off any advances.

Some zoophiles are only interested in the compatible parts of the brain and body of the opposite sex. Like women who like to tease and excite their male dogs to get the dog to dominate them as if they are a female dog. Male zoos like to not only pretend to be the male of the same species but also bring to animal to new levels of sex. Like the guys with Ewes, a ewe will not come close to orgasm with a Ram. But their bodies are fully capable of reaching orgasm but it requires a human male to get them to orgasm. These Ewes are no longer the same as they were, their minds and bodies have experienced an awakening. They are super Ewes and always on the hunt for more orgasms.

There is a description that domestication of animals forced a change on humans too. From the time we decided to fence in animals so we could use them, we then had to provide for them non stop. IE going on holidays is no longer easy, the animals need to be checked on constantly. A real change for a hunter gatherer species.

I think the reason why domestication worked is we each gain something but have to sacrifice something. The zoophile takes this to another level. A ewe can reach sexual highs not normal to her species and her male partner can be excited by getting her there and can have sex as often as he wants. They say that orgasm is as much a mental thing as a physical thing.

I think some Zoophiles could be defined as explorers, exploring bodies and minds.

Others can be defined as sexual Zoos who are looking for different vaginas to experience they may not be aiming to get the female to her peak but are interested in the feel and experience of other species. In doing so the give the female her own increased experiences.
I like this description, I interpret it as finding a way to connect with the animal, I dont know how to describe the feeling other than a mutual understanding of each others needs and wants without verbal communication, realizing how the animal asks for sex and learning what they like and dont like. and ofc the day to day cuddles in bed and walks in the woods haha
 
Definitely really resonate with the supportive non-zoo male. It's really hot seeing a woman with a dog, whether it be submitting to their forcefulness or embracing their companionship. I think I'd be lucky if my girlfriend gained an interest in zoo, and I'd take great care in making sure she'd never be caught.
 
I've been thinking about this off/on for a while. I'll put what I have so far for discussion. I'm sure you can help me come up with better subheads and descriptions, expose my biases. It would be cool if this became something useful to read instead of just my initial, self-centered musings.

We so often use the label zoophilic as if it were one thing, and just as commonly we are labeled with the term as if we were all the same. Among ourselves we at best distinguish ourselves as either bestialist (and use that word as a pejorative) or zoophile (a less objectionable term used in our defense).

But it seems obvious to me that we are many, many shades of zoo. And although I use the word “spectrum” in my title, to think of us as being on a continuum may be more convenient but perhaps just as inaccurate.

Any means of trying to pigeonhole us this, that or the other, in my way of thinking, just doesn’t work. I’ve got notions in my head of various zoozexual identities or behaviors, and I’ll give them descriptive labels. But I do not mean for them to be limitations with firm boundaries. In fact, if you’re like me, more than one applies to you. During your lifetime, again like me, I’m guessing you’ve tended to be more like one than another, but found yourself moving more from one to another, then another, or back again -- and are more than one at the same time.

Zoosexuality, like all sexuality, ebbs and flows with our situation, our experiences, our encounters, our stage of life. None of us are a fixed thing, I think.

For the most part I avoided working the bestiality/zoophilia distinction, just using zoo to cover the spectrum. Here's a list of the sections to see what's here.
  • NON-ZOO
  • ZOO CURIOUS
  • EXPERIMENTAL BESTIALIST
  • VICARIOUS ZOO
  • DESPERATE ZOO
  • FACILITATOR ZOO
  • SWEET ROMANTICS
  • PANSEXUAL ZOO
  • SUPPORTIVE NON-ZOO MALE
  • CONFLICTED ZOO

NON-ZOO
Although there are some of us who can’t recall a time we were “never zoo,” for most people there is a time when it just never entered their minds, or if it did, they don’t remember it. Some people remain non-zoo their whole lives. I’m not thinking of people who “repress it,” which might underly the hostility of some of those who express the greatest contempt for zoosexuals. I’m just thinking of those for whom interspecies sexual fantasies or inclinations have not existed yet. The idea might even turn them off at this point in their lives.

This is the only kind of zoosexual I do not ever remember being. The moment I had any sexual “awareness” it was in regard to a horse and soon after, a dog. But my wife’s zoosexual awakening came in her 30s. Prior to that, no connection there at all.


ZOO CURIOUS

At some point in our lives we had no zoosexual experience yet. But it entered our minds. Whether we were barely old enough to grasp that the horses in the paddock had “parts” that were male or female, same as we had parts that identified us as male or female, or encountered bestiality on the Web, stumbling across it in our surfing or introduced to it by a friend, we noticed something that stuck in our minds.


EXPERIMENTAL BESTIALIST

At some point, those of us with experience moved beyond just having it “on our minds” and crossed the threshold of experience. Even this happens a variety of ways.

One version would be a child (or adolescent or grownup) whose dog submits to close inspection and touching its penis or vagina. It might just be seeing what’s in the sheath, or feeling its knot firm up, or if a female, probing its vagina.

Another may be a child (adolescent, grownup) who invites/allows a dog to lick his or her own genitals. In the heat of the moment, maybe it involves oral sex on the animal, or even penetrative sex.


VICARIOUS ZOO

For any number of reasons, this zoo-friendly person is not personally active zoosexually, and perhaps may never be. He or she may fantasize about being active, however, and is drawn to zoo stories of others. Maybe only reads the stories, biographical or fiction. Maybe is drawn to bestial pornography. They might even like to play the voyeur, or actively assist. But they themselves have not yet dared to venture into zoosexual activity personally.


DESPERATE ZOO

This is a little different, I think, than just those who “crossed the threshold” with the family pet. These are those of us who become obsessed with the idea of “doing it” with an animal that we take measures most zoos – and almost all non-zoos – frown upon.

We may opportunistically seize the moment with an animal we’ve been left alone with, or we may negotiate arrangements with an owner to “finally get to do it.”

It may be we acted out while pet-sitting or while left with the animal when the owner has been called away or with a friendly stray behind a building. It might be we finally “find an owner” while on a zoosexual forum, like this one, who can hook us up to pop our zoophile cherry.

We may be a person who’s become so intent on fulfilling our fantasy that we’ve been watching for the right moment to “hop a fence” or coax the neighbor’s dog into a private place, and then did.

This is the person desperate to put a checkmark in the box, panicked by the thought they may never get the chance.


FACILITATOR ZOO

A number of motivating factors fuel this person's interest in acquiring and/or maintaining animals for others to use. Could be the owner of a single dog, mini stallion, donkey or horse; might have a number of animals in a rural, private location and are willing to "share"; or might simply be someone who's gotten access to animals.

Usually men, sometimes couples, much more rarely women -- the facilitators advertise themselves as being able in general to service anyone who would like take them up on it: novices, for instance, who are looking for their first time; or experienced zoos looking for a different species, such as a bitch lover, for instance, who's always wanted to try a mare. Others may limit the offer with a specific "clientele" in mind: only women or only men, or perhaps just women or couples but no single men.

The facilitator might be altruistically motivated, acting out of compassion to help out those in despair, those who feel hopeless that they'll ever get a chance to finally "do it," make their fantasy come true. They might have gotten tired of "everybody talking zoo but nobody doing anything about it." So they've stepped in to make things "real," not just online threads of wishful thinking.

Naturally, some of the men who offer others animals are in it for their own pleasure, ingratiating themselves on those they target as a personal guide and safeguard. But it may be, for some, just "bait" to lure a person, usually a woman, to perform zoosexually for them up close and personal. They might ask to photograph or video the action. One facilitator invited my wife to have her first encounter with a horse (we turned him down) on the condition he got to video it. He wanted to post it to the internet, gaining his pornographer creds that way. Another's proposal was predicated on the man getting to have "sloppy seconds," a huge fantasy for him. We *almost* went through with that one. We were new to zoo back then, too inexperienced with the zoo spectrum to detect dishonesty. We learned the horse was not his nor did he have legitimate access to it. He offered to substitute a German Shepherd in its place, which wasn't his either, but he was going to pet-sit for a neighbor that weekend. This man represents only one type of facilitator some might be wary of. But there are, as described earlier, altruistic facilitators who are legit and genuinely want to be helpful in sharing their animals.

Note that "sharing" animals is a point of contention between some members of the larger zoo community.


SWEET ROMANTICS

One early definition of romance was “fiction.” Romance stories were those that, sometimes heavy handedly, always have a happy ending.

Were you ever a “lovesick teenager”? Have you ever seen a lovesick teenager? What teenagers call love, we often call mere infatuation. We suspect that they’re not really “in love with” the person they have a crush on; they’re just in love with the “idea” of being in love. They’ll just die if they don’t have someone to be their boyfriend or girlfriend. They have to “be in a relationship.” So they grab another person and invent one. The other person "fills the bill"and their Facebook pages are filled each day with all these “sweet” pictures of the perfect couple.

We see the same thing among some zoosexuals. Not a person riding shotgun this time but their dog or horse or other animal. They are so desperate to be romantically involved that they impose a uniquely human construct – that of spouse – upon an animal.

I’m not judging them, I swear. All of us do this, I think, at some point or another. Whether its another human or a different species. And it’s so much “easier” to do this with another species, since an animal has absolutely no ability to comprehend the complexity of human romance. They simply crave attention, a bond they have with you and your warmth and affection, and they get it. So, whatever. Dress them in little clothes or talk mushy to them – it’s meeting their needs just fine, though they don’t understand at all what you’re making it out to be. Works out great for you because, hey, no chance of rejection. No arguments, really (though animals absolutely can be defiant or bullheaded!). They will never throw the ring at you and say either you or they have to go, and they're getting the kids. They don’t ever judge you or condemn you the way we humans do at times.

For me, this isn't as much a distinction of one zoophile from another but an insightful glimpse on human relationships -- any kind. The healthiest human romances are built on interdependent commitment, a term created to distinguish them from unhealthy liaisons based on “mutual dependency” fictionalized as “romance.” But really, how many relationships around us are this type? I think most of us fall short of this in our relationships. You can no more call a romantic zoophile's relationship “silly” for the fiction they may represent than the so-called "romantic" relationships most humans have with each other.

Almost any romance is exactly what it originally was: a sweet fiction. So.. enjoy the story! Love stories rock!

Still, just as human-human love is so much more mutually beneficial when each partner is committed to the “genuine other,” I really admire zoosexuals in this category who focus intently on learning exactly who their animals are, and then loving them for their genuine selves. Their animals are not their wives nor husbands nor little children – though they may playfully call them that for the sake of others who can’t understand it any other way. But bottom line, to them, their animals are distinct beings, each with their own unique personality. And that’s exactly who they love them for. Not some character they construct for them but who they are themselves.


PANSEXUAL ZOO

Pan is a Greek suffix that means “all.” But Pan is also a Greek pastoral god, an entertaining fun little god of shepherds and nature.

Both work in this sense. For some pansexuals, sex might be an option for any or all relationships, since their sexual attraction isn’t limited by gender or sexual identity: cisgender, transgender, intersex and androgynous, ad infinitum. Participating in sexual activity solely depends on a prospective partner’s inclination and, of course, whether they’re sexually monogamous or not. (Pansexual doesn’t mean you are promiscuous; just means who you tie the knot with isn’t limited by sexuality).

In the case of a pansexual zoo, sexual attraction is also not restricted to human-human relationships. It includes the attraction to interspecies sex.

Naturally there are many, many shades of pansexual zoo as well. Some are monogamous and loyal to and having sex solely with their current partner, a lifelong partner perhaps; while others that we know are involved in various lifestyle communities and/or are in open relationships. And their zoosexual activities span the zoo spectrum, ranging from “open invitation” for the animal to participate if it’s inclined to, to soliciting for and procuring an animal they can use objectively and temporarily for their sexual gratification.

(My wife and I are the former, allowing our pets to join with us when we have sex but not focusing on having sex with them. They may participate however suits them or not at all. It’s left up to them).


SUPPORTIVE NON-ZOO MALE

Have you noticed how many men are not zoo themselves, but they relish bestiality porn featuring a woman and a horse, dog, pig or other animal? Have you see how many men post their desire to find and marry a woman who’ll have sex with animals?

I initially sub-headed this “CHAUVINIST ZOO.” At first glance that seemed totally appropriate, if you focus on some of the posts guys have made that got the most reaction. But I realized the term was unnecessarily offensive, since chauvinist is generally a pejorative. I also realized after only a moment’s reflection that it represents just one faction of the men in this class who – like even me, I admit – are turned on by seeing a woman and an animal together. (Even just this morning I searched for and found some I thoroughly enjoyed.)

Don’t get me wrong, I’m sure they exist – but I don’t think I’ve yet seen a single post by a non-zoo woman, not interested in having sex with animals herself, was desperately seeking a man that was into having sex with animals. She just couldn't see herself being married to a man that wasn't into having sex with her dog or horse.

I don't think I'm alone. Look how many of those men who eventually do find a zoosexual woman to talk to are suddenly suspicious she's not real. They can’t resist the urge to interrogate her, even demand she prove she's real. That's how much they just can't believe one exists, or that they were fortunate enough to run across one. It might be because the vast body of bestial porn that’s available is so fake. It’s hard to overcome the notion that women would do such things only if they were paid lots of money.

That’s got to be a special class of “zoo” by itself. And it’s not a small group: abound on the Net.

Why even include this as a category of zoo (non-zoo men in search of a woman who likes bestial sex)? Because in this group are also those men who are truly supportive. They are searching for a soulmate who, if zoo-sexual, they will offer safety, security, confidence, and appreciation. They're offering a zoosexual woman a human life partner that they do not have to hide anything from, that they can trust their whole being with, an ally standing with them against those in society who stand ever ready to persecute or exploit them.

Maybe I should have made two separate categories, then? Suggest how to revise it and let’s make it open to discussion.


CONFLICTED ZOO

Any person can be a conflicted zoo due to his or her zoosexual orientation, whichever place on the spectrum they may be. It’s because their zoosexuality is at odds with something else in their identity. A clash of values. First to come to mind is religion, but it could be, “My parents would not be proud of me for this” – no matter what age the person is right now! If fact, there are members of this forum I’ve communicated with who are in their late 50s and are suffering inner turmoil. A couple of them, it’s just because it seems to them what they do ‘is’ exploitation or abuse, their personal perception of it. Or it might be, "I can't be zoo and feel like I'm a mother/father my children can be proud of." Or my spouse. Or... self-hatred: "I hate the idea of people having sex with animals. I want to have sex with animals. I hate myself."

For some, it’s not wholly about being zoosexual but about certain things that they have done. Maybe they feel guilt about times when they were too coercive, or too “creepy” about it, or the animal for some reason is wary of them now and they know something they did has caused it.

At some point, most of us have probably been a conflicted zoo. But this is true of all sexualities, isn’t it? Sex is just a part of being human that easily becomes a lot of baggage we carry around. Some of us, for life.
Great, just great.
 
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